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Recently, my boyfriend and I started having sex. The first time, it hurt pretty bad.. but it doesn't hurt so much anymore. But, the thing is, i haven't bled yet. Does that mean that he didn't tear my hymen? I know some of my friends didn't bleed either. Am i still concidered a virgin? (link)
your hymen doesn't always bleed when it pops...unless he has a small enough penis to stretch the hymen but not break it it's probably broken and by having sex at all you are not a virgin


For my first car, I want something "newer looking" so I don't anything under a 2002, fast, automatic, and 15,000 or under. I made a list of possible cars.

- 2004 Subaru WRX
- 2002-2004 BMW 325i or 325iC
- 2005 Hyundai Tiburon

& if i can find a Infiniti G35 coupe that is in my price range, then that too.


Out of all of them:

What car do you think fits my standards?
What car do you like the most?
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I would go with the Subaru...with the BMW your insurance will be through the roof and if anything happens like if you get in a wreck or something you'll have to pay even more...the Hyundai or Subaru would be good first cars...but go for something a bit older...i know you don't want anything under a 2002 but maybe look for a 2002 Hyundai or Subaru...the older the car the lower the insurance and you'll also want to check safety ratings and stuff...just make sure to test drive it first before making a full on decision


ok, I was talking to the guy i really really like last night. and im pretty sure he likes me back, we flirt alot, and have stupid arguments about who is more "special" haha, he always tells me im really special and that Im more special than he could ever be. but I deny it and tell him he is just as wonderful. so as we were talking and he was telling me that he smiles so much when he talks to me, and he doesn't think hes ever smiled as much has he does when he talks to me :) it made me so happy, and I told him that he makes me smile more, and that he makes me blush and everything. and then he was like well if you smile this much talking to me, we will have to hang out and do something exciting and see how much we can get you to smile :), did he ask me out??? Im not sure were like really good friends, and im not sure if he means just me or him? or other people as well? do you think he asked me out on a date?? (link)
guys are tricky like that...ask when, where, and who's going..that should clear some things up


m/13, hi im thinking of asking my parents for a debit card... how exactly do they work, and could i have one at my age? how do i deposit money, withdraw and check my balance etc? can i order stuff on the internet? can i get a visa or mastercard debit card and buy stuff on a website that accepts visa/mastercard credit cards? if i get a debit card do i have to have a bank account? is there any annual fee? how much do they cost? sorry for all the questions lol.... (link)
because of your age your parents will have to open a checking account in their name and put your name on it too...the money comes out of a checking account and you can withdraw at an atm or deposit at your bank...you can also check your balance online or at an atm...you can buy stuff off of the internet just like a credit card but you can only use the money thats on the card...the spending limit is just how much money you have got at the time in your account. you can't go over


The other day, my vagina was really itchy, for like half an hour, so I got really paranoid and thought I had a yeast infection, but there was no discharge or anything. The next day, it wasn't itchy, but I'm still really curious as to why it was itchy... I looked at my vagina in a mirror to see if I could see anything, and the skin of my labia was darker color than the rest of my body, but I heard that was normal, that the vagina could be different skin tones than the rest of your body.
Also, if I went to the doctor to see if it was a yeast infection, how would they diagnose it? What procedures would they do?

I'm 17

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chances are you aren't washing well enough down there...if it's only itched for 1 day just make sure you keep it cleaner...if it persists and you see inflammation and redness then go see a doctor to check and see if its a yeast infection...actually vagisil has a new kit...it looks almost like a pregnancy test that checks to see if you have a yeast infection or something more serious...but the doctor will usually look and possibly do a vaginal swab but not necessarily..sometimes just listening to your symptoms they know...but I wouldn't think much of it...just clean better


how many songs can i put on my verizon g chocolate phone with a SanDiskĀ® 3 in 1 Memory Kit - 2GB?


thanks!
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about 500 depending upon the size of the songs


How can I stop eggs from cracking when making hard-boiled eggs? (link)
put salt in the water and boil the eggs on medium...not high


I have been saving money to buy a large bird. I am looking for a parrot, but not some parakeet/cocatail type bird. What I am looking for is a bird that is legal to keep in California, and one that is smart, affectionate, and is known for personality. I don't really care if its ugly or loud (I have two parakeets at home.. AAAHH!... but I can deal with it). Also, IT DOESN'T HAVE TO TALK.

My price range is 600 dollars. I am a big fan of Sun Conures, and African Grays (although unfortunately I can't afford one, they're like two-three thousand dollars.)

Any personal bird favorites within my price range?

Thanks (link)
look for macaws or cockatoos...they're legal and make wonderful pets...my aunt has one of each. You should be able to find one in your price range too!


there was a cute little kitten that was obviously abdonded because the perosn left it food and water in front of my house
the kitten stays in bush and won't come out i want to catch and put it in a shelther but i cant catch it
help?? (link)
call animal control...or leave some cat food or a can of tuna in a cage and wait for the cat to get inside and shut the door..then take it to the shelter


I'm not sure if I'm still sick or not so what temperatures will tell me that I'm not? my body temperature measurement goes by Farenheight. (link)
98.6 is normal...but a little over and a little under is no big deal...but if your over 100 then your still sick.


