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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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I'm dying my hair tomorrow, (permanent)blonde and I don't know if I should wash my hair tonight when I'm gonna shower/bath. I heard its better for the dye to sink/stay in oily hair then fresh dry. Is that true? I haven't washed it for 3 days. Thanks in advance. :-)

hey, its fine to wash your hair. if you choose not to the hairdresser can also! thats what i did. cait♥

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i know this isnt fashion or style, but what are good concealers(not foundation)that covers acne well?
thanks

hey, use neotrogena on the spot. cait♥

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i have a few questions. i want a pair of dior sunglasses they are black big and have dior in big whote letters on the side of them. i cant seem to find a site with them. also for the burberry scarves... im sure you know what i am talking about the plaid ones what is the brown color called that there are two, camel and nova check but which is better?

ill rate 5's for all!

hey, i didnt really get what you mean. so try searching google.com for dior and burberry stuff. cait♥

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one of my abercrombie skirts keep shrinking,and when I mean shrinking i mean getting shorter. The skirt isnt hemmed at the bottom. Any suggestions on washing it?

hey, do machine wash cold for your washer. dont dry it tho. i have the same problem all my stuff shrinks so i just gave up on the dryer and i hang up ALL of my clothes now. cait♥

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Ok so my hair is long...when I say long i mean like past my hips long and I'm 5'4"! Anyway my mom doesn't want me cut it but I don't want to cut it all off...I jus want about 5 inches off! I told her and she keeps saying when i get older blah blah blah. If it was for my family i'd keep it but sometimes I can't wash it in the evenin cause i hate to blowdry and then sometimes i get up late and it takes about 20 mins to comb it neat to go to school. And also because alot of kids tell me " you always have your hair like that...it m ust keep tired"! And I'm sick of it..I jus want it a few inches shorter!!!

Please help me to get a way for her to get me to cut my hair and I don't want her to know kids truble me because then she'll make me move to a nex school n i relly like this one!!!!

I have about 4 days...so help me please

hey, everyone else is right. go to locks of love. also try styling it differently. like instead of leving it straight put it in a messy bun or scrunch it. cait♥

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Ok i was wondering does jergens natural glow work good...im gonna use it but im scared that i will turn orange. i was just wondering like how much you apply and does it give directions in the box..?
i kno i sound stupid but this is my first time trying a tanning product
thanks

hey, i just started using mine 3 days ago. i got mine at CVS. but its a veyr hard product to use. because your skin is nto evenly colored each spot in your skin takes the color differently. the reason why this product gets you so tan is because they use dye to dye your skin tan. i used it and i have some orangeish tanish random spots on my legs and arms but the rest of my body was completly tan. cait♥

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Ok. I have REALLY straight hair. How can I get like curls, (preferably like bigger curls to make my hair just look wavy).

Preferably people who have the same type of hair, but I'm willing to hear any ideas at this point.

hey, i have curly hair myself but i know a few products that my friend uses to make her hair curly. she uses curl&wash shampoo and conditioner. you can get it on tv or any drugstores/pharmacys. she also uses aussie sprunching gel. yes its sprunching not scrunching. cait♥

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This question has been asked alot, but mine's a bit different. I need a dress for my 8th grade dance, it needs to be nice, somewhat dressy, bun not like, dressy dressy like a prom or anything.. if that makes sense =\

Any websites with cute AND affordable dresses?

hey, a few peopel said this already but deb is the best place to go. theres one problem tho: some of there dresses are very clingy and if your big boned they may not look good on you, but you could try. macys is also another good place. cait♥

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well ive been thinking about getting on birth control. i was planning on going to plan parenthood because my parents cant find out. my question is, is it 100% confedinetal there? and also about how much would it cost (appoinment and birth control pills), and what should i expect when i go there. anything else i should know? please help. i rate 5's.

hey, they cant tell your parents anytthing. if you want to know more about the business they you should call them. if you dont want to do that search them on google.com cait♥

