ok my best friend is dateing this guy that iu so totally had first and he kissed me and held my hand and then all of the suddenhe likes my best friend when i see them together i get so sad and she keeps on saying oh i will dump him and then she doesnt what should i do by lost and forgotten
Try talking to your friend again and tell her how you still have feelings for this guy. If she is truely your friend, she should understand and will dump this guy. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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This is how it all started:
Me and my friends were talking about just random things due to boredom and I mentioned I was going over my guy friends house tomorrow. Now, I used to like him and so did my friend Kristine. But she doesn't like him anymore and every good chance she gets, she insults him and calls him ugly or stupid or whatever.
So, then she says "Oh yeah right. He is lying to you" and I was like "No, not really. Me and him are like best friends" and she said "Thats what he tells you. I asked him, 'Do you like her?(referring to me)' and he said 'No, just as like a friend. Not even best friends'" and I was like "Well, you don't know what you're talking about. How often do you even talk to him?" "A lot" she says (which a month or so earlier, Jason contradicted saying that he dislikes her and rarely says a word to her). But then my friend Natalie(who I know Jason talks to sometimes) said that Kristine actually does talk to him a lot. Basically, they both said
1)He doesn't like me as bf/gf
2)He doesn't even really think of me as his best friend(which he has called me before and says that I am one of his best friends)
So then later, I called Jason and talked to him about this. He got upset, asking me why I would believe Kristine over him(I talk to Jason a HELLLLL of a lot more than Kristine. Me and Jason are on the phone almost everyday) And saying that he rarely talks to her. He didn't even know who I was talking about at first when I said her name and he just told me she was lying and I said, "Now, maybe I misinterpreted, but didn't you say you considered me as your best friend?" and he said "Yes" and I told him what she'd said and he just seemed flabbergasted and kind of upset. But he told me that it was lies and he does talk to Natalie but not Kristine. He also said that he does tell people, when asked, that he doesn't like me in a bf/gf way and that we're friends. So then after the little "tiff" had calmed a bit, he said he had to go and I asked him, "Do you still want me to come over tomorrow?" and he said "I'm not positive. I'll call you" and I said ok and we hung up...Now, please, someone. God, I need advice on what to do and say to each of these people because I'm about to cry. I can't stand people lying to me, especially my friends and especially Jason because I actually care about him more than I care about Natalie and Kristine. Thank you so much, I'll rate
If you know that you and Jason are best friends and that he wouldn't lie to you, then Natalie and Kristine are just lying about all of this and you need to just ignore them. If he said to not believe Natalie and Kristine about their comments, then it's true that they are lying. Don't ever believe these two girls because it sounds like Kristine is jealous and wants you to not have a future relationship with Jason. If you trust Jason, then I'm sure he was telling the truth about everything. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ok I really like this guy ever since... whenever and everyone says that he wants a girlfriend really badly cause he's so desperate. thats why the girls he asks out break up with him cause hes not really worth it. well I really like him i really do and he started flirting with me the other day in one part he said "i'm afraid to ask you out cause you might say no" then i started giggling and he said "what do you have a thing for me" and we just started flirting. then i asked one of his close friends about it and she said that he usually does that when he wants someone to ask him out. and the flirting was like for only one day. after that my best friend asked him if he liked me and he said "no i dont like anyone right now." soo he is desperate but i really wanna go out with him cuz i like him. should i tell him? what about the flirting? please help! thank you soo much!!
-shy girl
You should tell him that you like him and want to go out with him but just think: he only wants to go out with you because he just wants a girlfriend and he is desperate. If his close friend says that he only flirts so girls can ask him out, then it's probably true. I would go out with him but if he's worth your time, then stay with him but if he's not, then dump him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Ok i talked to this guy on the internet and he goes to my church and i have never seen him b4...well last night i asked him if he wanted to go skating and i would meet him there...well he said when he saw me he was about to die...he said i was an ugly ass bitch..and he said that it was a waste going there...i told him that if u dont like me for who i am then we shouldnt talk or be friends...well i gave his sn to my friends are now he is hitting on them...he said he was gunna call me tonight but i am not talking to him...he can talk to my friends..i really like him because he is cute...but what should i do? stop talking to him? because all he wants is ppl to do it with...and i am not that kind of girl...if he dont like me for who i am and who god made me then we dont need to be friends...so what should i tell him??
