How can you delete a question you posted?
You cant delet it! :-/ sucks i know
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How do you breakup with sumone that loves yOU?!
if you love them you wouldnt be breaking up with them. But to break up with someone jsut tell them that your not feeling connection anymore, and you dont think you can be with them.
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shuld i shave my arms
well if your a female then yeah!
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okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(
Lilly
Just tell him its weird for you to have an internet boyfriend and that you dont want to be with him anymore.
-holly-
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Is it safe to cook with pans if they're getting rust spots in them?
NO! It can get into your food and can make you really sick and stuff! Use new pans! Good luck
-holly-
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Well I know this is kinda sick and all but im gonna ask neways..when I shave down there its gets all red like a rash and then sometimes it bleed and i really dont know what to do..
Ok when you shave you HAVE to I REPEAT HAVE TO USE SHAVING CREAM! Or it will get a rash or whatever. Shaving cream and water! Good luck
-holly-
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What would you do if things in your life were always downhill and uphill like big time. I have delt with it all...family in jail family getting divorced rape drugs sex everything in the book ive been through it, and im 14! Ok so I have always had trouble getting through anything and I always feel that i need an adult to talk to..but theres no way i could talk to my mom. So i have 3 people who have helped me in the past. One was my moms friend, one was a teacher and currentley one is my cousin and godmother. Yeah well it seems that everything just got better. Good right? No wrong becuase now shes moving away to south carolina and i live in michigan. I am afraid that everything is going to go back downhill. I have recentley decided to keep my life up and look at the good side of things and take control of what i can. But now i fear i will slip back and go into a deep depression once again. I dont kno what to do im confused..someone please help me.
I'm sure you'll meet someone new soon. You can possibly go and talk to another teacher, meet with a consular. I know those things are tough to deal with... I've had to deal with a few of those things myself! But stay positive and sooner or later things will clear up! I promise, till then keep your head up and focus on positive stuff.
-holly-
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I dated this person 4 almost 4 yrs... I loved them soo much n then we went down hill. I don't know if I'm still "inlove" with them, but I always think about them. It's starting to get better and fade away, but they seem to already have moved on. It's only been a year!! What should I do?? Do you think they've moved on?We were eachothers first loves, and I thought first loves don't end!!!Plz Help!!
I think that you will always love your first love. And i'm sure its hard to move on. But you've got to. He might have moved on but i'm sure you still hold a special place in his heart. I'm sure it'll take you a long time. but keep your head up things will get better.
-holly-
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what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it?
Theres nothing wrong with it at all! Atleast I dont think there is. Some people just make a bigger deal out of it then others! And some people see it differently.
-holly-
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I'll start from the beginning....
When I was little, i used to live in washington state, but then we moved when i was 8 years old.
this other family with this boy that had been in my 2nd and 3rd grade class moved to the same part of florida the same time we did, and we ended up going to the same school.
our families became close friends(my sister is about the same age as his little brother)
and we'd go over to each others houses a lot, and when we were little we used to come up w/ these little plays (some romantic, we'd "marry" each other...), and well, we got a little older. last year, he moved to orlando, and we spread apart a little. we saw them, and we were playing around and like fake kissing each other in this little "play" we made up (my little sister is only 8, and she really wanted to do a "play")
and now he's moving back to where we live. i dont kno if he likes me, but i kind of think i like him. what should i do?
signed,
confused love
Thats cute! You're lucky hes moving back! I had a situation kind of like that my boyfriend back in middle school moved... out of the country! but thats besides the point! I think you should really talk to him and tell him how you feel! Cuz if you dont you'll never know, a good chance might just pass you by! Maybe its a sign or something that hes moving back! :D Keep your fingers crossed and wish for the best! Good luck.
-holly-
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Hey Should i break up with my P.A. relationship i haven't see her yet and i m really confused and i like this girl erica and samantha but erica is to young for me and samantha is like 2 years what should i dunno
Mike
If you like other girls then Yeah break up with her because its not fair to her in the end! And go for Samantha! :) Good luck!
