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Q: i really want to model but i dont know if i am skinny enough. i am 5 foot 5 or 5 foot 6 and i weigh around 112 pounds. if i am not skinny enough wat are ways i can lose weight (im really bad at not eating junk food). thanks 4 the help.
p.s. does ne 1 kno ne wayz i can start 2 model?? i dont really live in a big city. thnx

You don't have to be skinny to model. These days there are plus size models, but I hardly think you are a plus size. Although, I don't think it's a good idea to model, because some people will say they are "modeling agencies" and try to get you naked, I don't think you really want the whole world to see you naked, unless you want to be a porn model. If you're wicked serious about it though, I don't really know what you can do. Maybe you could sign up for a fashion show at the mall? Or post pictures of yourself on the internet but BE CAREFUL, don't give out your name and address to strangers, get your parents or someone to help start your career.

Q: When a guy puts his arm around a girls waist do u think the girl should put her arm around his waist or like his shoulders??

Whichever is more comfortable.

Q: Hi,
I'm going on holiday to Europe with my friend in the next holiday. We are gonna go out a lot of places but the thing is I have really heavy periods. There is a chance I will be on my period for this holiday and they are so heavy that I can't walk around or anything without having to rush to the toilet. I know I should see the doctor, I have an appointment for when we get back. But what excuses can I give my friend as to why I can't go out for the couple of days my period is this heavy? Could I pretend I was ill? I DON'T want to tell her I am having heavy periods 'cause it's just gross OK. So don't answer with that.

I'm sure if you just say to your friends "I'm on my period", they will understand, maybe they even have painkiller that you can use.

Q: okay- i have been getting cramps, and i have that "discharge" stuff.. am i getting my period??

either that or you're mutating.

Q: The boy "C" I have been talking about is starting to talk to me again. Well not actually talking but I'll hit him and he'll hit me back and he'll sit next to me. Anyways a whole lot of people is telling me that they like him and they have way more better chances of going with him than me.But you see I really really like him. We havent actually had a serious conversation because of all those girls that always all up on him and if there not around then his little clique is around. I really need to know what to do around like 1:30 today it will help me a lot!

Just ask him out before anybody else does and stop hitting him.

Q: Here’s the information you need to know before I tell you the problem.
-The people who are involved are me, my brother, and our friends M and G.
-Our parents are on a benefit basketball vacation because we all play.
-I give my brothers team there plays
-M is on the opposing team and my brother and G are on the same team.
-M asked me to the formal before all this happened.

Day 1) okay well it was the Friday my dog got put down, my brother had a basketball game, and I went into a crying fit so M and G tried to help. then I went over to Gs and I went home afterwards and M came over to be with me because it was storming.
Day 2)I made the winning shot at my basketball game, M gave me a hug before I could get to G, and I broke away from him to get to G. we went out to lunch, I walked home with G, just the 2 of us. M got mad. I got home and before I got there, my friend called and told me that M said yes to this girl for the formal. so I flipped on him and ran outside and then he came after me and said he wouldn’t have said yes if he knew i liked him, cuz he thought I wanted to go with G. and then I told him he hated me and he said no, i love you. so I dont know.
1 and a half weeks later)another bball game, for the boys. M got a technical, and so I said, its ok M. and he was like, I love you, and he yelled it to me and the ref thought he was talking to him, so he said ok that’s it get out of here. and then M was like, why I was talking to my gf. and he was like right, I am sure she’s your gf. so he came over and gave me a really long kiss, and G got upset. So the ref resigned the technical. But that doesnt matter.

I don’t know what to do, at all!!!

Forget about them, and find a nice girl.

Q: My room always is smelly, I want to know some inexpensive ways to make it smell better.(I can't use candles and purfume son't work.) THANKS ALOT!!

Find the source of the smell and clean it up.

Q: OK i wrote about wanting to get my dad back as coach for little league because him and my friends dad as coach were awesome together and we had tons of fun. I have this as a petition but i dont know if i like it. Do you like it? Do you have any suggestions for a different way to word it? Thanks I'll rate 5's because i know this takes a bunch of effort

heres what i have:

Last year's Senior League team was a lot of fun and team includes the coaches!! So if everyone had fun..why the change? The signatures of last years' players/parents show that they want Fred and Dave coaching again. (Along with Liz P.. new this year)They worked together great! Everyone from last year wants this year to be just as fun or better..and part of making it that fun is having our favorite coaches back again! So we ask the board to please make Dave and Fred coaches of this year's Girls Senior League Team. It means a lot to the players,Fred, and Dave.

Why not just give the new coaches a chance, maybe help them make the year fun? But I guess if it means SO much to you, get everyone to speak about what wonderful coaches they are. Though if it doesn't work out, I hope you give your new coaches a fair chance.

