Im a 17 year old female and my family has a lot of restrictions on me. I don't have a boyfriend because it is not allowed and my family is watching me most of the time. When I was 16, I began masturbation and needed more if you know what I mean. We acquired a great dane a few months ago and so I have been letting my dog hump me. My family still doesn't know. I have been getting what I need. Is it ok to continue my "practices"?
Yeh, this is wrong on every level. It's not fair on the dog, please stop now, because trust me vets can notice these things.
Um, I would suggest that you watch something wrong, but it seems your morals are all over the place, putting yourself before an innocent dog-tbh it's sickening.
I think, and I'm not trying to be nasty, you may need to see a therapist, if you think this treatment of a dog is normal young lady.
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How to sex long time
From you're lack of answers I think you may need to ask this question again, giving a bit more detail, as to me it doesn't make sense. Then we can help you.
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Okay, I REALL REALLY like this guy I have known since aorund OCtober. I'm thirteen. I read sometime online and it gave me a crazy idea...He moves near the end of April, I want to see him before then, but i want him to remember me. SHould I give him a good bye kiss if he likes me? I plan to telll him how I feel when I see him... PLEASE HELP!
No, not the kiss. That'll appear very full on-you want to be remembered for the right reasons right?
If I were you I'd write a note. In this world of technology, a note is certaintly something that'll be remembered. Also, unlike a quick peck on the cheek, he'll be able to keep looking at the note.
You can be as detailed or not in this note, just express how you feel. I think this is a more romantic way of going about things-he'll think its cute! Be sure to add contact details on the note. I mean a phone number or address, not like bbm me or message me/follow me on facebook/twitter.
To get him to remember you, you gotta do something that little bit different, but you don't want to push it by giving him a kiss, because theres a time and place for that behaviour, and that is when you're both sure you like each other. You're unsure, so I suggest being a little less forward! Good luck!
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15/f i've wanted birth control for a year becasue i honestly get the worst leg cramps when on my period. im not dramatic at all about physical pain i can take it but it literally is so bad and my mood is horribly like one second im so happy the next im crying and i eat like crazy. i just would like my period to be a little more regulated. my two older sisters take it becasue they are sexually active so they need to take it, but they said dont take it for your period because you could gain weight and your moods could be even worse. but now that im dating my boyfriend for a while i dont know when it could happen but probably sooner than later. im very mature for my age and i put a lot of thought into it. so i am going to the gyno soon for something because i think a have a yeast infection. but anyway..should i just ask the doctor about birth control? like i know my sister is on planned parenthood so i would ge ton that. but im a little worried that my mom would freak that i would be having sex but i mean im trying to be really responsible and careful and i dont want it to hurt me and my moms relationship. he would also wear a condom but still i want birth control so what do i say? because i also dont want to put myself in that position that it just happens when im not on birth control i want to at least be prepared. advice? thanks
Don't go to your doctor asking for the pill-go asking for pain relief-like I did.
You may know this pill works, but when I went to the doctors asking for something to help me, they gave the pill then.
I was with my mum, but because she understood it was for pains, then she was ok about it.
When you're 16, or even now-most young people go to see the doctor on their own.
If you're that embarrassed-why not get your sister to take you there on your own?
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I have an irregular menstral cycle, i dont know when its coming or going but when it does come it usually last for three days well anyway my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex and immediately after my period came and i recently found out that he ejaculated inside of me. Am i possibly pregnant ?
Yes you are possibly pregnant.
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I am a 21 year old female that cannot get a job. I have applied for numerous jobs in the field that I have studied in, cooking and I never seem to get hired or called for interviews anymore. I live in a city with about 120,000 people where it's constantly winter... I have also applied to numerous other jobs that aren't within the field that I've studied such as being a clerk, gas pump attendant, waitress and acrobat, etc. Jokes about that last one but I still never seem to get hired ??? What am I doing wrong?! Since first not being able to get a job this year, I have been: aiming each resume to the particular job I am applying for, writing down the expirience I have aquired at my previous jobs that apply, getting my friends/family/resume builder to help suggest changes and I've been checking my resume from an employers persepective. Yet I still haven't got a full time job ? I've even applied for jobs in the next city which is an hour away. Would it be ok to just put all my experience on my resume rather than the actual places I've worked at? My resume has a cover letter then is only one page with all my info/work/exc and a page with three refrences. I do dress and act professional when I get an interview btw. But I'm now starting to stress out because my mom thinks I'm not trying to get a job since I've had no success so far, plus I'm starting to need a job to survive :/ I live on my own, off of my previous savings right now. Advice?
