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its not fair
this girl in the year above me was saying realy mean stuf about me cos i went out with this boy she used to go out wif.my friend over heard and told me every thing she said, i got on to the girl who said it and she denied it.to at day after school she got a lot of other girls 2say stuf to my friend for telling me,they were calling her realy rude names and threatnin her on the bus,she is scared to go on the bus now and has no other way to school, she pretended to sleep in to get her mum to leave her to school today but on the way home they got evn worse towards her, she rung me an was cryn,she says she feels like killing herself,shes pretending to be sick tomorrow, she doesnt want me to say anything to them cos she thinks it will make it worse and she feels she cant tell anyone either cos they will get her, i duno what to do, shes terrified, she cant stop cryn, they degrade her every day wen she is on her own as we get differnt buses home, its affecting her realy badly and im very worried about her, wot can i do to make them stop, they dnt say nothing 2her wen shes with us but wen shes on her own they go mad at her,im getn depressed an cant concentrate on my school work which isnt good as this is my GCSE year, i cant imagine what it must be lik 4her, she doesnt eat or anythinh now, i feel so bad cos i feel lik its my fault, plzz i need an urgent answer, im so worried about her.
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I think she really needs to tell an adult. She might start with her parents, since this is effecting her school work, but also she could talk to someone at the school, like a counselor. I know she thinks things will get worse if she does this, but I don't see how they could be much worse than they are now. She is taking a lot of verbal abuse to the extent that she is afraid for her safety. If she tells someone, at least if something happens they will be informed of the circumstances. It might make the girls who are harrassing her stop.
Also crying, not eating, and wanting to kill yourself are not good. She needs help. This is beyond her or you to correct. She really needs to talk to someone.
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How immature...
So what if your going out with that guy? he likes you and not her...she should just get over him since they aren't together anymore. and probably won't be.
it also depends how you asked the girl if she was saying those things
"yes because so and so told me."
now they are mad at her...because it was suppose to be BEHIND YOUR back. always keep it secret.
your friend need to tell one of the teachers, or her mother. the mother is there to support and take care of her.
suicide is NOT the way. and there are thousands of other people living more crap that she is and yet they say "there is a better way."
i feel like writing something now...i'm inspired. but back to the point, just talk to her, help her out. tell someone...it'll make her day/s.
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