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I'm Eurasian (half Spanish/Portuguese half Chinese) and i LOOOOVE black eyeliner!!! I'm not sure whether I should line both lids or just the top. I like lining because I think it looks better than just the top but my mom thinks I look unfriendly, evil, sallow, like a raccoon (even though I smudge it with a Q-tip and I put it on lightly!) and like I come from a bad family. I'm 14, I have almond-shaped eyes (but I like have the folds over my eyelids), and brown hair. Help!!!! Sorry if this sounds self-centered, but all my friends are away, and I have nobody else to ask!!! sorry that it was so long! :) (link)
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Just line the top, a thin line. If you want the white to be emphasised (like if your eyes are bloodshot and you don't want people to notice) line the bottom with white (again, thinly) and use a natural colored eyeshadow.
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Okay..im a redhead..and alot of times wen i go out and meet guys n stuff theyre interested in me..but theyre more interested in the blondes or brunettes. Im not your usual redhead..i have tan skin and my hair isnt as frizzy and i dont have that many freckles. Do guys not like redheads? (link)
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Guys who are attracted to girls by their hair color are stupid. Don't worry about it. Go for the guys who like YOU. not your body, not your hair, you.
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Whats a good first day of skool outfight exspesicaly if your going to a new skool next year!? (link)
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That depends on what your style is. You want clothes that tell people about your personality. Go on Tickle.com and take the What style are you? quiz. I promise you won't get any junk mail unless you ask for it.
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ok so i am a guy and i signed up well tried out is more like the word for colorgaurd this sport that were wel lyou twirl guns wood of course and flags and show school spirit. and the great thing is i made it but my friends and well a lot of people disagree with my desicion. i mean i know i shouldn't care what they say and that god is here and i am doing it for him i want to get these people t know him and show others that this activity is not a joke or it is "gay" in there words. and i mean it hurts because i get made fun of but i live with it and give it all to god. but i still need prayer. so if you would pray for me that i may get through this rough time and show others that i can make a diffrence. and i mean i just ned advice and support on like how can i deal with this stress i mean i give it to god of course but how can i make it so when hurtfull words come to me such as "dude you'r a looser for doing that, coorgaurd is so gay and dumb only stupid kids do that" i mean it hurts do you have any verses i can look up and how to deal with this stress and what not. And pleas please please pray for me. on this situation
thnx a bunch
monn (link)
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Don't care what other people think about you. You can be who you want to be without them. I know it hurts. There is a thing called the 'lobster effect'. If you put a bunch of lobsters into a pot and start to boil the water, the lobsters obviously want to get out. But when one tries to climb out, the others pull it back down in the water. In other words, don't give up because there will always be idiots who don't want anyone to exeed more than them but are afraid to change. Maybe if you do this color guard thing, you will either make it popular or get better friends.
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Alright I have these cousins who are like my best friends and they have money...they arnt rich rich but they have good money. Well they get to go to California and Las Vegas and my family can't go anywhere...I think I'm jelous! is that bad? (link)
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Jealousy is normal, but don't get hateful. I think you will feel better if you invite them over to do something fun, like go swimming, or a game night.
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is masturbating a sin? or bad.. or what.. or is it just for pleasure?
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I think that no one should do that. It is only meant to bring babies to live in this world.
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Does anyone have any good ideas for a book, for a young teen girl to read on the beach. I need a good summer read. (link)
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The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants
Harry Potter
Beetween a Rock and a Hard Place
And check out Oprah's booklist. They're usually good.
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i just found out that my best friend was having an affair with my girlfriend! he admitted that he had sex with her, and that they had it more than twice! Now my girlfriend is pregnant and we don't know who's baby it is! please help! my parents are going to freak! (link)
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If you're really that afraid of the responsibility, don't 'do' that with anyone until after you're married. Besides, if this girl does have her baby, help to support her. It would be hard to support a baby singlehandedly without a good job, and it doesn't sound like you're even out of school yet.
