Iam a girl with black hair and gray eyes. I like to go to the gym to workout because it relieves stress. I like to help people no problem whatever they ask I won't judge people I'm just a person willing to give you some advice that's all. I think its important to have a good education and a good carrer in life. I want this world to be peaceful which is one of my biggest dreams!I'm back!I apologize to you all for not being able to help you guys in need for help whatever help you ask for just write me in my inbox,I'll answer as soon as possible.
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Location: Brooklyn,New york
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Age: 17
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im looking for places that i can look for cheap bathing suits, ones that are $20 or less but still cute. if the place has a website i can look on thats even better. any ideas? (link)
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Go to this site http://womens-apparel.smartbargains.com/womens-swimwear-showsb?aid=36&tid=24021&siteid=3123450036&program=11055
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i want my hair shiny and nice like on the comercails any tips? (link)
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Try Herbal Essences shampoo,conditioner because when I used it,it made my hair silky, and very shiny like in the commercials.
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I am 19 years old. I have a fiance (earnie) whom I have been with for over a year. I also have been living with him and his family for this long. Earnie's family consists of his mother, father, older sister, younger brother, and his cousin. I love his family and I appreciate everything they have done for me, however, I feel like I am a burden. In a recent argument Earnie's mother and brother were having his brother said that he did not like me, and it seems to me that his sister doesn't either. I don't know what I can do to make them like me. I have been as nice to them as I know how. I accept that not everyone will like me, but I really don't like feeling like a burden. What can I do about this? Or is this just a hopeless question? (link)
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You know sometimes you could be nice and they may still not like you,it also happens to other people,so since the brother doesn't like you just ignore him, and walk away.Your fiance should know so he could speak to them,that they should show you some respect,I always said that if they got nothing good to say they should keep it to themselves.They wouldn't like it if they had a partner,others disrespect their partner,especially there going to spend the rest of their life with them,and they'll just have to accept it whether they like it or not.
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My mom told my dad three days ago that she wants a divorce. My mom is unhappy and our family is nothing but fighting. My mom told my little brother who is 13 about this today. he is taking it pretty hard. He is also blaming me when i have nothing to do with it. it rally upets me because my brother is saying this whole thing is my fault. well my dad wants to do counsling. he thinks he can change everything but he cant. my mom doesnt want to live like this. so im supose to move out with my mom and my brothers supose to move out with my dad. Im not sure what the question in this is but ive never moved before. my dad mentioned couple years ago that he was going to leave and me my mom and my older brother cried about it. my little brother was to young to understand. im just looking for advice please help (link)
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I think that you and your brother should move in with your mom and since you said what your dad had a couple of years then he's not setting a good example for the both of you.Plus on top of what your mother went through,now with if she has to be separated from her son she's going to go through an even painful time,and I don't think it's fair for your mom.Moving to another place is like starting a new life or journey you may call it,I went through that years ago believe me I didn't want to move but then I got used to it I was very young at that time, and I know if I was able to go through change so can you.
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This may sound a little lame and i may sound weak, but my problem is my brother is abusive toward me. He is 18 months younger than me, and he hits my slaps me, kicks me, punchs me in the face, somtimes he even threatens to stab me. If i try to fight back, im the one who gets grounded and if i tell my mom he hurts me, she grounds me because she thinks i am lying! And then i have to deal with my brother attacking me for telling my mom. Now i am like afraid to go to bed at night because he is always threatening to hurt me in my sleep. My dad passed away in 2004 and ever since then, he has been abusive toward me. I have talked to my school counsler about it and she said that she would set up a meeting with my mom. I lock myself in my room and i have to find things to do all day becasue my mom works from 8:00 am until 5:00 pm, and he threatens to hurt me if i cross his path, or step anyware he is going. I am really terrified of my brother. My brother is always so nice when there are people around and he is so innocent. He appears to be the sweetest little boy, but he isn't. My friends tell me i should suggest to my counsler that she should talk to my mom about anger managment, but i am afraid she will tell my mom that, and then my mom will tune her out and then walk away. PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! (link)
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That must be a very horrible thing you're going through.Get support from like a relative that you trust and that will believe you to convince your mom to take your brother for some serious counseling because if not one day he might end up hurting you or someone else.Be careful,do as much to not cross your path with your brother, try proving to your mom but if you can show proof that what you tell her is the truth, and that your brother pretends to be nice but he's really not.