Thanks!!
I would definitely stop talking to him. You don't deserve a guy who calls you "an ugly ass bitch". If he just wants to have sex with girls and you aren't that type of girl, forget about him and just find a better guy. Let your friends go through this. Like you said, "If he doesn't like you for who you are then you don't have to be friends with him". Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh omga this is getting on my nerves. my best friend is acting so weird latley. everytime i call her she makes up some excuse so she doesn't have to talk to me. latley she has been hanging out with all of these 9th graders. we havn't been friends for a long time but we have nown each other for awhile. i don't no whats her problem please help me.
You need to talk to your friend and ask her why she doesn't want to talk to your or hang out with you that much. Have you done anything to her that might have made her mad or pissed off at you? She's probably just going through something at this moment. Just invite her over or go over to her house and talk to her. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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yeah...uh i dont like to go in my room. its not fun. i dont know what to do w/ it. i cant repaint the walls or get a new bedspread....my walls are white, light blue, and yellow. i have a VERY high ceiling too.....im 13/f. any ideas???
You can try to decorate or reorganize your room. If you have pictures of your friends, put them up on your wall. Add things on the top of drawers. Cut up words from magazines and tape them to your mirror. You can also put a rug in your room too. Just look in magazines and you will find more ideas. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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*SORRY THIS IS REALLLY LONG, BUT I NEED YOUR HELP*
okay so , ever since the beginning of school there was this guy that I liked, Rob. Hes really cute and everything, hes a freshman and im a sophomore. Well. I never did anything about it because well, Rob seemed as if he were out of my league. and he never paid attention to me. Well I know his mom because his mom works at the school and i have 2 classes with her. So what happens is, last week. I go to lunch and my friend has bible study with robs mom....my friend told me that Robs mom said that Rob has been trying to talk to me for the longest time and everytime he gets a chance,I walk away by accident...So I didnt believe it at first, but then my friend goes, and she works at a resturaunt, and Rob went to the resturaunt alone...So since he went alone, my friend had a waitress friend of hers go talk to him so she goes up to him and askes "Do you know a girl named Kelly" and he goes "Yeah" and she goes" Do you think shes hot" and he goes " I think shes pretty, shes not ugly" and she asked a bunch of questions...so it ended up that he was supposed to talk to me the next day at lunch, I knew he wasnt going to , so my friend was like * FINE im gonna go talk to him* and im like * FINE i dare you* i didnt think she would...but she did...and i dont know WHAT she said, but i deicided to try to be unnoticable, but she pointed right at me when i was sitting on the cafeteria floor... well i got home, and i asked my this friend of mine Justin, who also knows Rob...for Robs sn...he gives it to me, and i told him to keep it all on the downlow that i asked for it...then he goes "lol do you know who he likes" and I was like " no who" and he goes " I donno 0:)* and he puts the angel face, and everytime i asked him ... he put the angel face. WELL then I go onto my myspace, and i see that Rob commented on my page and he says "Heyy this is Rob. Whats up? Oh, and your friend, really did ask me those questions just so you know...oh can i have your sn if you have one, comment back on my page and give it to me byee* and so i was like * woooowwww he asked for my screen name* but yeah, then i talked to him twice already online...and hes extremley nice, and well the second time i talked to him , we were talking about Napoleon Dynamite, and randomley he goes * so are you going to the dance* and the dance is on the 26th...and i was like * neh , who knows, I dont really wanna go if i dont have anyone to go with you know? If not, then im just plannin on going to the movies that night or something who knows :-)* and i was like what about you? and he goes * idk i might not sure yet* and so i was like * ooo cool* and then i told him that i saw him at the other dance with his ex, and he tells me how much he hates his ex now and he asked me if i had any x's and i go * nope* and he goes * oh you dont? Im sorry* and im like * nah its fine, ive had my chances blah blah blah * and then he goes * so im guessing youve never done anything with a guy...or have you* and i go * nah i havnt lol, id rather have a guy who likes me for who i am, rather than for what i do* and he says * good choice* and then he had to leave, but, yeah, me and him dont talk at school i guess its cuz were shy , but i mean... why would his mom say * hes been trying to talk to her for a while* you know? I dont know, do you think hes interested in me...do you thimk he likes me? or what....OH and I asked Justin if Rob liked a freshman and he said * yeah he likes a freshman girl* so me being a sophomore..its not me...and then Rob goes and tells me that Justin is dumb and that I shouldnt talk to him and i asked if he lies and he said * ummmmm yeahh* and i go *even when it comes to keeping friends secrets?* and he goes * yup* and so I dont know...what do you think?! HELP!!!
