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Bad Crush .
This is long but please read..Okay, lets call him this guy.
Now i liked him ever sense i saw him..ever sense we started our first
converstation. And i have this friend thats a guy, and Turns out hes Best
friends with the guy. okay, now my friend made it obvious we wants to be
more then friends. he flirts alot and has asked me out about four times,
but i never returned his texts. I dont know, i mean i like his best friend,
and only like my friend as only a friend. And i talked to the guy about him
asking me out and saying how i dont like him like that..he said he didnt
tell my friend but idk, will this ruin more chances of me being with "my"
guy? i mean why would he go out with his best friends crush? I bet hes heard the saying "bros before hoes" err whatever..tho im not a hoe.lol And i bet my
friend has talked to him about liking me. So that basicaly blows it all
off. i dont really know what advice im looking for. but ANY i'd be greatful
for. i mean i feel like i LOVE this guy. i think about him 24/7. and
everything about him makes me smile. He wears the most crappy clothing in
the world and barly does his hair. but i dont care. i really like him. I
dont know how he feels about me. I mean its cute, somtimes at night when
were dont texting eachother he'll text somthing like well night honey xoxo
or nite sweetypiee xoxo dont let the bedbugs bite. he even called me
Sweetie on the phone infrount of my friend and his bff [the one that kept asking me out] once. and I think he gigles err
silently laughs alot on the phone, in a good way When were on the phone alone. I was planning on just
writing a few short sentances, guess it ended in paragraphs. but Please
advice. About The guy, or the sittuation of "my" guy's and my friend liking
me.. b/c i dont know what to do. .. Does he even like me like that at all?
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Oh yeah they both like you. you should go with the guy that you like...the one that is not your best friend, b/c if you date your "best friend" and you break up, then that could have serious detrimental effects in the future, if you tried to be friends again. That bros before hos thing is stupid. My policy is hearts before hormones. And sry it was kinda long so i lost some stuff but if the guy thats your friend asks you out all those times then you should go with the one you can tell is not trying too hard. hope that helps...
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They are best friends and if you try to hook up with your guy and succeed without the guy liking you being informed, there will be more drama then if he did know. He will feel betrayed by his best friend and hurt by you in a way where he might not trust women anymore. His self-esteem might be drastically lowered...etc. Plus your guy might lose his best friend and take it out on you. You need to talk to both of them, you need to tell the guy that likes you that you are flattered but you dont feel the same. You need to tell him you like his best friend. Then you need to talk to your guy. Both guys will discuss it and your guy might want his best friends approval first. In order to have the least drama, lessen the amount of hurt and assure you and your guy will have a chance, this is the best way to go.
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a guy dont want to hurt his friend, but he dont want to lose his girl either...but if i was you i would just be honest. just tell your friend and the guy how you feel...i have told the guy i have liked before how i felt, and trust me honey, its better to tell a guy than to bottle it up. You will get more respect. But then again im a go with the flow type of girl. people say my personality is outstanding, sorry getting off subject. lol. but i think you should tell them. If it dont work out the way you planned it shouldnt be...and if the guy gets mad at you for what your heart is telling you then he isnt a good friend, and if the guy dont like you back (which to me it sounds like it does) then he aint right for you...
xoxo
hayley
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