-holly-
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How do I add different backgrounds to my column?
Ok first go here and find a back round you want http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/ go over the URL that is over your backround and copy it. after you do that , Go to edit settings and go down to "Page Backround image (URL)" and paste the URL there. If this doesnt work then send me another question and i'll try and explain it better.
-holly-
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See i liek this girl but she lieks another guy and i always try to tell her but she never liek answers wat do I do?
signed,
confused
well its kind of hard for a girl to answer her feelings to another guy that likes her, she might not have the same feelings towards you and doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Try asking her why she never says anything back. Good luck
-holly-
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can a certain type of condom make u lose your erection? me and my boyfriend were gonna do it and everytime he put on a condom, he lost his erection...do u think it may be this certain kind?
I have never heard that before, but you can try another kind. Or maybe its just to small. Good luck and i hope you figure that out!
-holly-
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i have had this best freind of mine since i was in 4th grade. recently in 8th grade she and i started acting really different. i cared what other people thougth of me, and she couldnt care less...i knwo i shoudlnt care...but thats not what im askin advice about. well one time she told me that she had to go to the doctor and i might never see her again and left it at that. so i was worried. well it turned out that she had family problems and she was cutting herself. well we 'broke up" as friends and my parents are always askin why dont i ever talk to her anymore. im afarid that they wont except that we broke up bcuz she acted weird and i just thougth she was plain weird for an answer...what do i do?
well just tell your parents that you stopped hanging out with her because you guys just both went into different directions. YOu dont have to say YEAH SHE'S weird!
-holly-
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This year while I was vacationing in a place I regularly visit I met a girl. The night after I met her I drank way to much and ended up losing my virginity with her. I was really beating myself up over it the next morning, but it turned out that we hooked up for the entire time I was vacationing, however we never slept together again. The problem is, she doesn't know she was my first. She actually thinks she was my 3rd. Now im beating myself up for lying to her, but Im afraid that if I tell her now things could get awkward and I may not ever see her again. I feel horrible about lying, but if things got weird between me and her and I lost contact with her I would probably fall over and just never get up. I'm not sure whether to tell her, and if I do, I'm not sure how or when. I am extrememly thankful for any help someone can give me.
I think you should tell her. just be like i have something to confuse. I wanted to make myself look a lot better by telling you I had sex with 2 other people before you but you were actually my first. I hope you can forgive me for lying. Just tell her your really sorry! Good luck
-holly-
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umm well i like my nextdoor naboor n well he came to spend the night w. my bro n we madeout n i gave him a handjob n well he weent to visit his mom in NY n well he is coming back in a week or soo n still rele like him m im not sure if he likes me n well i rele miss him n i want to makeout w. him n how do i tell him that i like him n i want to makeout w. him??
Just talk to him, be like hey your really hot! and i like you alot, do you like me too? And then be hanging out then go for the kisses! good luck
-holly-
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whats the best way to get over a guy that ur stuck on?
Get involved with like a group activity or sports, or get a job and you can be busy and get your mind off of him, and who knows you might meet another guy
-holly-
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i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
help
Dont just do it for him... but if you want implants :) go for it! Good luck!
-holly-
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how can i put music into my advice column and where can i get the music??
Go to "EDIT SETTINGS" on your toolbar on the left of the screen and type this code in the block where you can type things about yourself
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Make sure you delete the ()'s around the open and close tags and just keep the open tag < and close tag > .
Go to http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xanga_music and find a song that you want and right click it and hit properties, and highlight the part that says "Address (URL)" and copy it, and paste it in between the quotation marks in the code where it says Musicfilename.mp3. (Make sure you delete the words musicfilename.mp3). Save your settings and check your column to make sure you didnt misspell anything, and voila!
Oh and remember to delte the ( and ) in the code..and also put your address url of the song in the " " of uxic file name. mp3 but deletre the music file mp3 thingy not the " "
-Holly hope i helped-
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