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I am a 20 year old male from florida. I started dating a girl about a month ago, also I live with her. She is bi-sexual and that sort of bothers me, but I can deal with it. She spends a lot of time online, at least an hour or two each day, talking to people, some she knows offline and others she doesnt. She left herself logged in to one of her accounts today and so when I went to use the computer it was on her message screen from some free online friend network thing. She was exchanging messages with a girl from orlando who was also bi. The first message is my girlfriend responding to a post from the other girl about "girl seeks girl in florida for love" or somthing close to that. They have exchanged a few messages, kind of flirty, and im not sure if I should be worried, upset, should I talk to her about it? We have a pretty good relationship so far, I think, and we talk about everything. What should I do?
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I think you have every right to be angry and upset, especially since this seems to be a committed relationship. You need to talk to her about it. You sound like a genuine, lovely guy, and someone who deserves love and commitment, not some girl who is just messing around. Hope it all works out x
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She is essentially "cheating" on you. Do you have a committed relationship? I would think so if you are living together. Or does she think of you as a "friend with benefits?" This doesn't sound too good to me.
It really depends on how you see the relationship. If you decided to talk to her about it, ask yourself this: what do you expect her to say? What would be an acceptable explaination to you?
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I think you need to ask yourself "if it was another man she was talking to online and seeking would this be a problem for you?" Do you want a serious relationship with just one person? If so does she? It doesnt matter if its with a woman or a man your girlfriend is flirting and looking for a relationship outside of the one shes currently in. Is this what you want too? You started dating and moved in with someone all in the same month. Yes i think its time you sat down and talked..Good luck!
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