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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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Is it okay to be bi, have 1 gf and 1bf and not tell your parents?
How do u no if ur bi, lesbian or straight?
The only way any perosn can tell what kind of person they want to be with is by writing down what they like about each one. If you think about both sides all the time and thats all you want you are bi. If you think about only girls and look at men as only friends then you are a lesbian. If you think about only men and look at women as only friends then you are straight.
15/f
Everybody has their own privacy limits.
My mom and my dad both sneak on my computer and look at what i do!
So does my brother.
My youtube account has this really big love speach and i poured my heart out in it. I like to keep myself annoymous and i dont like anyone to know who i am. My parents looked at my whole youtube account and theyre always asking me if they an use my computer.
I have no problem with that, but its not like i do anything bad.
Its just like your parents looking at your diary you know?
It feels really uncomfortable.
I have a boyfriend named dannis (well call him that for now)
They dont allow me to have a boyfriend (which brings me to my next subject)
I dont see what the big deal in having a boyfriend is, i really dont. We love eachother, and there is nothing wrong with that.
And trust me, before i start a relationship i make sure we are both ready.
I am also a good girl, i dont do anything stupid, and i pick the right guys.
And my parents know it.
They invade my privacy BEYOND REASON.
I understand some small things, but this is going way WAY too far.
They asked to check their email and i come in and their looking at my youtube account??!
Not only did they lie, but they are invading my pricacy.
I feel so hurt and betrayed.
I hate lying to my parents and thats what i had to do.
Otherwise, they wont let me see my boyfriend anymore.
Love really REALLY hurts.
I dont want oppinions, or facts.
I need advice.
Please.
You have every right to feel the way you do. They are stepping way over their boundaries. As for the account they keep invading, save everything you said or have on it. Then close this one and open another using a different name. Something that would throw off your parents. Also when you are exiting your own account make sure you log out so they can't get into it right after you entered into it. The truth is, with parents like yours, they will never change. I know it is hard to lie to them about your boyfriend but you have to have a life of your own, a life they are not invading. Love is definitely a complicated situation but thats all the more reason to live a life with someone to love.
how old is lisanova? real name is lisa donovan
shes a youtube celebrity at comedy
I was just reading an article on her. She is 28.
how do you make words on myspace underlined
Type it on microsoft word, underline it, copy it, and then paste it onto myspace. That is the only thing I can think of.
I'm an 18 year old male, just graduated from high school. I made the mistake of speeding one too many times, and as a result, my license is suspended. Luckily, it got suspended right after I quit my job.
It's now summer. Naturally, like every other graduated senior, I like to stay out late with friends and my girlfriend. My mom has told me to call her when I end up staying the night somewhere, but I haven't been doing that because I don't want to wake her up (she wakes up early for work and needs her sleep).
She told me today that I need to get a job and come home by 1am every night. She is unwilling to take me to a job, so I don't know how I'd get there with a suspended license. And 1am? I'm 18, for goodness sake. She said she'll kick me out if I don't do those two things.
What do I do?
Well all she is saying is to get a job no matter what it is. You can get a job that has a low amount of hours so you won't have to work very often and you are pleasing her as well. As for the 1 am thing. You are 18 and that means she has no control over what you do legally. I don't know your mother but if she is bluffing then she will be happy with just a job. Maybe getting an apartment or living on campus will give you the freedom you need and get her out of your hair. If you live on campus or an apartment she can't say anything about what you do. Since she is not willing to drive you to the place you need, check out local places where you can walk.
Hey,
well, I haven't started my period yet and I wanted to know when I do will my stomach flatten out and
I'll lose more weight? I don't like how I look towards my stomack. I weigh 119. what is the weight
for a 12 to 13 year old? I go to the YMCA almost everyday and I burn a good amount of calories.
If, you have any healthy tips to lose weight please
tell.
Thanks in advance:)
You need to eat 5 small meals a day. This will help you digestive system, it will actually digest your food easily and less painfully. It is good to at least drink a couple bottles of water a day and maybe a glass of milk too. Yes not having a period will make you really bloated before it happens. Once you start, the fluids that are being cramped in your body will finally be released. This is why people get cramps and bloat. Give it some time and it will get easier to lose the weight you want once you have started your period.