Hi,
I feel for you-and other people our age as it's harder than ever to get a job. It's hard-but it's not impossible. This is what I did to find my part time job.
1)When you apply, make sure you follow up your application with a phone call. Even if they say ' we've not processed the application yet', they'll remember your name-and that you're interested.
2)Get more work experience. I used to do 10 hours volunteering in the field in which I wanted to work in. Not only is this CURRENT work experience essential, you'll get amazing references to. So you want a job in cooking? Why not offer to volunteer cooking in a care home or for a charity? Sure, it's unpaid, but at least it looks like you're so into cooking you're prepared to do it in your spare time.
3)If you do go to interviews and do not get the job, make sure to push them for a reason why. This will be positive criticism to help you through future interviews.
4)Try not to focus to much on the job you want to do and have studied in. Start ANYWHERE if it means getting you on the job market. Even as an agency worker or a temporary member of staff-the more paid experience you have, the easier it'll be to find you dream job. Also, try charity shop work, or anything with communication skills. It makes you look like a genuinely nice person.
5)Stay positive. This is essential, because persistence pays off. Make sure you don't let the job search beat you, else it'll show (your desperation) in interviews. Be sure to still have a life around finding a job. Usually, jobs come about when you least expect them to.
Good luck-I'm not saying all these tips will definatley find you a job-but it'll stand you in a good position.
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I just found that my sons English teacher in tenth grade for this semester is only 21 years old (female), My son is 16. I do not feel comfortable with my son having a teacher that young and a person that young being in charge of a class that includes young boys 15-16 years old.
She probably looks no different than a student/kid.
I went and confronted my son about this and told him about my discomfort and how I would prefer to switch him to another teacher. He told me not to do so in almost a desperate type of way. This makes me suspicious. Why would he care so much about having to switch teachers?
Should I pull him out of this class or take any other type of action? People called me names and made fun of me when I asked about this elsewhere, but I don't care. I bet there are more people who feel the way I do, they are just too afraid to say it
To honest I'm more of your sons age than the teachers.
Nowadays there are lots of younger high school teachers around. In my last year of school I had a science teacher age 22, English teacher 23 and currently have a lecturer at college who's 22!
What I can assure you of is that the young age of the teacher will have crossed the mind of the headteacher when employing them too. In my experience the younger teachers are stricter, and also tend to assert their authority more. Especially if its like English where it's compulsory, I don't think they'll be a problem.
Just think, this teacher being only 21 would've had to fight tooth and nail to get where she is-I highly doubt that she'd use her sexuality in this instance.
I know if I was pulled out of the class because of the teacher, then I'd be upset-like your son may be. Because: 1)I'd have made friends in that class 2)Everyone would ask me why I moved, and I'd have to lie because I'd be too embarrassed to tell them it was the teacher.
I think it's actually quite good she's young, because young teachers are getting more and more common due to being more qualified. Moreover, as you well know, you're son is nearly an adult-in a few years time it wont be up to you who his boss is and/or who is teacher is. I understand that you want the best for your son, but I think you need to trust him in this case. It's a good way to learn self discipline.
Finally, it'd be unfair on this teacher if he moved class-because its presupposing an event before its happened.
Hope I helped
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Hey guys
So i have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months amd recently he has been not texting me as often, and just not showing much interest in me or being as caring. I have had boyfriends before but i am his first girlfreind. He used to send me these long texts about how he is the luckiest guy in the world and he never thought he would even have a chance with a girl like me and all that. Now i just usually get one word responses and he takes a long time to text back. :( its been getting on my nerves and i always ask, are you busy or sonething but he just says no. Is he cheating on me do you think? Or maybe hanging out with another girl? We are both in high school but we go to different schools. How can i find out if he is or what are some signs to look for? What should i do to make it last? Im lost please help me. Thank you:)
This happened to me :/
Without offending you, perhaps he's not feeling the relationship quite as much as you are anymore.
