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So I'm 14/f and my fried is 15/f. I love her to death. I've known her forever and I would never abandon her.
She suffers from depression and is on 'happy pills' but she told me that she doesn't think that they are working b/c she calls her bf of a year a few times every month at night with her suicidal ideas. And then there's the whole body image thing. She's 5' 3" and 98lbs--underweight, I know. I did the BMI thing. But she still thinks that she's fat & sometimes doesn't eat saying that she is 'not hungry' when she skipped dinner the night before and breakfast. Then there is her sister--she's very close to her family and I don't mind that. What I do mind, however, is her sister [18/f]. She basically smokes pot & just does a lot of [random] guys. She's not the picture perfect sister to look up to [although she seems very nice and cool].
Anyways, her mom wants to send her to a nutritionist [dieting issue] but hasn't yet. But that's not the main question. I want to bring into her parent's attention that jer medicine isn't working sometimes and I'm afriad that she is going to hurt herself someday. And I'm afriad that she'll get dragged into the drug world and what not. I'm just really worried about her and I want to help her but I don't know what to do...I mean I doon't wanna be super friend and straighten out everything but I'm just afraid that I might lose her one day
hey, as "gay" or "corny" as it sounds you need to tell her parents. wouldnt you feel awful if something happened to her and you knew that her medicine wasnt working, but didnt do anything about it or tell anyone? could you live with yourself?
Well, this is a pretty weird question.
There is this one guy who is 4 years older than me that I've grown quite close to -- over the internet. I know, don't trust strangers you meet online. But I know he's real b/c of cam, pictures, phone, and letter.
I wrote him once & he wrote me back once. We talked on the phone 2 or 3 times/we talked on the mic a lot. He got on his cam quite a lot [G rated thank you very much...except that time he chucked his sword into is door...that was pretty cool].
Anywhos, I talked to him for about a year but then he had to leave for culinary school and things got bleh and I really miss him since I haven't been able to really talk to him for a long time now. I was thinking of maybe txting him or calling him one day...or maybe write him a letter to his home address
He lives in cali & I live in VA. I'm 14 soon to be 15 and he's 18 turning 19 in november.
I haven't talked to him for about half a year now? Okay, 10 months about. Would it be weird if I wrote him a letter?
hwy, nope i actually suggest it. you should see if theres still a spark there. if hes iffy about starting to talk to you again, then dont push it. its worth a fair shot tho.
So I like this guy in my class that im friends with, but i also have a boyfriend that i rly cant break up with due to complicated reasons i dont want to get into. I just cant break up with him. not now anyway. Problem is i REALLY like this guy in my class, a lot and i want to go out with him. i just cant break up with my bf.i think the guy likes me and im afraid if i wait too long he's going ot get over me. what shud i do?
hey, well you cant cheat on your boyfriend no matter what your reasoning is that you cant break up with him. thats just wrong and completly unnessasary(sp?). you could tell the guy that you like the reasoning for you not being able to breakup with your boyfriend and ask him to wait. tahts pretty much all you can do without breaking up wiht your boyfriend. i really suggest doing so since you have feelings for another guy possibly more feelings than you have for your boyfriend and since your not happy. you always come first no matter what reasoning for not breaking it off.
...Anywho is it possible to give yourself and orgasm i mean i know that sounds really weird but someone was saying something about it and yeah if you can any ways how to??????thanks in advance
hey, yes its possible. its accomplished by fingering yourself.
ok next year will be my first year of high school and i want to start getting involved more now i wont know anybody at this school cause i'm switching out of the school district i'm in now and i'm kinda overweight but want to get involved in sports too any suggestions on how i can go about doing this
hey, join a club or sport that you like. that way youll meet people who like the same thing as you and youll be happy because your playing your favorite sport. try asking around if you know any 9th graders that go there now and have them introduce you to there friends.
i would really like to do a total body makeover by toning up amd eating right. but i just can't help myself. I have a tendency to just keep snacking. And i can never really get in the habit of working out everyday. I'm buying my own food, but i'll wnader into the kitchen and and just grab something. i'm defiantely not fat, but i really want to get into a health kick. how can i stop myslef from snacking all the time,and how get i get myself into a habit of regularly working out?? does anybody have any tips,or plans that i can follow? please help..
thanks in advance.
hey, why not join a gym with a friend? that way youll be motivated not to give up and to keep up with her. make it a weekly thing. example: visit the gym 4 times a week. get memberships. as for the food thing, just get healthy food. that way youll be hungry and youll have to eat sometime. seeing that theres no junk food in the house, youll be forced to eat healthy.