17/f
I am thinking of maybe going to university next year after I finish high school. I really want a career in art but I have no idea what I could possibly do.
I don't want to do like technology or anything involving computers ie: graphic artist etc.
I also know that I can't just be an artist because no artists make any money until they die anyway.
What careers could I possibly think about so I know what to do in uni?
Well it depends on what you like to draw. Lets say you like to draw animation characters. You could design your own comics for stores, work with publishers and design their covers and such for a publishing company. You could design your own posters to sell in different retail stores. You could also sketch your own tattoos that you can give to tattoo shops. When you go to a university they will have you take basic classes then get you into your major so you have more time to think about it. With a degree in art itself you could make money doing all of these things.
is a change of paace having any concerts in massachusetts anytime soon? i can never find them on ticketmaster.
If you go to myspace.com and look up the band through the music section it will tell you when they are playing on their main websites. Where they are hosting, having, tours, and what places they will be stopping at for concerts. Tickets at ticketmaster don't go on sale for conecrts at least 4-5 months in advance so if it is farther away than that you won't see it. A way to tell which band is the legimate myspace, look to see which one has the most hits and plays.
This is the first time I'm having a serious relationship with a guy. Most of my relationships don't last for more than a mth, but this guy and I have been going out for 4 mths. I know its not a big deal, but 4 mths is an encouragement to me.
The thing is, How do you girls know if it is the right time to give "it" to him? I don't want our first time to be something that happened just because we felt really horny that day or whatsoever.I'd like it to be meaningful. I know my bf loves me a lot. But I'm just afraid.. what if the relationship won't last? I may be happy now, but what if in the near future it takes a turn for the worst, and that'll be when I regret giving my first time to him.
It is a tricky situation considering you are already ahving regrets before naything has happened. It is hard to make that decision without feeling some sort of regret. When people do that after they get married they know that it is the right time. That is why our tradition tries to follow in that step. It is right thing to do and it makes the couple feel relieved before and after it happens. It is a very hard decision to make and most people don't relize that the times have changed. It is not a decision for you to make alone you need talk to your boyfriend. If you can have this conversation then you are more than likely ready but if it feels awkward or you just don't want to bring it up it is not the right time. The relationship has a 50% either way, it is more about whether you are willing to take the risk. I would say maybe wait a year because it seems more appropriate. Four months is not really the time, if it is the right time you will know it. It is time of no regrets before and after. Make a list of all the positive things from doing this and the negatives. This will give you an idea of where you stand when choosing which path you want.
Well my friends are always telling me how messed up my hair is. Its half wavy and frizzy and parted on the left side. Its just below shoulder length and dirty blonde. I tried a super expensive straightening bit but it was supper expensive and it didn't last as long as i had hoped. I use Aussie smooth Conditioner and Shampoo and blow dry it every morning but i live in Miami so its incredibly humid. I tried straightening it every morning but it just burned my hair. Any advice?
My hair expands when it is humid out too. The best way to get it completely straight is to washe your hair in tresseme. It is the best shampoo to use for your kind of hair. Maybe even consider dying it too, that will help lossen some of the curls. When you wash your hair blow dry it but divide your hair when blow drying. If you just blow dry it the way that it is parted it wil dry that way to. Continiously brush you hair at the same too that way it will dry straighter. The way you divide it have it in a half pony tail then slowly take hair down when you finished drying the section. There is a straightner that is really flat that you can find in dollar general and it is absolutely wonderful. It will be black and have gold on it too. Let the straightner heat for 15 minutes that way it is relly hot when you start. Don't use ay cremes, lotions, hairspray because those things make hair worse. Divide you hair like you did when you were blow drying that way you are straightening all of the sections making it as straight and flat as you possible can. A smooth dying color would be black and absolutely beautiful.