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Aww, Rob definitely likes you or is possibly interested in you. A guy wouldn't talk to his mom about trying to talk to a girl, unless he liked her. Rob has showed some signs that makes it seem that he likes you. If a guy is nice to you, especially over the internet, it probably means that he is interested in you. I think Rob's friend, Justin, was probably just lying about how Rob liked a freshman. Start talking to Rob at school so maybe he won't be shy anymore? It's good that he thinks you are pretty and not ugly. It shows that he has been noticing you lately amd is interested in you as well. Whatever your friend said to Rob during lunch when she pointed at you, it probably wasn't anything serious because wouldn't Rob have talked to you about that day and? If you take the time to read over your question like I did, you can definitely tell that this guy likes you. I think you should ask him to the dance, since he brought up the subject during the time you were talking to him over the internet. I know my answer is kind of short but I can tell that Rob likes you or is definitely interested in you! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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OK here's the deal... me and my two best friends, Julie and Jaimee we had this whole lil group thing going and we all put in our whole personality thing into it... so0o we decided ok we'll invite this other girl Kourtney into it... so kourtney she is the more sluttier of all of us and she has her way wit guyz... no offense to her... so0o Julie has been gettin really close wit Kourt and basically she is turning into Kourt.... she never was slutty AT ALL omfg... u have no clue.... but all of a sudden i mean it's like we have another Kourtney on our hands... I have nothing against Kourtney but I mean you can only have one Kourt... I miss the old Julie...the one that I knew... and I have no idea how to get her back....she's basically being a "pimpette" right now... handling two guyz at once... BOTH of which she doesn't even like... the old Julie would never EVER do this... how do I get her to realize that she's turning into Kourtney and how do I get the old Julie back?? thanks in advance...
Aww, you definitely need to talk to Julie and tell her how you feel. Tell her how she has changed from being a normal teenager to a "pimpette". You need to convince her that Kourtney has changes her and that you miss her. Invite her over or go hang out with her one day, without Kourtney, and that's when you should talk to her. Tell her a few things that Kourtney has changed about her and I'm sure she will then notice them. You really just need to talk to her. How about if you add another person in this group of yours that isn't slutty so Julie will then change. It may just work. But that's just a thought. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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*All my friends say I'm cute, but I think I'm ugly. They've all had boyfriends and I haven't. I'm 13 and in 7th grade, I've never been kissed or anything my little 11 year old brother already had his first kiss and he was making-out with the girl. I don't know what to do. I sort of guess I'm just ugly. But I can't take it. What can I do? It's tearing me apart it makes me feel unwanted.*
Hey, don't make yourself think that you feel unwanted and are ugly because then your self esteem and confidence will drop and guys don't like that. Don't worry about it, you will find the right guy one day. Some teenagers haven't been kissed yet and some have. Everyone is different and you will get your first kiss one day. The only thing you can do now is if you find a guy that you are interested in, start talking to him and get to know him better. This will help you feel not "unwanted". Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ok, i think this is going to sound really dumb, but i may as well ask it anyway. im 14/f.
