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hey everyone im maria and i love giving advice. im pretty good, at it i must say. so if you have a question just drop it in my inbox. lots of love ♥

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ok, so a guy i know and love is stareing at me now that i have boobs... but what if thats all he likes me for? i want to love him , but i dont want him to break my heart.

well....go out with him see how it goes and if hes just a sick minded pervert then just dump him and slap him across the face! thats what i do

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i brush my retainer every day. it still ends up smelling like crap somehow.. my mom called my ortho, and they said to use the stuff that you put dentures in.. i did that, and it still smells bad! does anyone know something good that will get the nasty smell away from my retainer?

get a new one and put it the stuff that you put denchers in.

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Im gonna try to make this as short as possible so no one has to read alot. There is this guy that goes to my church that plays guitar in the band.When i saw him i thought he was so cute and looked like a nice guy. I didnt know how old he was so i asked someone and they said they think he is 16.. and they also said I am to young for him becaue i am 13 but I dont think its that big of a diffrence. I wanna talk to him but im scared to and im never scared to talk to guys he is the only one. I dont know if i like him like that i just wanna get to know him and stuff because he may have a girlfriend. What should I do?

yea, its huge of a difference. just stop thiking about this guy, its not gonna happen

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ok i hate showering and bathing, cd players never help, rubberdickies annoy the living hell out of me and scents give me headaches? i never feel good in the bath/shower, please help me!

you hate showering? you must stink, eww. thats gross. rubber dicks annoy you? well thats good for you but we didnt really need to know that.

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This boy asked me out the other day for this friday. I really, really like him. But the thing is, I'm afraid I might say something. I don't want to give away his name...he's actually "famous" or w/e (my dad's a prop manager for the show he's on).
So we're supposed to go out this friday and its going to be hard. I know he's a normal guy...and so far I've treated him normal, when I see him for like 2 minutes at a time... and thats just on the set. Whats it going to be like out in the public with other girls everywhere?? And what do we talk about? Should I bring up the fact that he's on tv? That my friends want to meet him? IDK!!!!

go out wiht him. omg this would be my dream! go out wit him. the second best thing other than me being happy is me making othe people happy. go out wiht him!

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okay so i am and only child and im am the total opposite of spoiled! if ne thing im way over protected! my parents are really tight! and they wont let me do n e thing! im 14 and im goin out with this boy but i dont kno how to tell my parents.. i mean they kno that i like this boy and he likes me but how can i get them to let me go out with him? or like just atleast hang out with himout of school? i get good grades and im honest with them and they trust me and i deserve to b able to have more privalages! how can i just explain to them that everyone has a boyfriends when your my age and that most of them are allowed to go out on a date with them?

just dont tell them, and tell the mmyour going to a friends house and go hang with this guy.

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what is the meaning of life?

well....for some people it means the hell that comes before heaven. others think its the greatest thing that ever happened. i think that life is like a rose, even the most beautiful things die, no matter what. life, my friend, is a beautiful thing but no matter how nice or how beautiful it is, it will die. and sometimes the death of beautiful things are a good thing, some are bad. for you it seems that the death of this beautiful thing will be another beautiful thing. but before you think of this just think of all your family members, will life be as beautiful with out you?

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R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla


Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx

well, i feel sad. but i dont think that the world will end. the world will end when jesus comes back to earth, and hes not here is he? any way when the 7 secrets of the blessed mother are revealed then jesus will come back, and the world will end, that atleast what i believe in. and yes, i am preaching or trying to and im not ashamed of that. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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how do i have a conversation on the phone with a guy with out him getting bored every time we talk. this guy he always seems bored on the phone with me. we talk like everyday and he calls me ALOT and i call him too. i just need a good conversation we go to the same school and everything he even said i was like his best friend. but when we get on the phone i never have anything to say. what should i talk about

signed-

phone conversation help!!

when you are bored talking to him just say you gotta go cuz your little sister is listening on the phone to your conversation. hope i helped
xoxMARIAxox

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okay my mom is going to dallas for the night till tomorrow at lunch, and my sister is watching us. ahe cant drive though, i need some good ideas of things to occupy me, that dont involve tv, books, or hanging out with my siblings

tell your sis your gonna hang with your friends and get a ride to where ever your going and a ride back too. hope i helped
xoxMARIAxox

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So, i like this guy that i've liked in the past. We spent alot of time together over the summer of *04 and we got to know eachother. We snuck out at like 2 once and hooked up. Slowly, we stopped talking. We started talking again in January, and now were all flirty again and i think I like him again. But my bestfriend called him me "hook-up buddy" and i guess we are. But i still like him, alot.