Usually, when people play away they make extra sure in the first few months their partner doesn't suspect anything-so I dont think he is.
I think that you need to talk to him. If he's ignoring you, remember that ignoring is a form of bullying-and it's obviously making you feel bad. If it does come out that he doesn't want the relationship anymore, it's ok-at least you adressed it and put yourself out of your current misery.
Don't be afraid to confront him about it either, the sooner you know, the sooner you can readress your situation.
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Hi I am a straight teenage girl and my boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year. The other night he mentioned to me that he had a nude dream. He was nude infront of our school and I was in it, and he said this was a reoccuring dream. Could his dream mean something? What does it mean?
It depends whether you're a believer or a sceptic really.
So he always dreams about being nude in front of your school. It could be interpreted into something, but also it could simply mean he was thinking about you/the school before he fell asleep. Aww.
I wouldn't think too deaply into it, not because I'm being nasty, but because I don't want you to presume he feels things for you based on an unproven piece of science, that's all.
But either way, he was probably thinking of you before he fell asleep-so its a win win situationf or you.
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I am constantly abused physically at home what can i do
You've not given much information about your situation...but its clear from asking what you should do, you know you can do something.
1)Call the police
2)Speak to another family member who isn't abusing you
3) Don't know how old you are, but ask a teacher
4) Next time, don't ask on here for help as responses may be slow-call the police straight away.
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22/m
Hi,
I seem to get really nervous-almost scared about talking in groups. It's weird because if I'm talking to someone one on one it's fine usually. But when the attention of everyone is on me, I turn bright red, my voice cracks, and I start panicking. It's also quite because often it happens when I'm in a professional environment with friends, e.g. a training session with my colleagues.
It usually starts when I have to introduce myself, and talk about myself. I've tried everything you would expect- picture everyone naked, relax, breathe, do it often (introductions etc), remember everyone wants you to succeed and to calm down, pretend noone is around, etc etc.
I've always been shy, but I remember when in high school- I would always volunteer to speak in debates in my school club- I don't know where our c why things turned. I was willing to let it go as a flaw, but it's starting to affect my career now, to the extent of me nearly calling in sick just so I don't have to do it.
Seriously, any help will be welcome - I'm desperate for solutions!
Thanks.
I have anxiety to. I'm only 17-but this is what I do to help myslef.
1)Put myself in public speaking situations. For example, volunteer as a spokesperson for somewhere. Force yourself to speak to people on the phone not by email. Get work experience or volunteer with things like scouts/guides or whatever. If you arange things like this where you can't get out of speaking to people, then you'll have to. You'll feel scared on the day and jsut ebfor ethe event, but amazing afterwards. The thing is the more you put yourself in these horrible situations, the less they will seem so scary.
2)Get wise about anxiety. It is a very common illness-you're not alone by any stretch. Understand what it is. It's not going to kill you-it's your fight or flight response which is designed to keep you safe. Whilst it feels really rubbish-it's only there to keep you safe.
3)Try medidation. Take a few minutes out every day to meditate. Research 'mindfulness' online-it helped me no end. Also, acknowledge that ok, you feel anxious to speak in front of others, but just acknowledge this and let the thought pass, without commiting to it (dont allow the thought to get you anxious, just be aware its there)
4) Don't try to 'not' think about your nerves. If I told you now, whatever you do, do not think about a pink elephant-guess what you though about? So just role with it. Allow yourself to feel this way and use the nerves to your advantage.
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how getting a virgin to have sex
You have to gain their trust. Its a very special thing and if they had anything about them they'd want to lose it to that special someone, not just in a moment of madness, with no self respect.
So to answer you're question, you don't just 'get them' to do it. It all starts with them finding you appealing and attractive, as if they don't you may as well quit whilst you're ahead.