well, im going out with this guy, we've been going out for nearly a month now, and he's my first proper boyfriend, and i know im the most serious he's had.
anyway, we're going to watch a movie in a couple of days, and some of my mates and some of his are coming too. the thing is, when we've been out before, we've been out in town, in the park, ive been to his house and things like that, so its not really the most romantic of settings, and i havent kissed him properly yet. i mean, we're fairly comfortable with each other and stuff, thre just hasnt been the right time to kiss him. and ive never kissed a guy before. so, any tips on how to handle the back row of the cinema? any advice would be appreciated. thanks
Sweetie, this doesn't sound dumb. You need to just take a chance and just kiss him. If you aren't that brave, hint it to him and start getting really close to him. I know that movie theaters aren't the most romantic places but where ever you go with your boyfriend, should be romantic. If you're going to go see a chick flick movie or any movie and if there is love parts in it or whatever, then that's the great time to kiss him. I'm really not great at this kind of advice because I'm just the type of person that will kiss a guy whenever. Well I hope I helped :) If not, then I'm sorry.
-Karen
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my friend has a crush on the same guy i like but she doesnt know i like him and i dont want to tell her cuz im afraid if he finds out then we wont be like best friends anymore i really really like him and now i think that shes gonna ask him out im dont know wut to do i really like this guy!!!!!!
MaDlY iN LoVe!!!
You definitely need to tell your friend that you have liked this guy longer than she has. Tell her that you don't want her to ask this guy out because you will get hurt inside if she does. If she is your friend, I'm pretty sure she will understand and won't ask this guy out. If she doesn't understand, then she's definitely not a good friend. Friends come before guys and if she doesn't get that, then find a better friend. She may like someone else but just talk to her and tell her how you feel. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I am having trouble, I'm babysitting for my neighbor. This one baby is very weird! She like poops every 5 mins. I do not want to change her diaper(that white thing that goes on her butt so she doesnt poop or pee in her pants). I am in the middle of watching a movie and she keeps crying. She has a brother too and he does the same thing(they are twins). It is crazy madness I tell you! So please help me and answer me ASAP! Tell me what I should do !!!! thank you!
If you are having trouble babysitting, tell these kids' mother that they are too much for you and that you may need to bring someone with you. Call their mother up the next time you babysit them and she will help you. If you can't handle all this "crazy madness", then you need to babysit some other kids that are older and potty trained. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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i want to spend more time with my dad. yeah i no that sounds weird but he may not have long to live but u never no and i want to spend as much time as i want with him but see i have never ereally hung out with him and i don't no wat to do with or or how to ask him.
Hey, don't worry, this doesn't sound weird. Whatever way that you ask your dad to spend more time with you, I'm sure he'll be glad to. Ask him if he wants to go out somewhere like to a bowling alley, to the movies, or out to dinner. You could also help him around the house or you could watch a movie with him. Just tell him that you want to spend more time with him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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what can i do to destroy someones life completely ?? i freakin hate this girl . she's turning everyone against me and calling me a bitch , a slut and a poser . she sucks up to everyone ! at first not many people liked her , but now she sucked up to everyone and told them that i hated them . so nobody talks to me except like 2 people .
