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heyy everybody!!

were starting our school science fair, and i dont know what to do!

does anyone have any ideas?

i was thinking maybe somthing with bubbles
or bubbling chemicals or exploding things

or just somthing cute and fun

ive been searching goodsearch.com but i cant find the right one. thanx so much!!

xoxoxo

ok i did this thing once and no one thought i could do it but i did, you can only do it for a few seconds though, but it is called a glowing pickle...and my brother made it for a science fair and won 3rd place...so i would try it...

http://www.geocities.com/CapeCanaveral/Launchpad/6603/instructions.html

-hayley

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Ok so I have a huge crush on this guy. Oh by the way I'm 13/f. I'm in 8th grade too. Well my school is year round so I am off for the rest of this month and Feb. Well he talks to me a lot. And I have 3 classes with him. He sits behind me in one and sits next to me in another and the last one is P.E. so we don't really sit. But he pulls my hair when he sits behind my and he is so funny. He drops something then I pick it up. He is hilarious though, he can make anyone laugh. The thing is I never have the guts to start talking to him and we have never really had a real conversation except once. But I wanna know how to talk to him like start a conversation. He usually ask me something and I answer and yeah its over. Sorry it was long but can you please help! Thanks!

i think that you should just act like he is one of your friends; not the girly version but like a normal version, ask about a test or a club, or maybe just how is day went, pull the flirty card, and the next time he drops something, before you go to pick it up you could say "you just want to look at my butt dont you?" it would make him turn red and it will make you laugh, it could start a conversation! ha ha
-hayley

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Lately I have been having these terrible dreams. The first night I had a dream that me and my basketball coach were at a hotel (don't get that twisted). Anyways we were talking and telling each other secrets when this guy came in and tried to beat us both up. He was trying to get the guy off, but the bad guy just kept beating me up.
The second night I had a dream that me and my family were hanging out when a gun man came and just randomly started shooting us all. I remember guarding myself with plates and things.
The third night my dream was at my cousins house at her arena. This man came down there and were making the horses beat me up. Then he started to chase me. He chased me up to my cousins house where my mom was in the window, but she wasn't paying attention to the outside of the house. The guy kept beating me up. He would squeeze me till I couldn't breathe. I remember hearing my ribs crushing. I woke up this morning and was actually sore around my ribs.

Well these dreams are extremly violent and I'm losing sleep. Is there something I could do to stop having these awful dreams?
Also these dreams started a week ago but these are the only ones that I actually recorded on paper so I would remember them.

Well they could mean something, like you need to watch your back or just take things carefully. Or it could also mean that you have a brilliant imagination. Maybe you are worried about something? I dont know your religion or anything like that, but im christian and i pray to God for things like that (good dreams and protection). And everytime i do in my dreams if something goes wrong, they are always put back on track. also you could try dreamcatchers, i dont know why but they seem to work.
-hayley

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i'm a teen writer (female) and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas for my book that i'm writing.
I'm completely stumped. if anyone had anything that they would want to see happen in a book or any ideas for me, they will be greatly appreciated!
Thanks!

i would like to see a story with meaning. Something like a girl has a massive crush on this boy and when she finally gets up the nerve to tell him he shoots her down. But she gets over it, and about 5 months later she meets this guy that might really be into her. but he has a girlfriend and he is big jock senior and she is a little freshman, and no one thinks that they would have a chance. Something like that.

Or something that expresses your personal beliefs like on the war on iraq or teen life. Just true stories about fictional people you get what im saying?

-hayley

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i used to like this guy and he liked me. Were both 12 but now hes over me & im over him i think. How do i tell if i still like him??? Oh and does the boy obbsession ever go away?

sorry it took so long!! :) and thanks for inboxing!!

as for your first question: telling whether or not you are still liking him or if your over him can be very difficult. If you think about him constantly, like if you hear a song, then you think of him, or if things remind you of him, then you probably arent over him. And remember, people say crying doesnt make anything better, but that isnt true, it does make you feel better.

And as for your obsession question: i am afraid to say it sticks with you till you find that guy, or 21, which ever comes quicker, lol. But it really mainly depends on the girl and the age.

once again thanks and sorry it took so long!!
xoxo
hayley

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why are teenaged girls obsessed with boys i really want to know why i cant figure it out

its really just a phase and some girls arent affected by it. But i am. It is just a girls mind is all. and guys are affected by the "girls girls girls" stage too. it fades with time...
-hayley

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This is long but please read..Okay, lets call him this guy.