Q: For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx

noodles
bowling for soup
milk with honey
gackt
slash
pianoes
shoes
teen titans
jesus
buddha
brains
chiana (from farscape, you know)
bouncing balls
spinning around until you get wicked dizzy

Those are all very good. : )

Q: at school, there's this boy who's been bullying me for ages. he's nasty anyway, but he always picks on me. it's stuff like hitting me on the head with his folder, hitting me with a ruler, putting things like selltape and pencil sharpenings in my hair, calling me a minger, and saying stuff like 'your hair is nice, *ahem*'. my hair is horrible, but he has to say something nasty about it. i've spent loads on products to sort my hair out, but nothing worked. sometimes in the corridor he just pushes me into a locker, or into someone, it's embarrassing. if i'm happy, he will do something like that, and i'll feel really depressed, like i want to die, 'cos i'm worthless. i can't tell a teacher, 'cos 1. it's embarrassing, and 2. his twin sister and mum will hate me for getting him into trouble, he's from a rich family and he thinks he's better than everyone, he always gets his own way =/ sorry it's so long, but please help? thanks xo

Look him right in the eye and say, "Wow! You must really like me, huh? Reminds me of first grade!"

Either he'll shut up and you'll become friends or he'll say, "yeah, I do have a crush on you" and you'll end up married with seven kids.

Q: u suck

Thanks ^^

Q: im 13/m...All of my friends say that i always flirt with this girl. she used to like me A LOT and then when i started going out with my g/f about 8 months ago, she like started yelling at me and we didnt talk. But now, we are friends again and we talk, but whenever we do, EVERYONE says that we flirt, nonstop. i try not to, but i just cant help it, i love my girlfriend and i mean that. what should i do pls help me......

PS.... how do you flirt? i barely know what that means

Don't listen to everyone else. I flirt with all my friends, it's no big deal. Basically it means you talk in a cute sort of way, you might call each other hot or hint at romantic things. But I bet nobody you know knows how to flirt and they are just saying that because a guy and a girl are talking to each other.

Q: ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?

Go to a doctor. Tell your parents. Tell the police. That guy needs to be locked up. I think that if the baby had died, you would have had a miscariage, but maybe not. It is most likely very damaged, go to a doctor right away!!

Q: just warning you, this may get long!

last night me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years were in my room and sleeping. not fooling around, literally sleeping. then my dad comes in and freaks out bitching like we had sex or something.

the situation is that i'm the only girl in the family and they treat me like crap. i do the dishes almost every night, take care of my sick grandma, do the laundry, clean the house, and do well in school yet they still look down upon me like i can't be trusted. i am a very responsible girl and i have had enough of them snooping through my room and checking up on me.

the only possible reason why i think they could be acting like this is that we don't communicate very well with each other, let alone get along. maybe bitching is their way of talking to me? even so, that doesn't explain the overprotectiveness!

my question is what can i do to make them trust me? i feel like i've done everything, all ending in failure.

i used to really HATE them for what they put me through, but when they made an effort to BE NICE things got better. our relationship has improved over the past two of months, but after what happened last night, my grudge against them has returned.

please help, i don't know what else i can do. it seems like nothing is ever good enough for them...

-frustrated

Have a family talk about this. A talk, not a fight, where you sit down and all calmly speak your minds. Maybe you could do one of those things where you pass an object around and whoever is holding it is the only one who can speak. If that doesn't work, look up a family counselor.

Q: Hey I have wrote before but I took out some of the names out of the choices that I wanted you guys to help me with.. I like unique names btw.. not like John or Matthew.. just so my baby will be most likely the only one in his class with that name.. Here's a list below and maybe if you find one or something I may like suggest it please!
Jayden
Daryk
Carsyn
Aiden
Kaden

thanks a bunch!!

I still like Aiden. But you're not supposed to repeat questions, they'll probably ban you or something.

Q: i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again?

Common sense would say you go tanning when the burn is gone, or never because those things give you skin cancer.

Q: how can you reduce air resistance in the sport of surfing? *for a project. thx in advance

Why don't you look it up?

Thanks! I do suck, don't I?

Q: hey! i really want to get highlights in my hair. but i dont know what colors to get. can anyone help me? i have dark brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. thanx!

blue

Q: I have a cold where I have to blow my stuffy nose like every minute. Now it's all red and it hurts under my nose. My mom doesn't even care I'm sick and suffering so what should I put to heal the sore? Or maybe it won't matter because I would just wipe it off. :-/ I have to walk a block to the bus stop in the freezing cold so now matter what I'm not really getting a chance to heal this cold. What do I put on the redness? And what are some tips to get over this cold faster? Thanks

Lotioned tissues, and also try Nyquil and sleeping on a lot of pillows.

Your mom sounds like a bitch.

Q: I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone?

No, that's not weird.

I mean really.

You're fourteen.

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