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Ok. Im thirteen years old and I'm around 125-130 lbs. I'm not sayint i'm fat, I am just really muscular in my legs. Although, I do have alot of, un-wanted fat in my stomach. My mom says I don't need to loose weight, but that is what moms are supposed to say. I look at my friends, or family, and they are so much smaller than me. Me and my best friends share clothes all the time. But my clothes seem to be a little baggy on her. I always feel so bad. :( My question is, what are some ways I can loose weight? I would like a detailed answer please, not just "eat right and work out." thankyou so much in advance. :) (link)
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Some ways to lose weight are 1)Cut all fat,sugary foods like candy 2)Don't drink soda and replace it with water 3)Don't eat a lot of pasta and bread 4)For your workout do crunches,leg lifts for like half an hour 5)Grill or boil your food avoid fried meat 5)Don't try fad diets because there's a big chance you'll gain the weight back again.
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well i think im kinda chubby but people tell me all the time im not.. but i have stretch marks on my inner thys and my hips.. and i dont like them.. how do i make them go away. and i have a gut. how do i get that to go away? (link)
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Just simply buy the cocoa butter formula which removes ugly stretch marks,dry skin,and it really works!
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ok, well i have 2 brothers 1 of them is a twin with me and we share a room. The second one is always an asshole and never leaves me alone, my twin and I are about to lose our heads!!! We try letting him in are room and work things out but he is so anoying! we are all about the same age 13-14 the ass hole is 14 but we dont get along! You know how when you say that you hate your mom or dad or sibling, well i really hate my brother! Ive hated him my whole life! What can i do to resolve this issue? (link)
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You need to let him know that you don't the way he acts towards you,that you want to end already,that if he just stops bothering you which is the only thing you ask from him he will have peace too which you too will benefit from but of course he needs to cooperate.If that doesn't work then you just need to do your best to ignore him,try avoiding him,eventually he'll get tired one day of bothering you because you don't pay any attention to him,then he'll stop his immature behavior.
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Well, My mother is trying to read my mind. She sets me up without "knowing" and then says im doing it because (some weird hatful things im doing) and it`s making think shes nuts. She is crazy tho. I could get her put away in a M.H.
But, I have sleeping problems. I have this annoying ring in my ears. But it goes away with white noise(or any noise) but a fan puts me asleep with ease. So i get home for being on my own, after all my shit was stole. And i ask for a fan, she says i have a fan. The ceiling fan i have is the most annoy! Its quite, I have to sleep on my back(which i almost never do, like 1-50) Cuz if i turn my head the ringin in my ear is there.I almost died cuz i was so sick of sleepin on my back i slept face down with a pillow on my forehead so i could have air, i wake up coughin to death drownin in my own drool!!! On my back my whole mouth is dry, it takes me hours to fall alseep. And i have to be tired. Like missin a good amount of sleep. Im missing so much sleep i keep seeing things, plus im really paranoid. Im now missing over 40 hours. I tell this to her she flips out and thinks im lying. Im a Buddhist so im not lying, i cant! And she hates the fact im Buddhist when she has no religion. What can i say for her to shut her trap and listen for more then 30secs. And i tell her this and she says im not doing this, but im doing some complex plan to make her mad or something? So help! (link)
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Tell her that if she doesn't believe you to take you to the doctor to prove that you're not getting good sleep,that it involves with how you sleep so she can then see you're not lying, and she'll be sorry for doubting you.
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My life pretty much sucks all thanks to this one girl Linda. This is why ; In 3rd grade she took my #1 best friend away from me. Soon, I got over it. Now all thanks to her I met this guy Paul. I can hardly even stand him. Because May 30, we went out, and then he broke up with me 5 days later. I was crushed. July 21, he fell back inlove with me. [Again], 5 days later he broke up with me
Here is the worst part. Today was Linda's party. I tried and tried to loose weight, but my stupid body is to fat. Anyways I went to her party. Amy was there. Amy is really pretty. I really dislike Amy. She was like "ooh, i hate fat people, thats discusting" infront of my face. Paul was there. Paul did not speak to me at all, but he kept starring at me. He is really cute.
Linda's away message [on aim] said she`s going to the movies with Amy and Paul. They were making fun of Paul before.
Sometimes I feel like there is noone to talk to but god. I don`t know why that whatever I say everybody thinks it`s pointless. It has a meaning to me.
Anyways my mom doesnt seem to care about me, at all. But im fine i guess. My father passed away about 5 months ago.