Now i liked him ever sense i saw him..ever sense we started our first
converstation. And i have this friend thats a guy, and Turns out hes Best
friends with the guy. okay, now my friend made it obvious we wants to be
more then friends. he flirts alot and has asked me out about four times,
but i never returned his texts. I dont know, i mean i like his best friend,
and only like my friend as only a friend. And i talked to the guy about him
asking me out and saying how i dont like him like that..he said he didnt
tell my friend but idk, will this ruin more chances of me being with "my"
guy? i mean why would he go out with his best friends crush? I bet hes heard the saying "bros before hoes" err whatever..tho im not a hoe.lol And i bet my
friend has talked to him about liking me. So that basicaly blows it all
off. i dont really know what advice im looking for. but ANY i'd be greatful
for. i mean i feel like i LOVE this guy. i think about him 24/7. and
everything about him makes me smile. He wears the most crappy clothing in
the world and barly does his hair. but i dont care. i really like him. I
dont know how he feels about me. I mean its cute, somtimes at night when
were dont texting eachother he'll text somthing like well night honey xoxo
or nite sweetypiee xoxo dont let the bedbugs bite. he even called me
Sweetie on the phone infrount of my friend and his bff [the one that kept asking me out] once. and I think he gigles err
silently laughs alot on the phone, in a good way When were on the phone alone. I was planning on just
writing a few short sentances, guess it ended in paragraphs. but Please
advice. About The guy, or the sittuation of "my" guy's and my friend liking
me.. b/c i dont know what to do. .. Does he even like me like that at all?

a guy dont want to hurt his friend, but he dont want to lose his girl either...but if i was you i would just be honest. just tell your friend and the guy how you feel...i have told the guy i have liked before how i felt, and trust me honey, its better to tell a guy than to bottle it up. You will get more respect. But then again im a go with the flow type of girl. people say my personality is outstanding, sorry getting off subject. lol. but i think you should tell them. If it dont work out the way you planned it shouldnt be...and if the guy gets mad at you for what your heart is telling you then he isnt a good friend, and if the guy dont like you back (which to me it sounds like it does) then he aint right for you...
xoxo
hayley

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okay.i know this is gonna sound really bad,and keep mind i usually dont do anything like this.but this guy basically got me drunk and took advantage.i didnt want to but was 5oo drink to really say or do anything.it was my first time,and i already asked questions cause i was hoping i was too tight for him to get it in all the way,my hyen didnt break or hurt or bleed or anything.so if this is true,could i still be considered a virgin?
also,if it didnt go in all the way and he wore a condom,can i still get pregnat?
if so,is ther anyway to tell really early on?

and if true,is there abortion places that you can get it withouot a parent?
please help,all ive been doing is crying and hoping otherwise

well if he took advantage of you and you said no that was rape and he needs to be charged with such. Contact your authorities. dont let another girl become a victim. your voice can be heard.

if he went inside you im sorry but you are no longer a virgin. He took your jewel.

condoms are not completely effective. I would go to your doctor. Not only pregnancy, but get STD checked. If there was even any skin contact you could get an STD if he was a carrier.

As for abortion i strongly urge you to not do that. A baby is alive from the day the sperm fertilizes the egg. Abortion burns the baby and breaks every bone in its body. The baby is alive during all of this. Abortion is murder. If you are pregnant, give the child up for adoption, dont kill it if you dont want it.

xoxo
teardrops7

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i'm really startin to *love* Three Days Grace. wut are some of their best songs? i already know Animal I Have Become, Pain, Just Like You, Let It Die, Are You Ready, and I Hate Everything About You. wut are some more good ones? fast or slow but preferably faster more hard-rock!

a fellow lover! my favorites are the ones you have, especially pain. but some more are:
drown
never too late
gone forever
wake up
home
overrated
now or never

xoxo
teardrops7

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From the Real World KELLY ANNE had like wavy hair. But it wasn't full on curly, but wavy. It looked so pretty. Did she use gel, mousse, or a curling iron? Just wondering, it looked so pretty. Sorry, I couldn't find any pictures. THANKKKKKKKK YOUUUUUUU.

she uses a curling iron, but you could be able to get the same effect from hot rollers.
xoxo
teardrops7

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I recently noticed a bump on my thigh, it looks like a bruise but feels like there could be a marble or something underneath it. It doesn't hurt or anything to the touch or otherwise, my mom said it might be a cyst, I don't know. Should I get it checked out or what?

well how long have you had it? if it has been more than one week i would suggest getting it checked out. if it has just been a few days then just wait a while and if it still dont go away, visit your physician.
xoxo
teardrops7

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Ok 14f and I have this friend that is just perfect. Not perfect in looks though, but ive gotten pass that. I feel like hes a good friend and a great person. And I luv him. but thats luv as for friends and family. Sometimes I cant help but question if I like him or not. I wouldnt say I do but its deep down inside that questions it. One day I was talking to him and he was carrying something for me and as he was near me but I was talking with my friend, I couldnt help but think "wow I luv this kid more and more each day" and funny thing is I almost blurted it out until i realized what i was thinking and that he might of heard. im so confused. Because.. When do I know when LUV turns into LOVE ?

