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Two boys one me, ones a jerk, ones gorgeous...HELP


Question Posted Wednesday April 19 2006, 4:42 am

Im really upset, i said id go out with my bestfriends cousin, he seemed like a really nice guy n ova msn we got really close, we talked thru my bestfriend alot n even had cyber n sent exposing fotos...he then said a few things that upset me, like "i love you becuase i want to have sex with you" and refused to call me, he is now in europe for a coulple of weeks n in that time i became friends with this other guy that im meeting up with him tommorrow, we hav planned to get a bit friendly...*hint hint* n he wants to be with me, the other guy im with is a tool, bt he has his sweet moments, bt im cheating on him with another guy, cheating isnt my style, should i ruin his holiday and tell him now, or should i cheat on him and tell him when he gets back? need sum serius help her guys!

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Additional info, added Wednesday April 19 2006, 5:02 am:
im 15 yrs old btw .

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ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 10:27 am:
Wow you defiantly have alot going on don`t you..

Well this guy that says "i love you because i want to have sex with you" [IS AN ASS] No girl deserves that even if he does have "His sweet moments"

Also i would of expected this tho espcially sice you were senting pictures of yourself that were your face..So maybe he figured you`d let him go farther then just looking at pictures..Show some respect for yourself && body sweetie or things like this happen..

Having this other guy might be a new start for you..So take your time in a relationship && get rid of the old guy!!..Get to know this guy..don`t jump into things.. I know your 15 && want to experiment with guys but you can go to far && get a bad rep or regret it later..

Hope you make a good decision && one that makes you happy!

♥DEz

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Razhie answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 10:20 am:
How about don't cheat, or stop cheating now, tell your guy in Europe as soon as you can that it is over, and then go out with the new one.

If cheating 'isn't your style' then don't do it. If you cheat, then you are a cheater. Easy as pie.

But honestly, if you are cybering, sending photos and arranging to get friendly with guys only a week or two after you met them you are setting yourself up for some disappointment. Trust me, I've been there and done that. The sooner you fool around with a guy, the sooner he morphs into an incredible jerk. Get to know them a bit better first and you wont find yourself in this situation with a 'tool' for a boyfriend nearly so often.

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BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 10:06 am:
hey, well you have more of a history with the guy you met through you friend. so in my opion i thik that you shouldnt even get "friendly" or start a relationship with this other guy. you just met him and honestly he prob. doesnt even care about you. the other guy thats in europe prob. does care about you. but if you insist on cheating on the europe guy then i would tell him now. its better because if you dont he think that he has like the perfect girlfriend type person and that everythings okay. but if you tell him and go for the other guy then you might not get a chance to get back with europe guy. cait♥

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prescott answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 8:19 am:
You're 15.... Why are you giving yourself up to a complete stranger??!!

And do you think that your bestfriend's cousin will take notice of this?

If he did, don't you think that he will more probably want to be closer and persist on having sex with you? Seeing that you are so open to the concept and all.

My dear, why pull yourself down to such a level just to get the even with someone who probably doesn't even care.

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