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I have a boyfriend that i love alot but he hits me.But he say he sorry and he won't do it again but he keeps doing it. He said if I leave him then he will kill me.I'm so scared that he's telling the truth .He's already put me in the hospital 2 times I don't know what to do.So I need help ASAP if anyone can help me please.My life is on the line!
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Your boyfriend is dangerous. Get the police and your parents involved as soon as possible. If any boyfriend ever hits you at all then you should break up with him. Trust me, you don't love this guy. Throw him in jail where he should belong. If he hits you hard enough to put you in the hospital... nvm I don't even want to think about it. Tell the police, throw your bf in jail and dump him. This situation has "danger" written all over it.
-Joce
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i really want to babysit for someone. how do i start a babysitting job so i can earn some money? i am in 7 grade is that too old or too young? if i cant do any babysitting what other job can i do at my age? how do i go about finding babysitting jobs? (link)
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7th grade is a perfect age to start babysitting. You should probably start by finding out which one of your neighbors or nearby family friends have little kids between the ages of 2-9 and ask if you could babysit them. It's not too hard. Many of them will be glad to take their kids out of their own hands as long as they know that they can trust you. If you change your mind about babysitting, then you can always do housecleaning like me. You make a fair amout of money, but I'm a neat freak and I actually enjoy cleaning things; so you might not want to take my word for it.
-Joce
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I am Juliet. My Romeo is gay. At the end of the play there's a kissing scene. So as not to offend his homosexuality I need to learn how to fake kiss. Any ideas? (link)
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I'm sure that you won't offent his homosexuality if both you and him are acting. He probably doesn't really care about you kissing him because he will know that it's a stage kiss. There's a big difference between kissing him for real and kissing him because you have to.
-Joce
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My flowers died and im soooo depressed now.... I even named all of them. I need help (link)
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replant new flowers... DUH!
-Joce
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sooo is it true when u start becoming good friends, i mean really good friends like when the guy says "so you do really take good care of me", etc.. is this how you start falling in love with each other or the relationship develops into love than just as (friendship!!
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he said tht you remind him of his ex-girlfriend is that a good sign of saying we could be just more than friends?
But the ex-girlfriend he used to comment on her about good things before,thts when he didn't know me, but wat im tryin to say is he used to comment gd things about her and so would tht mean when he said to me you jst remind me soooo muchhhhh of my ex-girlfriend? is tht gd or bad?
but he says tht i am soo attractive and very caribg etc... (link)
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He may just be a flirt, but to me it sounds like a good thing. If he liked his ex girlfriend and he can still talk openly about her then he MUST like you.
-Joce
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I'm 14 year old girl. and I'm a little confused by stuff... at my school and with pretty much everyone I know it's not really a big deal to make out with someone you don't know or just met and I admit that I have. ALot of the time you can't really go out with anyone unless you give them a handjob or something. It seems sort of wrong to me, and it go me thinking about abunch of stuff.
When I was younger I thought that I wouldn't have sex until I was married and I realized that I don't care about that. Now I just don't know when is the right time to have sex.
Friends of mine have said that they are just going to get it over with at a party we're going to soon or that they'll do it when we enter high school next year.
I was just thinking. How do I know when the right time is for me? I don't care about losing it before I'm married or out of high school, I just want it to be right.
How do I keep myself from doing something stupid that I can't take back? (link)
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Trust me, you will regret a lot of things in your life whether they involve sex or not. If you're going to have sex then make sure that it's safe sex. Use a condom blah blah blah but you probably already knew that. The truth is that you won't be able to prevent yourself from doing stupid things. Have sex if you feel like it but be aware that you may regret it when you get older.