I dunno what to do about this bc I mean I like him but at the same time i cant, i dunno why though, please help

ask him out, i think he likes you too. you seem like the luckiest girl ever, i wish someone would hook up with me. ASK HIM OUT!!!!! hope i helped.
xoxMARIAxox

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ok im going to a new school monday how do i make freinds? like i dont want to sit alone @ lunch or sit by the rong person. iv decided that guys are more easy to make freinds with than girl i mean some girls are really nice but you have to addmit guys are easier to make freinds with what if they think im a slut then if i try to make freinds with the guys? help!!!!

ty to make friends with guys the way you think is eassy, and you can make friends with girls if you just say, 'hi, im (name), do you know where the (name any random room) is?' or something like that. you could like walk with tehm or something. hope i helped
xoxMARIAxox

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my cat constantly follows me and everytime i sit down she comes to sit on top of me.. i will get up andmove somewhere else but she still sits on me.. i push her away but 2 minutes later she comes up again.. i know its cute and everything but it just really annoys me sometimes.. does anyone elses cats do this.. how do you get them to stop

oh yea, my cat does this all the time.take your cat to a room and pett her till she falls asleep, then go in another room. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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well for the past couple months i have been really sad and drepressed! i dont know whats wronge with me....i like havent been feeling like doing anything but sitting around and i've been crying alot for no reason....i have also cut my self...i dont know if is drepression or what? please help!!!

see a doctor they can diagnose depression. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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I went out with this guy on April 20th, 2003 and we went out for about 9 months. He stopped talking to me all of a sudden, had his friends lie to me and tell me he was in jail..and all this other crap. I soon figure out he had 3 other girlfriends ! Anyway, it look a long time but I got over him. It's been over a year and when I think about him, I dont cry or anything. But latley I've been kinda depressed because pretty soon its going to be April 20th and I think about the good times and just....how do I forget about this guy? I dont want to be 30 and still remembering April 20th as the day I met him! I want to forget him!

15/f/I rate

get another boyfriend. not a pimp like the other one. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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i love singing, dancing and acting! i love been on stage but every time i do the school production or tell people i go to a stage school on a weeken then they say that its typical and say that im a drama queen. one of my friends say that i learn to act so that i can lie and make up stories to get attention! i dont know where it comes from because im really quiet at school. i only open up on stage because i feel that its not me! am i o.t.t? what do i do to change their minds?

i do the same exact thing, im like the shyest person ever and im so like.....open on stage. tell them that. tell them its just because your really shy. hope i helped
xoxMARIAxox

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ok i have a few very close friends and some not so.. But what i was wondering is... if i ended up on disney channel what do you think they would do? be jelouce? would they still want to be my friends? or just use me?
What would you think if you're friend suddenly out of the blue got excepted on a popular show?
+ concerned and worried

i think theyd be jelous because your on a show and theyre not. even though disney chanel is the corniest thing ever! lol. no offence. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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omg! i already had a question about this kid Brandon, (who i like and is 15)..he is my cousins friend, and im younger than him..well last time i went over there and my aunt and uncle weren't around, he started touching me..i mean, my butt, my chest, stuff like that..omg and i havent told my parents! what should i do?!!!

lucky......

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Hi im 13 female and i wanted to know if any one my age knows how i can earn $3000 dollars (three thousand dollars) i live in florida close to mims i need to earn money but dont know how.. i want to earn money for a horse and my grandpa said that if i get $3000 than i can get one. so i need help i rate 5's thanks
hopeful one

you should babysit and walk dogs and stuff, get more than one job so you earn twice as much money. the normal charge for babysitting should be 5$. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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Hey, I'm 13/F and I just got my period in January. I had it for 6 days. I haven't gotten it since!! It's the end of March now which means I skipped two months?? I know I'm not pregnant (I have no idea how to spell it)
Is something wrong with me???

you did spell pregnant right. you could have acidentally gotten pregnant from the sperm on the toilet seat from maybe your brother or your dad or something, get a test. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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