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okay well, there is this kid i kno who liked me first and then i started liking him, and he is so sweet. But, he has a g/f. My friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes and she said well don't you have a g/f. He responded "yeah but we are planing on breaking up but i want her to break up wit me becuase her dad is the coach of the football team, and I don't want him to hate me". So my friend said "yeah but i know how you are too(meaning that he is a very sextual person)and renee isn't like that she won't let you have it that easily." which im not im not reeally that sextual toward a guy .. Anyway so he said"yeah but i can be pretty persuasive." so you see my questions are as follows
-do you think i should back off and totally
ignore him till i get over him(which would be
really hard becuase i like him sooo much i never
liked a guy like this before)so i don't get hurt?

-do you think he only wants me for _ _ _?

-should i keep liking him or would that be wrong?

-and if you think i keep liking him if i will get hurt?

Thank you so much if you can help im so confused i can't consentrate in school cuz i like him so much i can't sleep cuz i think bout him all night. I don't know what to do PLEASE HELP. by the way im a 15 year old female in high school

hey, its not wrong to like him. just ebcause he has a girl doesnt mean you cant like him. he may only want you for sex, but you never know. if you really really want to get into a relationship wiht him be careful. guys like him can hurt you. cait♥

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what do you call the dip in the middle of your back? like how the back slightly caves in vertically at the bottom

hey, ask your doctor about it. you could also just search google.com cait♥

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HELP!!!! i have horrible sunburn what do i do to make me feel beter i can't move i have been crying all day cause it hurts so bad i can't put clouths on unless i scream help me plez thanx

hey, i used aloe vera. its vitamin filled and does wonders with a sunburn. the sunburn is still going to hurt, but aloe vera will ease the pain. cait♥

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how do i keep really bad strech marks from coming while i'm pregnate and any advice about giving birth plez help me thanx alot

hey, strech marks are going to be a part of pregnauncy and theres really not much that you can do about it. they have certain vitamin creams and lotions that my cousin used. as for giving birth, just make sure you have your father of the baby wiht you and there for your support. if hes not with you anymore bring another family member in wiht you. cait♥

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Okay so I am 14/f and will be graduating from 8th grade this year. The only thing is i do not want to go to my graduation because i dont want to have to walk infront of all the people, this is because I have Cerebral Palsy. It is a disorder that cause tight hamstings and makes me walk ver different from others. I am very self consious of this. I want to be a part of graduation but walking on stage and down an aisile(sp?) really acres me. I know that other should not judge me but. I just really dont know what to do any advice would help.I also have a big problem with stage fright and public things such as this ..if that means anything.

hey, if your cerebral palsy has been a problem for you before (meaning people have been rude about it and said bad stuff to you) then i would feel the same way. try talking to one of the people runnign the graduation (an adult) about it and ask if theres any other way to be a part of graduation. but if no one has said anything to you before then dont worry. stnad proud and graduate! but even if they did you cant just worry about walking for the rest of your life and like "oh how am i gonna look when i walk" or "i wonder if people are gonna stare at me". honestly who cares what they think! cait♥

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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I wrote him a poem in his birthday card called "Your Love". I showed it to my sister and a friend and they both told me it was depressing. It doesn't feel that way to me but I don't want him to think it is so can I get a general vote on this as a first-hand impression. I don't want to make it seem negative or anything...

Your love is wine
Moist in my mouth
It tastes too sweet to be
Something I could drink ordinarily

Your love is rum
Burning my throat
A warm feeling on a cold night
But only for a while

Your love is vodka
Turning my stomach
Dizzy spells leading to insanity
And a carefree state of mind

Your love is poison
Holding my breath
Ending my heartbeat
You make me blind

hey, yes i think its depressing. i suggest that you search love poems on google or try a local library for poem books. if you want you could just re-write the poem. go to wittprofiles.com and get some ideas there. cait♥

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I've finally decided where to go to college next year. I cancelled the housing/dorm form since I figured I could live with my sister in her apartment right by the school. I thought this would be great since the dorms at the school are notoriously crazy and that's not me at all.