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My best friend in the entire world is turning sixteenn this Tuesday, April 9th. Things is, we don't have so many friends. I mean, we do, but we choose to only hangout with eachother. Because of this, she isn't having a big party since she only wants to be with me anyway. Only problem is- I have no idea what do to for her. Its her sweet sixteen, and I want to make it amazing. She is my best friend is the world, and I know that if I don't, nobody will.
I don't want to throw a party for her, I just need ideas for something special me and her can do together.
My friend has been through A LOT in the past year, this being the first birthday she will have without her dad in the picture as he passed away recently. I just love her so much, and I need to make this amazing.
Please give me ideas on what to do!
Her and I love going to the city (we live in Chicago) and have our liscnece, or at least I do. We are very artsy people, and love anything unique/ cool. Thanks!
I'm 17-and I'm exactly like this, my best friend IS also my twin sister.
Whilst we're friendly with a lot of people, we're not party people either, plus its so easy for other people to turn your party into an event revolving around them-when it should be about you!
You could do a number of things, depending on the type fo girl she is:
1)Book her into have a spa day/get her hair done
2)Buy tickets to see her favourite band/artist
3)Go and see a broadway show
4)Try out a daredevil sport-only because these dont really require large teams.
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Okay,I'm 13 and my boyfriend will be 16 on July 27 2013. No I'm not going to say "should I have sex with him?" Because we swore off sex at least until I'm 17. What I'm asking is if it's normal. I always get made fun of because of the age difference. I know it's only 3 years but in middle school you usually date someone in the same grade as you. Pleas help me. I don't want to break up with him if its not normal i just was wondering if anyone else is in a relationship like this.
The user below has given good advice, but you specified at the start that you dont plan to have sex with this guy yet-so lets not talk about that shall we?
It can be difficult with age gaps, but I know lots of people in year 7 (I'm from england-so about age 12) who date ppl in year 10 or 11 (aged 15/16)
I think its more widely accepted now than it used to be, because social media means its never been easier to interact with more people-so whereas previously in high school a 13 year old and a 16 year old wouldn't really have any reason to meet, facebook and things makes it more easier to talk, so I guess these kind of relationships have to be more widely accepted.
I think the older you get the easier this will be to deal with-its not like the guys an adult yet anyway.
So my answer to your question is whilst its not the norm its certaintly not uncommon or unheard of.
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Hey im 15 and have been texting this girl i like a lot recently.we flirt sometimes and her friend says she wants to kiss me if im out with her soon,so youd expect her to be quite outgoing in our conversations.sometimes she can be really flirty and reply instantly but a lot of the time she takes along time to reply,sometimes ignores messages and i have to start another conversation topic and she never texts me first i always start out chats.what is going on? Im clueless
She's either shy or playing hard to get.
I'm shy and used to do this all the time! You see, if you're her first real love interest that she has feelings for she's bound to be a bit shy to initiate things with you!
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Hey well basically at a disco a few weeks ago i kissed this girl and know we've been texting lots and we both kind of like each other i think.im 15 and usually just hang out with guys from my school and if i was to hang out with girls i wouldn't know what to do.i want to ask her to do something but i cant think of anything to do that we could do without it being a date.does anyone know any sort of activities we could do like with a few other people aswell.and what do u do when u go out with girls im really in experienced and dont know how to do.any help much appreciated and please no hate
Why would we give you hate?!
I think you need to do activities that involve generally a lot of fun, so you're not nervous and conversation will flow naturally. WHatever you do, don't just 'hang out' as in meet up and not really know what to do, make sure at least one activity is planned! You could try:
1)Bowling-the best thing about this is that whilst its fun it's also easy, so most people like it. Also, in bowling alley places there are also places to chill and café areas
2)Ice Skating. Whether you guys can or cant ice skate-its a very fun activity! It also means you'll be quite close to the girl physically and this helps conversation flow nicely. As with the other option, there are also places to relax and chat to in an ice rink.
3)Go to an event. Like a treasure hunt trail or your local village fete or something. These places are always happy places, so spirits will be high. Also, if your actually watching something then conversation should be easy
4) Try something new. Like paintballing, hot air ballooning or whatever. She'll always think back to when the first time was she tried such a thing, and then wonder who she was with-and remember you.