If you know any secrets about her, spread them or just spread your own rumor about her. That always works. Tell some of her friends that she talks about them. You could call her house late at night and she may get in trouble. There are so many things you could do but watch out, you could get in trouble if you go too far. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Heres the story I weigh 140 and I am 15 years old, that is not normal for a 15 year old! I am Fat and people may say i'm not but I am and I've been working out and everything and all that does is makes me hurt all day long the next day, i'm not asking this for people to say oh your not fat i'm asking it because I am very unhappy with how much I weigh and i'm unhappy with the fat on my stomach and legs!I was wondering if there is anything I can do to make all the fat on my stomach and my legs go away and fast I'm so sick of looking and feeling fat i'm sick and tired of it so if anyone can help me out with this please help me! I'll rate very high for anyone who gives me an honest answer, like are their any diet pills I can take that you can buy at wal-mart with out my parents knowing? please who ever can help me with this please do! Thanks in advance!-Signed wants to be thinner
Well to get rid of the fat on your stomach, you need to do crunches and sit ups. To get rid of the fat on your legs, you need to to squats, lunges, leg lifts, and all those leg exercises. Try running or jogging on a tredmill. Eating healthy and watching what you eat will also help you lose weight. Try going on a low carb diet to help. I don't think you can buy your own diet pills because I'm pretty sure you need to be 18 or older. These are pills that are for adults and teenagers can't buy them. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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i am thinking about asking my boyfriend to this carnival thats going to be at my school next week... it would be a double date because his best friend would come with his girlfriend who i am friends with... but the thing is... my friend really wants to go with me... so i said im gonna go... but i don't really no.. i don't want her to come with us to the carnival because she is always there when my boyfriend and i are together... we don't really hang out outside of school so this would be like our first date and i really want to go with him... how can i tell my friend that i can't go with her without us getting into a huge fight like we probably will
You need to tell her that you are actually going on a date with your boyfriend when you go to this carnival so she can't come. When your friend hears the word "date", she will know it's only for two people and she won't go. You can make this up to her by hanging out with her the next weekend. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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theres this girl who keeps annoing me about me asking her out-the thing is i never did ask her out- she wants me to ask her out = i dont want t ask her out-now shes got the whole school turned against me-wat should i do?
You need to tell this girl straight up that you don't like her and you don't want to go out with her. She will stop doing this, once you tell her how you don't want to go out with her. For all these other people, just tell them that you don't want to go out with this girl and there is no reason for them to be against you. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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well my boyfriend jus dumped me and i dont really mind cuz i still love my ex boyfriend that i dumped for reasons.....but i really want him back but im 2 afraid to call himm cuz i dont know what he will say....and i dont know what to say to himm...what should i do???
You definitely need to call your ex-boyfriend up and tell him how you feel about all of this. Tell him that you want him back. He actually may still like you and also wants you back too. If you don't want to call him, then you are going to miss a chance with this guy again. If he says he doesn't want you back, then you just need to move on. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I just finished the book "The Au Pairs" by Melissa de la Cruz and i loved it! Now there is this other book called "Skinny Dipping" and then in parenthesis it says "(the au pairs)" but I can't get any info on it from amazon.com or anything. Has anyone read the book "Skinny Dipping"?? Is it a sequal to the first one? Is it as good? Please help me out, thanks!!
I have never read those two books but I've done some research about "Skinny Dipping (The Au Pairs)" and yes, this book is the sequal to "The Au Pairs". On this page, www.simonsays.com/content/content.cfm?sid=183&pid=506539, people have said that they can't wait to read this book so I'm assuming this is a good book. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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long story short i went to my school dance tonight w/o a date and started to talk to this really sweet guy. he bought me candy, and danced w/ me......and i dont know him much. so....im confused. i dont know if i like him or not. how cn u tell?
You can tell if you like someone else when you start to get weird feelings in your stomach whenever you see him, you can't stop thinking about him, you catch yourself staring at him, you try to talk to him a lot, you try to always look your best whenever you go to school, just so this guy will notice you, you start to laugh a little but whenever you see him. There are so many other ways to tell if you like someone but those are jsut the most "common" ones in my opinion. If you do some of these signs that I have mentioned, then you definitely like him and you need to start talking to him and try to get to know him better. Talk to him at school or over the internet by emailing him or talking to him on some sort of messenger. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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