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15/f *Ohhkay, so i have this amazing guy..but we're just reallly good friends."with benifits" I love him and i know he loves me and we've been talking about "doing it" i know we are both ready, and we will def use protection. But my question is..do you think if we actaully do it..we wil end up going out? I mean,I would love to go out with him, and ive always wanted to.
So do you guys think if we do it that theres a possibility that he may like me more than a friend?!
Thanks so much guys/I'll rate HIGH!! ;)
-kristen (link)
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yeah .. he might like you more then a friend after that.. but would you want him to be more then your friend before that.. because (i dont know this other kidd at all) but what if ya'll do it .. and he asks you out .. and you date. but he takes advanged of you .. and he uses you to do it. that wouldnt be cool.
so maybe you should talk to him about dating.. then doing it.
but if you really want to do it with him before you go out w/ him.. then go ahead. i think you havea 50 50 chance on whats gonna happen.
justine
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Okay so I'm 14 (girl btw) ...5'0 and I'm about 85 pounds. I obviously have a high metabolism and I have to gain 95ish pounds before xmas or... I'm going to the hospital because my mom thinks I have an eating disorder (i dont) How do I gain weight and actually "keep it up" ? (link)
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well there really isnt anything you can do about it .. maybe you should tell her you'd like to go to the doctors NOW and have them tell her that you do not have an eating disorder and that you just have a fast metabolism. because you really can not change that in your body.
justine
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Ok so when im going to have my period, im scared that people will know that im changing my pads.. is there anyway on how to silence things up? it gets really embarassing for me cause im a tomboy... (link)
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there are these ones by kotex.. and they are called "sh" and instead of the plastic wrappers they have like a cloth on .. they are really quiet.
justine . please rate.
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i had my period last month for 2 days and it was very light. Now it is very heavy and its more than two days. Does this mean they will change each month? (link)
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yeah .. it does that a lot .. for like 1 year.. then you will get on a normal paddern.
justine. please rate.
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what are some tips to prevent odor during my period? (link)
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take showers daily.. and you can also get the pads/tampons with a smell.. those work pretty well.
but most of the time you think you smell.. but you dont.
you can also spray some perfume on yourself.
justine xo
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when you have your period and you were sitting down and then you get up is it normal that i always feel a lot of blood coming out for a few minutes? (link)
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for a few minute? ehh.. maybe like a cupple of sec.. like 30? yes.. thats normall.. when you are sitting none of the blood can come out, so it like builds up .. and when you stand up .. it comes out. nothing to worrie about.
please rate. justine xO
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i pulled a muscle in my stomach yesterday (or so i think) by doing a back-tuck off of a diving board into a pool. after i threw the tuck it hurt really bad in the side of my stomach so i thought i pulled something. today at cheer/tumbling i couldn't throw tucks or even back-handsprings b/c it hurt so bad and then towards the end i couldn't even do round-offs. so i told the instructor and he let me leave early. is there anything i can do to make it feel better like put heat on it? it's on the left side of my stomach under my ribs... thanks so much (link)
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yeahh the icy hot packs work.
just put something cold on it for 15 min .. then heat for 15 min. then repeat for like 1 hour ..it helps a lot.
justine xO
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do you think i should be scared to use a tampon? I'm 13 and this will be my first time. I'm afraid I'm going to put it in wrong. Will it hurt?I keep telling myself that i can do it but then i back out. (link)
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naw.. you should be fine.. just make sure you put it in the right whole =)
you'll know .. its the only one that i'll fit in.
and if you walk around .. and it hurts, like stings, its not in right.
you can do it! i promise! i did it in 4th grade
justine xO
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umm... can i practice wearing tampons like putting them in then taking them out 8 hrs later? (link)
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are you asking if you can wear a tampon of 8 hours?
you can..but you shouldnt.
justine x.O
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can you get sick from the heat? like throwing up? thanks (link)
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yeap.. if you dont drink a lot of water and eat good food.
justine xO
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if i drink a big sip of water and then go outside in the heat for about 5 minutes and go back and drink another sip..is that a way to not get dehydrated and sick and dizzy and stuff? thanks (link)
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yeah .. but maybe you should drink more then a sip .. like a glass. or a cup or something.
but yes, thats good that you a drinking water.
also make sure you eat right so you dont get dizzy.
justine xO
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i need to get in shape. im always tired and unhappy and moody and im not in shape. i want to be in shape. i can never motivate myself enough no matter what i do. what can i do? (link)
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working out is like .. you dont want to get out there.. but when you do you feel great and you keep going back out there.. until something messes you up .. and you dont do one day .. so then you dont want to go back out there for a while.
maybe you should try working out w. a friend? that always helps. because you have 2 people .. and some one to motivate you.
maybe you can ask your parents to get you iron pills.. they give you a little energy.
or you could try the energy drinks befor you are going out there..
but if you have a Y by you, join them .. they have great working out stuff. i love them.
but yeah .. find a friend.. that works.
justine
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i need to get in shape. im always tired and unhappy and moody and im not in shape. i want to be in shape. i can never motivate myself enough no matter what i do. what can i do? (link)
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working out is like .. you dont want to get out there.. but when you do you feel great and you keep going back out there.. until something messes you up .. and you dont do one day .. so then you dont want to go back out there for a while.
maybe you should try working out w. a friend? that always helps. because you have 2 people .. and some one to motivate you.
maybe you can ask your parents to get you iron pills.. they give you a little energy.
or you could try the energy drinks befor you are going out there..
but if you have a Y by you, join them .. they have great working out stuff. i love them.
but yeah .. find a friend.. that works.
justine
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i heard that baby powder could like help you not sweat. does that actually work? or one of the many things that says that it does but doesn't? cause i sweat a lot && i would do anything for it to stop. (link)
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yes. it does work. i know a lot of people who use it.