I am 14/f and my sister is 17/f. My mom and dad always say that they love me, but whenever me and my sister fight, they take her side and i get in trouble. I know right now i may seem like a bratty kid but hear me out. So i went in her room to get MY dress and she got pissed, told my mom, and I got grounded because i went to get MY dress SHE stole. How is that fair? They also take my hard earned chore money and give it to her who has a job but uses her money to buy beer and drugs. My sister assumes that its her place to take my make-up, clothes, bags, money, and jewelry without asking and when i yell at her my parents say, "shes going through a rough time, give her a break" and ground me. So My sister has her EIGHTH prom, and my parents are choosing to stay home with her instead of taking me to the doctor for my bad allergies. and im just done. what can i do to stop this from keep on happening? thanks for reading
The truth is it never really ends. I know exactly how you feel and it doesn't feel good knowing that your parents like one child better than the other. I would make a list of things that they do for you and do for her. The list is definitly going to be in your favor. You have to show them physical proof of what they are doing or they won't listne. You have to make a choice can you live with this kind of torture or do you want it to end. If you can live with it then I suggest becoming your own person by not giving your money to anyone. Use it for yourself even if you have to hide it in your bra after you get it. It is your money and she doesn't deserve to have it considering she has a job. If you can't live with it then I would scope for a relative who loves and adores you and move in with them. Moving out will definitely wake them up. If you emanicipate yourself your parents have no say in what you do and they can't stop you either. If you don't have a relative consider living on your own. You have unlimited options you can choose from.
I guess this comes under meantal health...
Ok well i used to be a cutter last year.
Bad i started about 3 years ago and stopd lasted year.
The thing is ive got so depressed lately all i want to do is harm...
I just want to get a knife and go deep.
To be honest im waiting for someone to cut me by accident or whatever. (if you get what i mean)
Im not a type of person that takes the wrong road twice so i really dont want to go back to it.
ANd im full of advice for everyone... except me.
I just want that red liquid to emerge from my skin.
To trinkle down my wrist.
To feel the stingy numbing pain....
Please point me in the right direction
Vikki
You may not have noticed but you write poetry very well. wanting red liquid to emerge from my skin, to trinkle down my wrist, to feel stingy numbing pain. The thing with cutting is they resort to it because it helps them release their pain. A way to get around that is find something to replace it. The thing that could help you is poetry or even writing stories. You have a gift for good descriptions. Give it a shot by writing out your feelings through poetry. The more you write the less you want to start cutting again. Your emotions are trapped but writing out those emtoions will help you recieve closure. It is easy to help someone else but it is hard helping yourself the most.
i envy the way some people can make eye contact with someone while they are talking and still be able to concentrate on what the person is saying AND be able to think about what they said, and then come up with a response. I CANT DO THAT! i am pretty much infamous for asking people to repeat what they said a lot of the time.
whenever i make eye contact i focus on their eyes instead of what they are actually saying..and then when they finish what they said i have to ask them to repeat it. i also noticed that sometimes i am kind of a slow thinker i guess, like a lot of times i realize that im just staring at a place but not really thinking.
this is bothering me, especially the eye contact thing. i need advice on how to look @ people but FOCUS on what they are saying and be able to think about what they said. WITHOUT freaking them out.
I used to have the same issue. The problem is not your or your mind it is your comprehensive skills. A way to develop them more is by reading books, newspapers, etc. Reading helps you retain what you are listening to because when you read you are reciting the words in your head. If you can learn how to comprehend what you are reading at kinds of different levels of reading it will dramatically change when you are talking to a person. Your mind will see as you retaining what you are hearing like when you mind hears you saying the words of a book in your head. Another thing is to focus on what they saying first then once you have that nailed down then start giving them eye cntact. You have to train yourself to do one then the other before you can do both at the same time.
Prom is Saturday. so i need answers ASAP.
Okay. My dress is coral, like kinda red, kinda orange. it starts short and gets longger. I have brown eyes, medium skin tone, and dark brown hair. What kinda of make-up should i wear? and what colors? and just that kinda stuff. anything would be helpful. i have no idea what colors and stuff. so thank you!