hello. Okay so the prom is april 28th. I have green eyes and dark brown hair. my dress is a dark purple. I'm thinking that the smokey eye would look good, except i can't seem to figure out how to do it. it just doesn't look the same when i do it? Does anybody have any tips or instructions or any other ideas to help me out?
it would be greatly appreciated!
thanks.
hey, heres a link for ti[s for smoky eyes.
http://beauty.about.com/od/allaboutyoureyes/ht/smokeyes.htm
if that doesnt work still, try purple eyeliner and eyeshadow. make the rest of your makeup just natural and neutral colors.
sorry this is so long!!! i really really like my bf but hes the type of guy that dates alot of girls and i found out he cheated on one two. what i want to know is how do i make sure he never cheats on me or breaks my heart because the last bf broke my heart extremely bad.i really dont want to go through that again! so far its going fairly well and i kind of feel that he really might like me but im still afraid that its just a game hes playing( which by the way if he is hes playing it very well). he is probably the hottest guy ive dated and i really dont want to loose him so how do i make him see that im the type of girl that he can stay truthfull to? that im a girl he can keep. hes not in my grade so i cant keep my eye on him 24/7 so how do i make sure hes not messing with any other girls and esspecially in a way that he doesnt ever find out because i dont want to freak him out or make him think im a stalker. i just want to be with him for as long as i can. any advice will help. thanks for reading!!!
hey, well good relationships are totally based on trust. there really is no way to make sure hes not fooling around with other girls without coming off as a stalker or questioning him too much. however, you can question him if youve heard that he did somethng with antoher girl around. question him once or maybe twice, but dont harp on it. if you didnt hear anything and your just afraid of getting hurt, dont question him. he will feel like you cant trust him at all and that leads to big problems and trust issues. however, if saying something to him like "i really love you and dont want to loose you to another girl, so promise me that youll never hurt me". thats fine. if he sounds sweet and let he means it then your all set.
my school is doing a fundraiser for school supplies for
poor people & my parents found out. so they filled up
a whole BIG barnes & noble bag of supplies.
i don't want to carry a huge bag to school, looking like
a moron for bringing so much stuff (and it's not that i
am selfish and don't want to donate to the poor, but i
don't want to have to sort it all out when i get to school.)
i can't pre-sort because it's in one bag. and i dont want
20939583243 bags inside the big barnes and noble bag.
and i can't submit a little each day either because they
are only being collected on monday.
& DO NOT suggest that i am helping out the poor
because i won't rate you a 5 if you do.
please advice?
hey, why not tell your friend about what your parents did? im sure that you can split it up into at least two bags and make your friend carry on in with you. meet before school and walk in together with the two seperate bags.
ok. so what happended to these singers/rappers? cause i don't hear anything about them anymore.
- Nelly (not Nelly Furtato, Nelly the rapper..lol)
- Usher
- Ashlee Simpson
i just don't hear about them anymore. and i really like them. are they just taking a break? or making new music or what? thanx so much!!
hey, some stars just fade out. im not really sure what there up to. why not enjoy there old music tho? there just as good right?
This is one of those patheic I still love him questions but please help me.
On Friday I asked out my ex who is now one of my best friends and he said I don't know. So today me and my bff (she also went out with him before) spent the day with him. (were all best friends now) and I asked him if he had his answer yet. At first he said I don't know. and then right before I had to go home I asked him if he had his answer and he said his answer was no. So I pretened not to care and when I leave and he is walking my bff home he holds her hand and I know he wants to go out with her. But I don't want to let him go, again. I don't really know how to put it when I say let him go.. I mean that last time he and my bff went out I had to watch them holding hands, and kissing goodbye, and all that and that really hurt my feelings and so know I don't want that to happen again. I don't know what to do at all. Do I somehow ignore them or avoid them or what? Please. Help.
hey, well how long ago were you and him together. if it was an old spark and you two were together a long time ago, the right thing to do is to let them be together. as much as it hurts, hes not yours and hes a single guy now. she is your best friend and your pretty close to him too. wouldnt you want them to be happy whether there happy together or apart? however, if you and him broke up not to long ago, you need to talk to your bestfriend. tell her that its not okay just to go out with your ex like that and that she needs to give it time and time for you to heal.
this guy from work asked me out and i decided why not give him a chance. Anyway we went out on my birthday and it was the best date ive ever been on!he brought me a dozen red roses, called me beautiful, paid for the whole date (even thought i insisted)and we talked for a long time. it was amazing and he kissed me at the end, and said he wants to do it again. Now my question is, how do i know when we go from dating to boyfriend and girlfriend? You know what i mean?