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i asked the last question and i have another problem i forgot to mention, she's having a party tommorow and i alredy told her i was going but since today she did that to me should i go or just not waste my time? and if i dont go then should i tell her im not going? (link)
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you should go .. unless you REALLY dont want to .. maybe you should go .. and just hang out w/ other people there. but if you dont want to go .. then you should tell her.. and tell her why.
but i say go. it probably will be fun.
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Ok well i have a problem with my friend. She tells me like everything and we hang out a lot and it seems like she likes me but today i feel like shit and that she doesnt care about me. She doesnt care about how i feel or when i tell her things she's not supportive. And she has another friend that sometimes she complains about but when ever they hang out a couple of time its like i dont exsist and like she's her bitch or something. wtf i'm just wondering what do u think i should do , talking to her doesnt help! Should i ignore her, never talk to her again or anything else? (link)
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well she isnt a very good friend if she doesnt care about your feelings .. i would:
sit her down by your self and say : look, yes you clam to be my friend. but you dont act like it. and i cant handle. i need a friend that cares about my feelings, and what i am going through. so i dont think i can be your friend right now .. not until you start noticing me and my feelings.
maybe that could change something? i wouldnt ignore her though. and i wouldnt never talk to her again .. but maybe bring your friendship down a little bit.
best of luck. justine xO
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I was walking thru the mall and a lady with a hair straightener stand stopped me and asked if she could straighten my hair to advertise her profuct. She said "this is a ceramic hair straightener that the salons use. it doens't damage your hair and it actually brings out the softness in your hair. you can get this at a salon for $200 but we're selling it here for $99." I was like WTF! 99 DOLLARS?! I loooooved the straightener though... So I was wondering whats the difference between a ceramic one and a regular one? Can you get a decent one at CVS or walmart for under say, 20 bucks? (link)
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you can .. but the more pricey usually the better.. i have a ceramic one and its 39 dollars.. or something like that. and it works really good. i have curly hair and when i straighted it is really straigh. do you have a sally's by you? try that place. or maybe if you have Trading secret.. or any other beauty place..
but i wouldnt recomend CVS if you want a really good one.
best of luck . justine xO
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This sounds stupid but yeah..
Ok, so im a young teen, and my friends are more "matured" then me.I mean like they have boobs and i dont ; they have their period and i dont.I went for that check-up thing when your about 12-13 .. and they said i wouldnt start maturing till im a freshmen, well its not that long away im going into eigth grade .. but i feel like boys wont like me and i feel unconfortable in bathing suites around boys .. what should i do .. just deal with it? (link)
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yeah .. you just have to deal with it .. there is nothing else you can really do.
but you are so lucky .. not starting until 9th grade..i mean. use this time for freedom! because when all your other friends are is pissy moods and dont feel like doing anything YOU are not.
yeah i know you just want to start and everything .. but its not the great. really. and guys really cant tell if you've started or not. maybe what you can do it wear a lightly padded bra.. so you have some boobs. and in your bathingsuit get the ones with the cups in them.
but the doctors arent always right.. you could start sooner.. it all depends with your mother and your dads mother started.
best of luck. justine xO
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Alright so, my Mom is alright. She buys me everything and anything I want. She lets me go anywhere. I want to get my belly button pierced and she's making me wait, but that's about it. Anyway. She nags me like a normal Mom and whatever. But she goes on and on. Like she just doesn't shut up. Sometimes she'll explain to me step by step how to do something, like she'll tell me how to feed the dog. HELLO. I know how to feed a dog, just tell me to actually DO IT. And she talks really slow on purpose, I think she just likes to hear herself talk. She's the most organized person in the world and I'm the most unorganized person in the world so we don't mesh. She yells at me for things all the time that are stupid. I tried explaining to her that it bothers me. But she just gets upset and yells at me even more. I told my Dad and my Grandparents and they all tried talking to her but nothing seems to work. I'm not perfect, and I don't expect her never to yell at me again or anything but she annoys me sooo much. What do I do? (link)
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wow.. this is like my story too. i understand.
what i did (and this might sound really mean) but i treated my mom how she treated me.. like i yelled at her for stupid things .. i explained things when they dont need to be explained .. and everything else just for a day. then she came in and talked to me saying why were you like that todaY!? and i just calmly said "because that is the way you treat me . and i wanted to show you how annoying it is"
maybe that could work. or maybe you could go to a consular. and talk to them about it .. and then they could talk to your mom.
i hope for the best for you. and you are not a spolied brat or anything.. those people can kiss your butt
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I Started My Period Again Yesterday, Would I Be Off Of It By Thursday Morning. Cause I'm Going To The Pool Wit A *Guy* Friend? (link)
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it all depends on how long you usually have it for. it might .. because that would be the 5th day .. but then it might not. just wear a tampon
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