It isnt really something you can figure out on an advice site. But im gonna try to help. Okay the main things:
Love isnt jealousy, its kind and patient. Here is a website that can halp you alot.

http://www.ntu.edu.sg/home/hblim/passages/love.htm

xoxo
teardrops7

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Ok my bff from the summer Matt, is really cool and really nice. We kinda had a falling out because we had one date which he decided to just be friends at the end and we are just beginning to become close. Tonight he asked me to help him with his like pictures and wanted my opinion if he should get a diamond stud. I said something to him about him in the summer and he said awe that is cute that you remember that. And then he said i will be right back and when he came back he pasted my default picture from face book in the im. And i said oh my what's that and he was like your model pose from face book duh. and i was like its amazing ha ha and he was like its good. And i said i should delete before my brothers sees it and he was like no don't delete. And he said why would he get mad because he things you are asking for all the boys in your pants. my question does he like me?

it sounds as though he might like you. Just take some things into consideration. is he a flirt? is his smile sincere? are his eyes gleaming when he says these things? (this is a big sign he likes you) Just look a little more into it, but im pretty sure he likes you.
xoxo
teardrops7

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16/f

I lost my virginity when I was about.. 14 and a halfish.
I've had sex a bunch of times.. but tonight, I bled a bit again. Is that normal?

sometimes it could just be normal. But it can also mean other things, like cancer and tumors and maybe even STI's or STD's. I would recommend going to your OB/GYN or physician. If you dont want your parents to know it is completely confidential. The fee i think with insurance is $20. Good Luck
xoxo
teardrops7

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F/13


ok
so i went to a party store to get party stuff for a party i am having.
anywayzzzz...
the paryy kit came with hats, blowers, tiaras, poppers, beads, lays and serpentines

what is a serpendtine?

its that log foil thingy where you throw it like a yoyo and confetti and glitter comes out. they are really fun.
xoxo
teardrops7

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what is a good 5 dollar or under product from a drugstore that is a heatsprotecting spray thats not expensive BUT EFFECTIVE????


i always heat my hair and ive decided to use a heatprotecting something..


do you guys know any good oneS?

there are lots of shampoos like herbal essence and john freida and got2be is really good too. they are around 5 or 6 dollars.
xoxo
teardrops7

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well i heard that bobby broke up with tila, and theres supposed to be a new season, is this true? and if so when does it air.

yeah bobby did break up with tila. i think though the new season is supposed to air next spring. or maybe its summer. I think spring though.
xoxo
teardrops7

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my friend is so stupidd she doesnt even understand when im mad or anything shes like waittt whattt and stuff like that. like shes so stupid. and then ill call her ready to tell her off, and she'll be like omggg heyy!!!! its hard to have an actual frienship with her. and even if i tell her that, she won't understand.

what should i do

there is a girl like that at my school. She acts though, She actually "thought" that elephants laid eggs. But i would just tell her when and why your mad. and maybe she really is stupid. so just try to let her know when its too much for you to handle. But remember, keep your cool.
xoxo
teardrops7

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13/f
i have made out with two guys. And the first one,my ex boyfriend, was an absolute terrible kisser. The second one, my current boyfriend, was a pretty good kisser... way better than the first one. But my problem is I didn't really like it. It just isn't what I thought kissing would be. And I feel like it might be me that's a bad kisser, but I don't see how because I have taken a ton of advice on making out, and I use all of the tips. I have been thinking about it a lot lately, and what if my boyfriend doesn't like it, or think im a bad kisser. What tricks can I use to make things more fun for him and me?? HAND PLACEMENTS?? anything else that might help... or make me feel better.

Thanks soo much. =]

well im 15 so maybe i can help you. I think that your hand placements should be on the back of their neck or playing with their hair.

and also i think that a french kiss is disgusting. The thought of it gives me chills. But if you like it, just remember that less is more. And make sure everyone controls their spit. Haha.

and if you really wanna know. maybe you could ask him. Find out what he likes just say what do you like slow? then kiss him slow. Or fast? then fast. Or tounge? then french him. you get the picture. Haha.

And gently sucking on the bottom lip generally tends to get the blood flowing. HaHa.
xoxo
teardrops7

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okay so me and my friends used to hang out with these guys from another school. like i had a boyfriend and we would hang out with him and some of his friends. hes not really friends with them anymore and im not going out with him anymore. i was friends with the other guys before i started going out with him anyways. but anyways...we used to hang out with those guys all the time last year. now we dont really talk to or hang out with them anymore. except for one of them that i hooked up with. but i feel like all the other guys dont like me anymore and im not sure why. any help? it seems like as soon as i broke up with my boyfriend they didnt wanna hang out with us anymore.

maybe he just talked to them and told you them about how yall broke up and they got mad...and didnt want to talk to you any more because that is what he told them to do,,,but the other guy might really like you...
xoxo
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