I woke up today at 1. By 2, my day was ruined. Well, I imed Paul, and he blocked me. I was talking to Tyler & Tyler was like now he knows your fat.
Well guess what the 1st day of school, [Aug. 15] I am going to wow everyone. They are going to wish they never made fun of me. Nobody knows how bad I feel. It seems like nobody on this planet loves me. Also, I feel like I cannot trust anyone. Anyways, I fouund out Paul & Amy made out in the movies for 30 minuetes. Oh, how I wish i was Amy. Kyle said Linda was hot. I have to agree with him. Everyone is hot, but me. I am deffently going on a diet. =]
Right now, I don`t know how I feel. All I know is like I hate Amy. Yesterday and today were the worst days of my life. Right know it seem as if my mom hates me. Whats new? I really need to improve my life. One day im going to snap.
Right now im pretty cheered up. Guess what! Paul hates Amy! After she made out with Paul she made out with other guys. Paul apologized to me.
THIS WAS IN MY JORNAL EVERYTHING UP THERE.
Now this is just me typing. Everything seems to be so confusing. I feel unloved by everyone. Please do not recommend conseling. [sp?]
Sorry it was so long. ! (link)
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Well there is always a time when you want to be like someone so I get you but you got to realize that you should love yourself,that you could improve,you're already going taking action by dieting which is great,when you lose those pounds,you'll probably be like" you can't make fun of my weight anymore",show people like Amy that" I'm beautiful you just didn't notice".
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My best friend is an every sunday, church and really religious parents, and i took her to a party and she met a guy. She has only told me her secret, but she has already missed two periods! She might be pregnant and she really needs to tell her parents, but she is so afraid of how they react. If she is pregnant, she wants to keep the baby, she doesn't beleive in abortion or adoption, but she is afraid her parents will make sure she gets rid or the baby.
PLEASE HELP MY FRIEND AND I!!! (link)
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That's good to know that she'll want to keep the baby if she is pregnant and she will need you to support her 100% since her parents will not.I'm sure you will and you're a good friend.As far as the parents wanting to get rid of the baby tell your best friend not to let them,your friend would have to move out in a safe place,make her parents understand how much she loves that baby,that abortion is killing an innocent baby, hopefully they'll understand, and be willing to accept that baby in the family.There are support groups for pregnant females that your friend could go to so I strongly suggest she visits one of those and they'll give her a lot of info on pregnancy which she will need if she turns out to be pregnant.Good luck!
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there is this guy...his name is max and he lives a few streets away from me and i really like him. I have a feeling he likes me too because he always talks to me, and is so sweet and generous to me. I need some advise on how to make him notice and how to get him to ask me out. HELP!!! (link)
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Dress very sexy,like a top model,show that you're caring,could also be generous, and as sweet as him.On how to get him to ask you out have a friend hook you up with him like tell a friend to tell him that you really like him,want to go out with him so she could send him the message.He does like you definitely you said it how he's always talking to you,being so nice,and all.
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Ok so if my brother is always being stupid like always in my stuff he wont leave me alone he's younger than me and how or what do i do too get him to stop please help me he's driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You should get a lock for your room so your brother won't be invading your privacy,tell your parents about his poor behavior he needs some time out.
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My boyfriend is moving to a new school, and ever since then, he has changed a lot...
Before, he cared about me more than anyone I have ever known... but now, he expects me to pay attention to him, understand him, call him every night, and to support him... and everytime I do what he wants me to do, he'll say that I'm too sensitive, and then he'll ignore me. I mean, he doesn't even appreciate my feelings... and he doesn't try to understand me! Why do I have to understand about everything and he doesn't?!
I really really want to break up with him, but I can't... I still love him, and I know... that no one cares about him except for me.. I'm the only person who ever cares about him and understands him, because he's a very lonely person... if I am not there for him, then no one will... and that kills him...
But now, I don't even know what to do... I'm mad at him to the greatest extend and I feel sorry for him at the same time... Because in his life, his parents are always away and I am the very first person who ever makes him happy...
Please, tell me what to do... or at least, tell me what he might be thinking by now.. because I can't stand it!! He loves me but he pays me no mind... help me!! (link)
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What you could do is that the next time he wants you to understand him at least pretend to so he doesn't feel that no one is on his side,try being more patient with him,he'll start to see that, and he'll also start to appreciate you for everything you done for him.As for what he may be thinking he might just be upset but of course he'll get over it,but don't you worry he'll be sorry for treating you unfairly.