Yet, now I'm having second thoughts. I already have a boyfriend, so I'm not worried about finding a 'hot guy' to hook up with or anything, but asside from classes, will I meet as many people? Would I be missing out on basic college experiences if I don't live in a dorm?

hey, living in a dorm is one of the biggest parts in college. it allows you to be social with rommates and other people livng around you. there are pros and cons of living in a dorm. if you move in with your sister you wont have as many new friends. you may have a few but not as much as you would have if you lived in a dorm. so i would go with living in the dorm! ps. dorms might be wild and crazy but you dont have to participate in those crazy things! cait♥

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Im really upset, i said id go out with my bestfriends cousin, he seemed like a really nice guy n ova msn we got really close, we talked thru my bestfriend alot n even had cyber n sent exposing fotos...he then said a few things that upset me, like "i love you becuase i want to have sex with you" and refused to call me, he is now in europe for a coulple of weeks n in that time i became friends with this other guy that im meeting up with him tommorrow, we hav planned to get a bit friendly...*hint hint* n he wants to be with me, the other guy im with is a tool, bt he has his sweet moments, bt im cheating on him with another guy, cheating isnt my style, should i ruin his holiday and tell him now, or should i cheat on him and tell him when he gets back? need sum serius help her guys!

hey, well you have more of a history with the guy you met through you friend. so in my opion i thik that you shouldnt even get "friendly" or start a relationship with this other guy. you just met him and honestly he prob. doesnt even care about you. the other guy thats in europe prob. does care about you. but if you insist on cheating on the europe guy then i would tell him now. its better because if you dont he think that he has like the perfect girlfriend type person and that everythings okay. but if you tell him and go for the other guy then you might not get a chance to get back with europe guy. cait♥

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ok. well me and this guy were going out for about 3 months and a day. he broke up with me for another girl. and that never worked out. we fought alot after the break up, and its been about 3 months since the breakup. we ignored eachother for like 3 weeks. and then he started talking to me ALOT. i still love him, and want him back. the last thing i said to him was "why do you keep IMing me, i thought you hated me" and he always contacts me, i never contact him. but now he doesnt anymore. he says he never thought about going back out with me, he told my best friend that. and he says in his myspace hes single and looking, but just wants to have fun, no serious relationship. i would love to makeout with him, and just have sexual fun with him, but not actually have sex. im 13 years old. and im not sure what to do, say, or make a move. i want to make him horny, and get him interested and everything but nothing too serious. i just want him back. any suggestions ?

hey, okay first off your only 13!! you shouldnt want to do sexual things and make him horny. making out is fine but sexual things and making him horny are going to far. but thats your preference. if you just want this relationship for sexual matters then i wouldnt go for it, because chances are thats all he wants to. if thats true he might break your heart, again. but if you really want a relationship aside sexual things then go for it! to get him back just write him a note expressing how you feel. that way he cant scream in your face or delete the email you sent him. he could rip up the note but chances are that he wont, because when most people get notes they want to read them. cait♥

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this girl i like, i found out she had a boyfriend recently. should i just give up? should i wait maybe they will break up? or should i make a move, maybe she will go for me instead 8*). or should i just be friends and juss in the future maybe it happens it happens. thanks

hey, jsut be friends for now and wait and see what happens in the future. let her know your interesting tho. cait ♥ = ].

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I'll get to the point. when i was 6 & 11 i was rapped.Im 14 now but whenever im with my boyfriend and were kissing or somthing ill start screaming and hell be all scared that im dieing or somthing...what should i do?

hey, you jsut have to learn how to trust your byofriend. if he loves you and cares about yo then him raping you shouldnt be a problem. cait &heaarts; = ].

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