5)Have a movie night in, watching a scary film. Research papers and scientists have proven that watching a scary film actually makes you feel closer to the people you're with when it's finished.
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I like staying up till around two in the morning and then on my own I wake up around 10 on weekends. On weekdays I go to bed at 11 and wake up around 6 am. However im exhausted most of the day and have low energy. What can I do so that I can go to bed late and wake up early and have plenty of energy? Also tea and coffee barely have an effect on me. I can drink cups of them and still fall asleep right after. I'm not very active I'm always laying down and I try getting up to dance around and be active but it doesnt last very long and then I just go back to laying down. So I dont really have any energy to do that either. So please help me! Thanks bye 15/f
You may like staying up till around two, but it's on your own head be it if you feel shattered the next day.
Why do you like staying up that late? TV? Quiet? Or you may just be a night owl. Either way you're not helping yourself in terms of energy levels!
I suggest if you are a bit of a night owl to take a power nap (but not after 3pm) only for half an hour-this could boost your energy.
Try exercising before breakfast, as this will help you wake up. Or a cold shower. Also make sure you're eating healthily. Foods like chocolate and fatty foods may make you feel groggy by the end of the day-ensure you eat plenty of fruit and vitamins which give you energy. These are natural ways to gain energy-don't worry about not reacting to coffee-in my opinion its unhealthy to survive the day off stimulants like caffeine any way.
If this problem persists or is currently so bad you can't get on normally with your life speak to a doctor, to rule out any underlying health conditions.
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I have been wearing a night guard (custom made from the dentist) for some time now, and use Efferdent to clean it every night. It's gotten stained now, so a light brownish tint, rather than clear. What can I use to safely remove the stain?
I wear the same thing. Ask at the orthodontist counter and they'll sell you this mixture that you use daily to clean it up with.
Also, make sure you clean it every night under COLD water with a soft toothbrush, and during the day if it's very stained.
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My ex and I have dated several times over the past 7 years, he just found out 2 years ago that he had a son, Him and I got back together right before Christmas last year and I lived with him and his 8 year old son. I witnessed some horrible behavior as a father to his son, he became very lazy, making his son do everything from changing the television channel to getting ice for his whiskey. We split up about 2 months ago, and it was a very bad break up, so bad that I actually cannot stand to hear his name. I have recently found out that I am 2 months pregnant, and have already made an appointment to terminate. But, I'm having second thoughts, should I do what I think is right and tell the father, even though I know it will lead to more stress and heartache, or do I go through with it and get on with my life? I have wanted a child for years, however, I am not ready for it now, I am about to graduate college and I dont even have a job or any money saved up. The father is a cook for a small store, so I know we would struggle. I dont want my child to grow up with anything less than a perfect life. What do I do?
Don't abort the baby.
Obviously it's not for anyone on here to tell you how to live your life, but here are my thoughts.
There are many women out there who can't have children. These women are now at the adopting stage. Imagine, if you had the child, you could give it up for adoption and change a womans life so much.
I think you should tell the father-the infant is as much his as it is yours after all.
Idk, I don't want to force any religious beliefs on you, but I just think its wrong to throw away a young life that easily. Giving it up for adoption means you wont have to struggle, but instead you could give it an even better life with some poor woman who can't have children of her own, and give it the perfect life.
Finally, I suggest if you're not ready for children please you protection so you don't end up in this situation again!
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13/F
So I go to sleep at about midnight then wake up at 6:00AM. I have stuff to do, that's why. Should I sleep more? Is it okay? I don't know how I'll be able to sleep more.
It's fine!
Sleep is important, but not as crucial as everyone thinks. The user below is right, for your age then it should be about 8 hours.
But I went through one week of hell with insomnia when I had no sleep at all-and hey I'm still here.
As long as you can function correctly during the day and its not affecting your grades or how you live you're life, don't worry and carry on as you are.
Doctors told me it really doesn't matter, the only thing that gets affected through lack of sleep is your memory.
Honestly-you've got bigger fish to fry than worry about sleep!
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