-Joce
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ok im in 8th grade but nxt yeari will be going into highschool and im so scared. the school im going to has over 2,000 kids. im really scared of not finding my class cuz its such a big school and im scared of all the boys that will hit on me
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Yes, highschool is a big change. I was really scared of highschool too but you'll get used to it after the first week or two. Just remember to tour the school before you start aimlessly walking the campus on the first day of school. Otherwise you are going to look like just another dumn freshman. And yes, boys will hit on you but you'll get used to it. It will happen throughout your life, so just learn to deal with it. 2000 kids isn't that much if you really think about it. You probably won't even talk to even 10% of those people through all of your years in highschool so just concentrate on the people in your social group. That's all that really matters once you get into highschool. Don't worry about it, hs isn't much different than middle school was.
-Joce
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i have dis friend dat likes dis otha friend but i waz talkin 2 d phone wit dis friens which it a boy n he waz z lyk sweet talkin me n said he is no worrin bout m otha friend so y d next day he was like i like ya otha friend dat kinda hurt me cuz on d phone he was like we sound like a couple and ya betta gurl den ya otha friend so dat reallu hurt me what should i say 2 dis friend dat is a boy without him tellin all his friendz wha i told him!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????????? (link)
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First off, let me re-iterate wat you sent, so as to make sure i understand. u have this guy friend, who likes ur friend. But wen you talk on the phone with him, it sounds like he likes you. But at skool, he says that he likes ur friend. Well, it sounds like u gotta a crush for him as well (dun noe if u did b4). He sounds like a flirt, who naturally flirts with everyone. Dont take it too seriously. But, if u like this guy, and u wanna be with him, and it does seem like he likes u, send him a few signs. But if he continues to stick with liking ur friend, then just step aside, and move on to someone else. He sounds like he might be too much of a flirt, and that mite get him in trouble wit his future gf.
-AJ
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Hi my name is"Shai" and I am 16 years old. I have this one problem...I'm never satisfied with the boyfriend I have! Whatever boy I may talk to, no matter how sweet he may be, always seems to fall short of being my type. And the currentboyfriend I have, used to like my bestfriend(I mean a BIG crush). My bestfriend didn't like him like that, but he had a huge crush on her. I liked him before I knew he liked my friend. Then, once we started talking, he began to like me like that...and here we are today. I have another problem. I think this guy is cute that likes my friend, but my friend doesn't like like him all too much in that way. I know I sound confused because I am. I don't know why I'm finding the guys that like my friends attractive. PLEASE HELP A.S.A.P.!!! (link)
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If you can never be completely satisfied by your boyfriends then it is probably better that you wait for that perfect guy to come your way. It may be a long a grueling wait, but he will come sure enough. And when he does come, you'll know it. If you find all of your friends' crushes attractice that is completely normal. It's our human nature to want things that we can't have and to get bored of it once we actually do have it. Just remind yourself that boyfriends aren't just things to have around like a collection of trading cards. You have to truly love and care for them. Another thing may be that you have never experienced "love" before;; therefore, you don't know what to look for in a guy so you are attracted to a majority of the guys you befriend. Just don't worry and don't break too many guys' hearts before you finally find that perfect guy for you.
-Joce
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can u get pregnant without a boy's penis going into ur vagina.
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No, but that doesn't mean that you should masturbate all the time just because you can't get pregnant.
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my bf thinks he's fat. i don't call him fat. my mom calls me fat. i love badminton and volleyball. i dunno what i'm asking. what should i ask?!?! ahhhhhhhh!
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hahahhaa!!! XD You are not fat and I know that for a fact. my advice... leave a case holding 2 million dollars on my front door and all of your dreams will come true. XP
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i know your all going to call me a liar but i'm not. well, my freind is 12 and has had sex 13 times with the same person. here's the story...when she was 10 she was dating a 14 year old guy, their parents met and got married, then they were dating other people since they had become step siblings, then they wanted to be together so they had sex, just rcently she got pregnant and had an abortion all from her step brother. then a few days a go she gave head to and 18 year old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i think it's rediculous! but she loves him and when she turns 16 her parents are signing something so they can move into an apartment together! she calls him her "husband!" i think it's real slutty. what should i say when she brings it up around me? (link)
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Your friend is in desperate need of help. You should definately tell her to see a guidence cousellor. If you don't do something soon, her life is going to be completely ruined even though I think that it might be too late. She also needs to be aware that having sex with her step brother is illegal because he is 18. Her brother is going to jail if she continues to do this. If you are truly a good friend, you would get her some help.