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My hair has been extra tangled lately. In the morning it takes 10 minutes to brush out my wet hair. Can anyone suggest some products to cure this problem. My first thought was Johnson & Johnson's No More Tangles shampoo, but isn't that for little kids? (link)
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That shampoo does work somewhat, but here's what I do: You know those 'squeezy' brushes with the balls on the ends of the bristles? Use those and comb from the bottom up to work out the tangles. Don't worry about whether shampoo or conditioner is 'childish', but if it works! I hope I was helpful.
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I'm nervous about getting my first period. I'm really afrad that it will leak through and everyone will see. I'm jsut getting out of sixth grade and I'm supposed to be getting it soon. Will it leak through my pants?? (link)
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Don't worry. Ask your blood relatives when they got their periods and you will have a good estimate of when you will. I know how you feel (like a ticking timebomb)but don't worry. Very rarely periods are full-blown at first, you will just see a small spot on your underwear. It is good to, as soon as you are physically able, practice with tampons. I know it sounds dumb, but be prepared.
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OK, this may seem weird, but it's something that really scares me. Im really scared of being kidnapped. Now that it is summer, i really need to keep my window open, but what if someone cut the screen? If my parents are already in bed, I go around the house, checking to make sure every door is locked. I wanna stop being afraid. Am i being way too paranoid? HELP ME !!! I RATE HIGH (link)
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It's good to be aware that kidnapping is a possible danger, but don't be too afraid. It will help to comfort you if you think of what you would do in that situation.
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ok well the new school year is coming up and i kind of wanted to 'improve my look' cause last year i didnt really get a lot of guys.. so i was wondering what kind of things i should do to improve my look.. i have brown hair brown eyes.. everyone says i'm not fat but i think i am LOL .. so if anybody has some advice about what i should do to look better.. thanx i rate high! :) (link)
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Well, first off, Most women think they're 30% fatter than they really are. Trust your friends and family on this one.
Next, don't try to look sexy or anything. The best boys you'll meet are the ones that like you for you. Just go for FEELING good about yourself. If you spend time with you and become confident and self- assured, you'll attract good boys. Start with smiling your face off every day and standing tall, even when you don't feel that great. You will become a happier person. Really.
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my best friend, my family, and I, are going on a cruz in about two weeks to Mexico. My best friend and I were thinking about bringing some alcohol but we're scared that we're going to get caught when they check our luggage. We were going to put it in like two water bottles. What do you guys think? Do you think we'll get caught? Thanks (link)
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Do you really think it's smart to lose control of your brain -by getting drunk- on a ship in the middle of the ocean? You never know what stupid things you'll do!
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hey ok..thers this girl and shes my best friend well we just started being best friend and like she is always telling me i am her best friend and she doesnt tell people that often. but lately she hasnt been puting me in her profile and listing all these other girls under friends. like is she trying to not be my friend or something? because i asked her if she was mad and she is like no. and she asked why i asked and i said just wondering. but really if i tell her why i think that shell think im overreacting because this happened before with some other girl that wasnt really a bff but thought she was...like what should i do im so confused! please help and if your gonna be mean you get a one other than that 5 ratings! (link)
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I think that you should analyze the situation and look at "bff" through different eyes. Is she mean? Is she true? Is she just wanting to be popular thriugh you? You just need to use your better judgement, and yes, ask her about the profile. Don't just settle for, "No, I forgot to put you on" or "I will soon". Ask for more. If she gives you a curt answer, egg her on until you're satisfied. It could be that you have a right to be suspicious, but maybe not. If you want to be friends with her, have some fun together.
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14/f....Ok people this is like serious so dont be like rude about this...
