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Unsatisfied and Confused
Hi my name is"Shai" and I am 16 years old. I have this one problem...I'm never satisfied with the boyfriend I have! Whatever boy I may talk to, no matter how sweet he may be, always seems to fall short of being my type. And the currentboyfriend I have, used to like my bestfriend(I mean a BIG crush). My bestfriend didn't like him like that, but he had a huge crush on her. I liked him before I knew he liked my friend. Then, once we started talking, he began to like me like that...and here we are today. I have another problem. I think this guy is cute that likes my friend, but my friend doesn't like like him all too much in that way. I know I sound confused because I am. I don't know why I'm finding the guys that like my friends attractive. PLEASE HELP A.S.A.P.!!!
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If you can never be completely satisfied by your boyfriends then it is probably better that you wait for that perfect guy to come your way. It may be a long a grueling wait, but he will come sure enough. And when he does come, you'll know it. If you find all of your friends' crushes attractice that is completely normal. It's our human nature to want things that we can't have and to get bored of it once we actually do have it. Just remind yourself that boyfriends aren't just things to have around like a collection of trading cards. You have to truly love and care for them. Another thing may be that you have never experienced "love" before;; therefore, you don't know what to look for in a guy so you are attracted to a majority of the guys you befriend. Just don't worry and don't break too many guys' hearts before you finally find that perfect guy for you.
-Joce
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Is this a case of "I like a guy until he starts to like me, then I don't like him any more?" Maybe this is not so much about the fact that your girlfriends like the same guys you like. This has to do with your own self esteem. If a guy's value immediately goes down when he likes you, it sounds like you must not think very highly of yourself. I think you need to think about why that might be.
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Maybe you should take a break from boys, you have no clue what you want. Take some time for youself to grow and mature. Relationships at this age never work out anyway. When you know what you want out of life, the easier it will be to find a guy you connect with.
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