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i am a salami......what should i do?!?!?!?! (link)
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You should lay on a large bowl of rice and have a snack. :3 teeheee!!!
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everyone at school calls me fat.....my gf calls me fat...... even my COUSIN calls me fat.... so does that make me fat?? what can i do to stop this!??! (link)
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I'm sure that you are not what everyone says that you are. Hearing things that are close to the term "fat" may make your mind think that people are calling you fat when they didn't actually say it in those terms. I'm not saying that this is true, but I wonder why your girlfriend would call you fat. If you are concerned about people calling you fat then maybe you should do more exercise and start running a schedule for what and when to eat. Boost your self esteem. Appearance isn't eveything.
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i want a lion 4 a pet
how do i get it without joinin the circus (link)
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Getting a lion for a pet isn't a very good idea. It would be incredibly expensive and hard to take care of as a pet... but you could always become an animal trainer or get a job at the zoo. If you had a liscence then it would be legal for you to take care of one.
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yeah. hi. remember me? duckie and juicyfruit girl? well i can't just pretend that i don't like duckie. because actually, he's my ex boyfriend and i still am attracted to him. it's impossible not to. and now juicyfruit keeps on questioning me if i do or not and i don't know what to say! (link)
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Don't lie to juicyfruit. If you are truly feeling up to it, you should tell her how you truly feel about Duckie. Just follow your heart, it will know what to do.
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Is there a site or downloader I can download music but not have to pay to download it or get caught? There are so many songs I want but I won't download just to be careful. (link)
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http://www.mp3sound.com/
http://www.mp3mediaworld.net/
http://www.mp3xplosion.com/
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i'm a 16 yr old wo has been bullied for 9 nine years. Mostly fopr the pure reason of my apperance. I live in a family of five in a one parent family. I arn't the kind of kid to ask for everything maybe coz i no we cart afford it. At school i have at least 90 kids bullying me about my appearance and teaseing me. We i started igh school i had a group of friends but now the popular person in the group lost a bit of weight and turned into a bitch saying i could never get that size because im a size 16. Sjhe is aware i am being bullied. Now i have no friends at school cart go to half my lessons coz its so bad. I arn't jelsous of them i just no why people say be proud to be different if ppl just bully u. Ive been to the doctors about depresstion and the school nurse. A man who deals with suidal people sat in on one of out conversations but i guess i wasnt that important. I cart look ppl in the eyes anymore i have so much pain in my heart and feel so unhappy for something i cart change. I no the bullying wont stop but i just want to no why i souldf be the one feeling lonely upset and made to feel different coz i have ginger hair and dont wear adidas. (link)
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Don't be depressed that people bully you around all the time. I know that it hurts a lot. I've been through somewhat of a similar situation before. Just try to avoid the people who bully you and try to move on and make new friends. Try to make friends outside of school and do activities such as church and outside sports. Don't be sad chief. There are a lot of people out there who I'm sure love you.
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Ok well see i started my period like a monthe or two ago and now im on my third mothe but i havent had my period since the frtst month even though my first period went two days into the 2nd month is somehting wrong(i didnt have sex either) (link)
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When your period first starts, you have a very abnormal menstrual cycles. Don't worry about this,its perfectly normal. For about the first two years you start your period, you will have abnormal periods. You might skip a few or have one period for two weeks in a row. Just don't stress about it, theres nothing wrong with you.
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What is the meaning of life? (link)
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The meaning of life is to make yourself and others around you happy. If you look at it in scientifical forms, the meaning of life is to increase the population by interbreeding with others and to create as much genetic diversity as possible.
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