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she just doesnt love me
I am 14/f and my sister is 17/f. My mom and dad always say that they love me, but whenever me and my sister fight, they take her side and i get in trouble. I know right now i may seem like a bratty kid but hear me out. So i went in her room to get MY dress and she got pissed, told my mom, and I got grounded because i went to get MY dress SHE stole. How is that fair? They also take my hard earned chore money and give it to her who has a job but uses her money to buy beer and drugs. My sister assumes that its her place to take my make-up, clothes, bags, money, and jewelry without asking and when i yell at her my parents say, "shes going through a rough time, give her a break" and ground me. So My sister has her EIGHTH prom, and my parents are choosing to stay home with her instead of taking me to the doctor for my bad allergies. and im just done. what can i do to stop this from keep on happening? thanks for reading
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The truth is it never really ends. I know exactly how you feel and it doesn't feel good knowing that your parents like one child better than the other. I would make a list of things that they do for you and do for her. The list is definitly going to be in your favor. You have to show them physical proof of what they are doing or they won't listne. You have to make a choice can you live with this kind of torture or do you want it to end. If you can live with it then I suggest becoming your own person by not giving your money to anyone. Use it for yourself even if you have to hide it in your bra after you get it. It is your money and she doesn't deserve to have it considering she has a job. If you can't live with it then I would scope for a relative who loves and adores you and move in with them. Moving out will definitely wake them up. If you emanicipate yourself your parents have no say in what you do and they can't stop you either. If you don't have a relative consider living on your own. You have unlimited options you can choose from.
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You need to talk to your parents about it when your sister isn't there. If you do this, you'll be making a big and brave step, one which should benefit you for future events, plus, it shows that your maturing into a young woman. Don't talk to you sister because I can garentee that she won't do anything(and I'm sure that you know this as well!!).
Tell them EVERYTHING which you mentioned in your letter. And make sure that they see it from your point of view. As parents, it's their duty to listen and help their children in whatever troubles their going through, even if it's in their own family. You've got the right to make a stand, nobody has the right to push you around.
Could it be possible for you to put your make up, money (especially that) and jewelry in a box which can be locked? That way your sister can't get them BUT you must take the key with you.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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