hey, well just because he asked you out on a date doesnt mean that he asked you out, meaning as a girlfriend. he will ask you to be his girlfriend or "ask you out" once you guys hangout more and if hes interested.
okay i really need advice. i'm desperate.
i have this friend since i've known for almost 4 years, and we were extremely close last year and people said we were unseperable. this year were still friends but were just not as close and i miss it because last year she was always there for me when i was really sad and she always made me feel better.
this year i'll see her in school (i usually hang out with her in a group) and A. she'll completely ignore me. or B. she'll be like "i really not interested in what you have to say" but when it's just me and her with no one around she'll talk to me really nice and stuff. but im really getting sick of her acting like this but i just don't know what to do because last year she was always there for me and she made me feel soo good and she made me feel like i was loved she was like the sister i never had and i dont want to just ditch her but ughh i just don't know what should i do? thank you soo much
hey, well if your okay with ditching her, id say go for it. i say this because she is basically ditching you. friends are suppose to care what other friends think and be there for them. she is clearly lacking complelty in that department.
if i'm like 5'6
how much do i have to weigh
to be a model? and dont say
that there are models that
are all weights please
hey, well according to my doctor at 5`0 you should be 100 pounds. everytime you go up in height, your suppose to go up 5 pounds. so 5`1 = 105, 5`2 = 110, 5`3 = 115, 5`4 = 120, 5`5 = 125, and 5`6 = 130. thats your perfect healthy weight. as for models, designers want models to fit into size 0s, 1s, 2s, and maybe 3`s.
does anyone know any lyrics/songs, or quotes about any of the following:
-Summer
-Being Young
-Having Fun
-Friends
hey, well theres summer girls by lfo.
15/f/can't drive
I have a $120 budget. My mom and dad's 25th anniversary is coming up on april 18th. We will be on vacation in orlando, fl. Does anyone have any ideas as to what I could do?
I thought of getting flowers delivered and possibly send them down to the hotel's resteraunt.
hey, i like your two ideas. theres usually a hotel massage place. get them massages together. make a coupon book for them. like one week of you cleaning the house etc.
i have a bunch of those little square icons that have sayings or pictures in them on my myspace. but i can only get them to go straight down in a row. i have seen some profiles where they are all bunched together, and like side by side. like theres 4 in one row and then right below theres like 4 more and it just keeps repeating. if anyone knows any special codes to put to make that work, i would really appreciate it! thanks :)
hey, the codes < br > erase the spaces
How do people get rid of blackheads? I use products but they don’t work. The blackheads seem to be embedded in my nose!
hey, you need a facial. also lumene masks are great. elizabeth grady is a great facial place. see if you have one near you. lumene face masks are avaible at cvs.
http://www.elizabethgrady.com/index.asp
so there is this guy. he really likes me, and i kninda like him, he yougner than me but ive finally decided it doesnt matter. The problem is like a lot of my friends like him and i really cant i mena CANT go out with him becasue im not like that too my friends, but htats not the problem. i think he thinks we ARE going out. last night he text me saying i luv you and all this shit about us, and i couldnt text him baq, dnt remember his reason, but now i dnt know how to tell him were not going out, and that i dnt love him i like him....i dnt know what to do or say, cuz now rumors are going to spread and i cant stop them becasue i dnt go to the same school[[anymore, so i know everyone]] wut shud i do about him and what he thinks our relationship is like, even though i still consider us as just friends
hey, well you need to set the facts straight with that guy. there must be a way that you can contact him. aim, email, letter, phone, text, something. let him know that you like him, but just strictly like not love. also let him know the reasoning of why you wouldnt go out with him. im pretty sure that he will respect that you want to be a good and loyal friend. as for the rumors, denying is all that you can do. dont get annoyed when questioned about it or look like it bothers you that there asking -- even if it really does. if you act like you care even if you do, it will make people want to annoy you even more and they wont stop. you shouldnt let yourself get too bothered with people tho, because as long as you know that its not true, it shouldnt matter. also let the guy know that you do still want to be friends. good luck =].
if i do 100 squats everyday, will it make my thighs
skinnier or turn it into muscle? i just want my thighs
to be skinniter.. not muscular. advice? anything else
i can do to make my thighs skinnier?
hey, well doing squats is excercising. excersising makes muscles. your legs will be muscular if you do squats, not skinny. there isnt a way to make them just skinny. muscular legs come off as attractive to many males =].