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hey ok..thers this girl and shes my best friend well we just started being best friend and like she is always telling me i am her best friend and she doesnt tell people that often. but lately she hasnt been puting me in her profile and listing all these other girls under friends. like is she trying to not be my friend or something? because i asked her if she was mad and she is like no. and she asked why i asked and i said just wondering. but really if i tell her why i think that shell think im overreacting because this happened before with some other girl that wasnt really a bff but thought she was...like what should i do im so confused! please help and if your gonna be mean you get a one other than that 5 ratings!
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Hey! omg, I know EXACTLY what you mean! This girl decided to all of a sudden start calling me her best friend, but she'd have all these cute profiles with lists of "bff: _____blahblahblah" and then not list me! So I asked her that one day, and I think she put on like an act and was like, "No of course I'm not mad at you!" I don't really know how to help, but all I can say is that try not to get too close to her! I know it must be really hard because I luved having one best friend, but just don't sound too desperate to her or she might think you're too clingy and not want to be your friend anymore. (as harsh as that may sound) Just hang out with other people, but when you're with her, be as fun as you can be and just make sure she knows you have other friends as well! xoxo hope i helped <3
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I think that you should analyze the situation and look at "bff" through different eyes. Is she mean? Is she true? Is she just wanting to be popular thriugh you? You just need to use your better judgement, and yes, ask her about the profile. Don't just settle for, "No, I forgot to put you on" or "I will soon". Ask for more. If she gives you a curt answer, egg her on until you're satisfied. It could be that you have a right to be suspicious, but maybe not. If you want to be friends with her, have some fun together.
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that sounds a little weird that she wouldnt put you in her profile and instead she put other girls. are the other girls better friends of hers? maybe you could try casually asking about something else in her profile and then ask her about that. if you really feel its a true friendship then she wont be weirded out by you asking. she mightve just forgotten about it.
hope this helps & good luck- :)
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