For girls sex, especially a virgin, sex has to have meaning. She has to feel there is a true love relationship. She has to feel safe and secure in the surroundings she is going to have sex in. Most of all she has to feel she is not going to get pregnant.
Most girls will not give up their virginity to the first guy that says they love them. Also more girls today are not having sex until they are much older, according to a recent surveys. Girls do not feel the same need as boys to have sex. Though your life can be ruined just as much as the girls if you impregnate her.
With pubescent boys the need for sexual release is hormonally driven. That relief can be had through masturbation, mutual masturbation, handjobs, oral sex. Intercourse at your age is something neither you or the girl are truly mature enough for. As I said your need is hormonally driven.
You are not the one that runs the risk of pregnancy. My advice is never force, conspire or harass a girl for sex. Not only is it morally wrong it is illegal. Their are a great many other ways to relieve your sexual tension without having intercourse. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
kittenlover2000 answered Wednesday April 10 2013, 6:28 am: You have to gain their trust. Its a very special thing and if they had anything about them they'd want to lose it to that special someone, not just in a moment of madness, with no self respect.
So to answer you're question, you don't just 'get them' to do it. It all starts with them finding you appealing and attractive, as if they don't you may as well quit whilst you're ahead. [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
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