I would go to walmart and find cover up that looks kind of like a toile seat. It is cover girl that feels like a liquid coverup but it is also a powder. It is abslutely wonderful blending in your skin. You want to buy some under eye cover up so that you can match your skin color under your eyes to the rest of your face. When you put on the cover up take your hand and rub it in so it blends to your natural skin tone. Then take some lotion and out it on your face so that it makes you face smell good and make it feel real soft. As for blush you want maybe a light pink that will be noticeable but not over kill. Eyeshadow should be light or medium brown. You want your makeup to look as natural as you can. Put some black mascara and eyeliner on.
Okay so me and my friends have always taken summer nice and easy, and also sort of boring. So this summer, we were thinking of kind of going crazy.
not "crazy" like "having sex with alot of guys" crazy, but like "fun crazy" as in "tPing someone's house" or things like that
we're 15.
We want to have FUN this summer and for it to be memorable.
any suggestions?
A really good idea that makes me laugh even today is putting bubbles in the fountain that our town has. Find a fountain that is in open area and easy to access. Wait until it is dark then dump bubbles into the fountain. The wter will eventually make the bubbles so big they overflow the street. When it rains the bubbles go even further.
well lately i feel...pathetic! there is this stupid guy (my ex) and he wont talk to me anymore. i dont even like him i just have never been rejected by a guy before and hes not talking to me. hes afraid that i might call him out (hes like that-he hates confrontation) im trying to move on and now that i realized why i kept bothering with him so much i dont think it will be that hard to leave him. but i am so mad at myself for wasting time on him and jor being treated badly. hes a JERK and i keep letting him treat me like shit!! i've started cutting again which i stopped because im so mad at myself and frusterated. what should i do?? i dont know what to do when i feel pathetic instead of cutting...
Please help!! thanks :)
What you need to do is find something that replaces what you are doing. Find a common interest to occupy your time for example when I am being pathetic or just plain out frustrated I write stories that let my emotions out in a healthy way or I write songs on the bass to help release my anger. I know it is hard to let someone you care about but also at the same time hate them for the way they treat you. The thing I did was I finally told myself enough is enough. I deserve better and so do you. If you find something you enjoy it will make him seem like the least important thing. Find something you always wanted to learn or an object you found interesting.
How do you put photos in the about me section on myspace?
You can't put one specific photo on in tha sction but what you can do is browse around in photos and you will find a place where you can make a slideshow. Just put one picture in the slideshow and it will give you a link to copy and paste in the place you want.
im having a goodbye party with about 25 pple coming and i want it to be great but i dont know what to do!! and whats some good, fun music. its on a Saturday and from like 1-4 or something so were not eating a meal or anything. i dont know a theme or ANYTHING!! please help. i just need to know what to do. like what things to plan and how to get started on picking everything for the party and all that. ages 14-16 thanks :)
You definitely want to have refreshments and bowls of chips because guys get cranky when they don't have food or something to drink while dancing. You want to pick music that is more like pop music for example vanessa hudgens, ashley tisdale, etc. This is music that people can really let loose during especially if you want them to have a good time. You don't really need decorations or a specific theme because people at your age kind of grow out of that. Also let the people that are coming kind of do their own thing this way everyone will be happy. make sure the music is playing before the first arrival.
so i asked this question before but people did not seem to understand that i don't want slow music, i don't want r&b i just want fast rock/punk/metal music with dirty lyrics and a good beat.
that means no pretty ricky, barry white, any of that stuff please.
Ashley Tisdale and Vanessa Hudgens has music that has that certain sound that makes you relaxed and gives the vibe to let loose. This will help lossen all the dancers to have a really good time and get really wild while dancing.
What are some songs that once I turn on, everyone will be wanted to dance and get raunchy? Stuff with a lot of bass is good, but also some hip-hop too. Nothing mainstream or that I hear on Z100 all the time. Thanks
Ashley tisdale has really good songs where you can let loose of everything. Also another good singer would be vanessa hudgens. They both give the vibe to get wild and crazy when dancing.