Well my dad is very sick with an illness and like today is fathers day and everything and he was talking to me and was like "you know my medicine isnt working anymore...and like this is the last fathers day that i will be with yall and he was telling me how he wont be able to see us graduate or see his grandkids.and like i looove my dad so freakin much and like when me and my siblings were younger he wasnt really in our lives and then he came into our lives again about 2 years ago and liek when he wasnt in our lives i hated it i hated myself.....and i could never imagine being w/out him again..i dont know what to do i meen i cant talk to my family or anyone about it becasue im just not that kind of person it feels waaaaay to wierd to me...like he always tell me stuff liek "when he dies he wants ...blah blah blah" and like i cant freakin take it this is soo muc pressure of me and i think about it every single day and like earlier today i was balling my eyes out thinking that this was the last fathers day wioht him...i wish that this big nightmare would just go the freak away! i really dont know how to deal with this guys and i have no one to talk to it about..i love my daddy so much and i dont ever want him to leave.and liek i know its kinda stubborn but im like always kinda rude to him..you know how every teenager is..but like he is always liek do you hate me and i just wat to say "HATE YOU OF COURSE NOT DAD I LOOOVE YOU SOO EFFIN MUCH" but i cant.and like does anyone know sumthing special i can do for him like not today cause its already late but like another day..for fathers day..and also can you help me with the whole not being able to see him again...
Thanks soo much guys ! (link)
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Don't be rude to him. NOT every teen is, and he needs to know that you love him so much. YOU also need to know that. Make happy memories with him. Play games. Learn about him. Share hugs and laughter.
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Okay I have this grandma and she is so rude she wants us to go over to her house every weekend but i hate it i just want to go and see my other grandma that is really nice but i am trieng to convince my mom to take her what are some ways i can get my mom to get on to a plain take a day off of work and let us go and see my fun grandma
any tip would be great I will give fives for all of yall that are serious and just answer this question (link)
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It sounds like your grandmother who is 'not fun' still loves you and wants to be with you. I know you'll hate me, but just go to see her and ask about her a little bit. I'm sure you'll find her interesting if you open your heart. Besides, how many more opportunities will you have to see her?
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i have a longish face brown eyes and eyebrows and light brown hair with a small upper lip and a bigish kind of nose should i use lemon juice to dye my hair blonde or would it look bad also what are some ways that i can look better (link)
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Appreciate your body! Everyone is beautiful, so don't think you're ugly in any way! I would just keep a natural look. I mean, bleaching hair is fine, but it only looks good if you have a "blonde" complexion.
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i was just wondering if any of you agree with me and think its strange for a best friend to wanna know every single detail or wut goes on between you and your boyfriend..alrite well yeah just a random question (link)
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Little things like... "do you like him?" Are okay, but if it's too much, tell your friend to back off. It's your relationship, you have the right to keep it private.
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hi..okay well one of my bestfriends (mary) is saying that i am replacing her and that i dont hangout with her anymore wich isnt true becuz i do..and like i became really good friends with this other girl (beth) and mary is like saying that i replaced her with beth and that i hangout with her all the time and stuff and i dont like hangout with her and i mean i hangout with beth alot but its becuz she always asks me to hangout and mar never does...and shes saying that every1 is saying that and like wat should i do?
thanks,
julie (link)
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I had a friend just like that. Pretty much you have to bop them on the head until they figure it out.
Example: "I need to have more friends than you. If you won't let me have any more friends, Then maybe you aren't the best friend ever. Maybe I have to leave you and go on."
I know that it's hard, but if she's a good friend, she won't leave you.
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ok, at night, i have trouble sleeping. I think about what will happen the next day, what happend that day, what happend last week..ect. how could i fall asleep easily? I'm always tired in the morning...I don't want to be tired though!! please help. i rate 5's for good answers. (link)
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O.K. This is what I do. Get comfortable. Imagine yourself turning into jell-o from the toes up, slowly. Then feel how it's nice and cool. now imagine yourself slowly turning into lead from the toes up and sinking into your bed. Then find your "happy place" and think of what you would do there. Or you could just do as many push-ups as you can until you are exhausted and fall into bed.
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