i am ann and im a girl and i am 15 years old.i went on a cruise this last spring vacation and i had soo much fun hanging with this one guy named sam. i didn't think anything more of him then a friend. then like near the end of the cruise i started to feel like we had a real connection. but still nothing REALLY big, and plus he was younger then me and i felt like he was a little bit pervish, all he pretty much though about was sex. then i saw another guy, and we talked and stuff and the last night i never got his e-mail address, so sam, who was one of my best friends by that time, said he would give it to me. so when i got home and i was on the computer i saw that sam was online. so i talked to him and asked him about the e-mail he said he would get me. he said he had to ask his friend to get it for him. turns out that i never really asked for it after that bc all i wanted to do was talk to sam. i though i really liked him too, i mean we got to the point where saying "i love u" like friends, was normal. and i was trusting him with alll my secrets. then after we have been talking for a while, it seems like hes not interested in talking to me as much as he was b4. like instead on him usually starting the convo i have to. i try and start conversations with him, but it doesn't work and i see how different we are now. i dont know what to do. i kinda do really like him. oh yea and he lives like 6-7 hours away from me. what should i do? (link)
your just losing the connection you had...try getting together and see if you can bring it back...you haven't seen each other in a while and you just need to tell him how you felt then and how you feel now and see what happens


how are some people not ticklish?? (link)
it's in their genetics....some people are...some people aren't...like some people aren't double jointed or some people can't roll their tongue...it's just in their genes


how do you know if you are double jointed? iv tried googling it and basically got nothing. but in my shoulders i can hear the joints or bones rubbing against each other sort of. and sometimes when i move my shoulders they pop and make this huge popping noise. sometimes it hurts and sometimes it doesn't. and then every now and then they get really sore. then sometimes with my knees it will feel like my knee cap is going to dislocate? my ankles crack and pop when i go up the stairs, but that happens with my mom too.
i have no idea why its doing this. it started maybe 6 months ago?
i have played soccer for about 10 years and used to dance for about 6 years, if that helps.

thanks so much (link)
you could be double jointed...but it shouldn't hurt...you could have a lack of cartilage in your joints...you should see a doctor who can run some tests to see if you have a lack of cartilage and get you to a bone specialist...my friend has it and her knees are practically grinding together...it can be painful and really harmful to your body


I need a 30B is there any department store or anything that i can buy this size at? I don't want to order it offline. (link)
go to Dillards or Macy's...they should have it


What does a bamf look like? is it a moose? (link)
Bad
Ass
Mother
Fucker

no it's not a moose...sorry


Do you any sites that offer online counselling for teens?

Like where you can talk to people through a chat room or msn about what's going on in your life, and about your problems and stuff.

Or if there's anyone that wouldn't mind having a heart to heart via msn?

I just really feel like I need to talk to someone, and I can't talk to most people I know because I don't want them to know certain things.

Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
well I have an advice line...just e-mail ask_lori22@yahoo.com and I'll help you out as best as I can


Okay. Well I'm going to be a sophomore this year... I need to get straight A's... How hard was your sophomore year? What grades did you get? Any pointers? (link)
it all depends upon the classes your taking...sophomore year is harder because the teachers don't baby you anymore...like freshman year if you forgot your homework they'd be a little lenient...sophomore year they don't do that. I got decent grades but there are more pop quizzes and you'll need to do more studying...the tests are a lot harder...if you loved freshman year chances are you wont like sophomore year too much...but if you hated freshman year you'll love it...as as for needing to get straight A's...try your hardest...but don't over study and don't forget to have some fun in there too...


ok well i listen to my chemical romance and green day and all these other punk bands, and everytime i listen to them my bros are like \"they are so gay, they look gay, they laugh gay. \" and all this other bull crap. well i mean i just get really ticked off and i just go in my room and slam the door. plus like when im talking to my best friend mikey (who is a little on the feminin side) my brothers are like oh my gosh he is so freaking gay. like one time i was talking to him on aol and i said hey boy and he was like \"hey gurlie, whats up? and then later on i told him i learnt a new trick on my skateboard and he was like oh my gosh thats soooo awesome!!! and my brothers were just sitting there calling him gay. which another thing. my whole family thinks there is some huge issue with homosexuality. i mean i dont get whats the big deal. i mean no im not homo but i have no problem with other people being like that. i mean my dad is all \"well you should be who you are and not care what other people think\" and if who you are is being gay or bisexual then so be it. but i mean anyways how do i get my family and my brothers to stop critizing all these people and calling them bi or gay. i mean i\'ve tryed talking to them and then they\'re all (well u just have an obsession with them and you dont want us talking about your \"precious friends, or your precious my chemical romance\" so talking doesnt help, and i dont wanna be a snitch or nothing. so what can i do???? thanks so much in advance. (link)
my parents have a thing with homosexuality too...I'm not homosexual but my best friend is...I love him to death and sometimes my dad will say something about gays that upsets me just because my friend is gay...but the truth is that no matter what you can't change their opinions...I've tried...it doesn't work...just simply explain to them that you get upset when they say stuff like that and that while you can't change what they think you'd appreciate it if they didn't say it around you. If that doesn't work you just have to learn to ignore it...It seems hard but it's not as bad as you'd think it is


Hi, No matter what I do, when I remove hair from my bikini area, I get an itchy, rash with razor bumps. I've tried TEND SKIN & BIKINI ZONE & baby powder. Any ideas? (link)
as painful as it sounds...get it waxed...it will be red for a little bit...usually a day...maybe too if it's really tender and use a moisturizing lotion with aloe vera...neutrogena has a great one...you wont get razor burn or any itch and you don't have to get it done too often


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