We are all looking for that inner peace we believe is out here waiting for us. Someday. We live what we learn and ask, Why me? Stay in the day. Thats where the inner peace is. Tomorrow doesnt matter. Laugh a little more. cry less. Dont expect change unless your willing to change yourself first.
I will answer your questions using all the lessons i have learned in my life. I will do the best i can. Someone helped me and now i want to do the same.
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lately i cant wait to grow up. like i cant wait to get my period, i cant wait to become a teenager, i cant wait to go to colledge, i cant wait to get married, i cant wait to have kids, i cant wait to drive, like all of that stuff! does this mean anything?
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I know how hard it is but i grew up too fast and the things that i wanted to do so bad i did too young and missed out on all the fun being young can be. enjoy sleeping late on the weekends because when you get older that sometimes can never happen. Enjoy not working and paying bills and having grown up responsibilities. Driving means paying for a car, insurance and gas that means you have to work everyday and you can never just go back and be a kid. Responsibility comes with age and be a kid now enjoy it. Everything else will come sooner than you think and youll be glad that it happened later than now....
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My dad recently quit his job. He didn't like the managment or something. It's been like 7 months or so and I'm worried that he won't be able to find one and we will run out of money soon. I'm also worried because my dad doesn't do anything all day while im at school. I used to come home everyday and find him sitting there wastching the TV. Thankfully he's starting to get out more and do things. Is there any way I can help him find the job he is looking for? (link)
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If your mom is there too i really think you should try and talk to her and let her know all your worries. You are worrying because you really dont know whats going on and it doesnt seem like a stable situation for you. Talk to her and then maybe your dad. let him know you are worried and are confused. Ask questions. After they are answered don"t read any deeper into them. Im sure they will take care of you. Its just a difficult time for all right now. Good luck.
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I am a 20 year old male from florida. I started dating a girl about a month ago, also I live with her. She is bi-sexual and that sort of bothers me, but I can deal with it. She spends a lot of time online, at least an hour or two each day, talking to people, some she knows offline and others she doesnt. She left herself logged in to one of her accounts today and so when I went to use the computer it was on her message screen from some free online friend network thing. She was exchanging messages with a girl from orlando who was also bi. The first message is my girlfriend responding to a post from the other girl about "girl seeks girl in florida for love" or somthing close to that. They have exchanged a few messages, kind of flirty, and im not sure if I should be worried, upset, should I talk to her about it? We have a pretty good relationship so far, I think, and we talk about everything. What should I do? (link)
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I think you need to ask yourself "if it was another man she was talking to online and seeking would this be a problem for you?" Do you want a serious relationship with just one person? If so does she? It doesnt matter if its with a woman or a man your girlfriend is flirting and looking for a relationship outside of the one shes currently in. Is this what you want too? You started dating and moved in with someone all in the same month. Yes i think its time you sat down and talked..Good luck!
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, living together for 3 of them. In this time, he has never celebrated my birthday unless I specifically told him where to take me. He initially told me his family didn’t celebrate birthdays but I found that to be false. Every year he has a new excuse, even when I make it clear that I’d like him to celebrate my birthday in some way—even if it is just a card. This year was the worst. He started a fight with me and then told me he had planned to take me to dinner except the fight ruined it. But he never even made reservations anywhere. I just can’t understand why he insists on hurting my feelings like this or how to make him understand how important it is to me to be treated special for one day a year. We have his daughter from a previous relationship (who I have helped raise since she was 2) every weekend so we do not get to be romantic very often. It seems silly to me to break up over this, but I can’t take his thoughtlessness anymore. (link)
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Is he a good boyfriend otherwise? Does he treat you mean? Is he usually a good man and just doesnt get into the holiday or birthday thing? The answers to these questions are important.My husband is a wonderful man but he doesnt think much of birthdays and holidays. I was hurt at first but came to realize as we get older (im 33) that other things are crutial in a relationship. I celebrate my birthday and holidays like they are the biggest thing in the world. Ever since i started getting off of him to be someone hes not he started to enjoy the plans i made and it has made a world of difference. Your the only one who can decide if hes worth the compromise...
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