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i feel like my mom is my little sister. she acts like a little girl that likes to look through all my stuff just like a little girl would do. and it really is like she's a little sister because i get blamed for all of the things she does. everybody tells me not to let her do this and not to let her do that. so, i'm confused. because, on one had she is my mother, so i do have to listen to her but on the other hand, she's acting like a little girl so i'm constantly arguing with her. i can't handle the way she's being
what can i do? (link)
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You have to sit with your mom,ask her why does she go through your stuff,that she should trust you,have respect even though she's your mom that she needs to respect your privacy,that you are tired of arguing with her,that the only way to keep things in peace is if she has a little consideration for you,that you love her but would appreciate if she just,be's a caring,lovable,respectful mom,and that you want things to be better with her.
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i have this cousin who is 15 and im 13 and he is so hot and he has been checking me out and i was wondering (we are blood related) what would happen if we made out or worse. (link)
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Things will get really ugly you'll get into a lot of trouble as well as he,I don't think you want to regret for doing something beyond making out with your cousin.So please think twice before you lay your eyes on your cousin it could also break up the family so I suggest you get over your crush and lay your eyes on a guy who is not a relativve of yours.It was very wise to come,ask for help before you could of done a big mistake that will both ruin yours,his,and your families lives.
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A day before Easter, this guy said he wanted to be more than friends with me, but I had a boyfriend, so I told him we could be friends with benifits, and we
were pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend, we did everything together! So, eventually I dumped my boyfriend for him! So then, we were pretty much really boyfriend and girlfriend. But recently, my friend Jessica, she's like, my bestfriend, asked him out, and I guess he said yes, so then, him and I became friends with benifits again! And that was okay with me, except for that he told me he doesn't like Jessica, and He only wants me in his life, he told me he is in love with me and he is going to dump Jessica for me! I told Jessica everything, I mean EVERYTHING! She wasn't mad, only upset! She is a good friend, and she understood that she couldn't be mad because I had him first! But in my school, I'm really popular, and she is kind of a Geek! Nobody likes her, and she hardly ever gets any decent boyfriends, and I get whoever I want, whenever I want, pretty much. But since she finally has a really hot guy, i don't want to hurt her but taking him from her, but really i had him first! but he's gonna dump her, and i want to go out with him, not only be friends with benifits! and he feels the same, but she is in the way of everything! him and i are in love, you could say, we both love each other, and he dosnt have feelings for her like, at all, so what do i do?!?!?!? (link)
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You must tell Jessica to step aside,let you two be together,that if she doesn't accept it she's not being a true friend anyways like you said that he has no feelings for her.If she keeps getting in the way break your friendship with her,tell your boyfriend to stay very far away from her because you never know she might try to get him back.It's good that you follow your happiness.
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How can I curl my hair to get those soft big waves all the celebs have now? I tried once, ( I used 2inch velcro curlers ) but my hair look like a big mess when I took them out. Do I sleep in them, do I need to put moose or serum in? If so, which ones. Do I do it wet, dry, or damp? Please help, any tips, links, or secrets would be great! (link)
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Use some moose like Herbal Essences but wet your hair first,you could curl it yourself into waves using the tips of your fingers.As your hair is adapted to it then like when you wake up you'll see some waves,you will be surprised because since you have always curled it your hair will look naturally wavy.
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im 13/f and i finally found a guy i would like a long term relationship with but my friends are just laughing at me and makeing fun of me like guys are not an very important factor in my life but i dont know how to show them im serious. Please help.
sleepiesheep (link)
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Show that you're very serious by like spending a lot of time with him,talking to them about the possibility of you marrying him one day,that he is your soulmate,that you never felt that way about any other guy,talk in a very serious way of course,and eventually they'll see one day that you really are serious about having a long term relationship.
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I wouldnt say that I'm frightened of death, but I am very frightened by the process of dying, particularly thru illness. As with most people, I have unfortunately known people in my life to have developed cancer or something similar, and died from it.The thought that this can happen terrifies me, and I cant understand why no one else seems to feel the same way. Can anyone tell me; generally, do you know if you have a cancer early enough for it to be treated? Is it common for a cancer to develop inside you and for you to have no idea until it's too late? Thank you, I rate fives. (link)
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What you wrote to me was disrespectful,after I had answered your questions. You seemed nice but you need to grow up so if you are going to talk mean to people who try to help you then don't even bother to ask for it!You should be ashame of yourself!
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