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I would really like to have a shaved vagina... The bush feels so unsexy. But I can't even begin to imagine how hard it would be to shave that area. How do you shave your vagina & how fast does the stubble grow it? Is it worth it? (link)
ok if you want step-by-step procedure:

first trim the hair so the razor doesnt get "clogged" and will shave smoother

then exfoliate like scrubs and the puffy "sponges" im sure evry1 has in there shower.

then you want to make sure you cover all the hairy parts with shaving cream.


next take your time while you shave. the last thing you want is a cut down there. make sure your razor is new and sharp cuz if you do happen to cut yourself it wont hurt as much.

when youre done put lotion on it so it will "cool" and moisturize .

the hair down there tends to grow quickly wait til the hair is longer than just stubble. otherwise it will hurt when you shave.


hope i helped :)


Do all shirts shrink in the wash?? If so how do you stop it?

Thanks (link)
ok shirts that are mostly cotton lik 100% or 95% are more likely to shrink. to prevent shrinking dont put it in the dryer. let it air dry.


hope i helped :)


well i've been going out with this guy. but we havent really gone on a date yet just homecomming so were boy friend and girl friend he says. so i'm going x-mas shopping soon and i want to get him something. cause we've kissed once at homecomming and it was only a peck. so i dont want to give him a gift thats not good enough or well idk, what do u think a guy likes? he's in cross country. and i dont think he wheres watches. plez help. thanks a lot. (link)
i wuld get cologne. like from jcpenney or sears or wherever! i like Hummer a lot! but thats me! lol

hope i helped:)


I had all of my money stolen from me and now I'm broke for X-mas. I'm going to manage to save up some money but not enough to buy my friends the wonderful presents I wanted to get them! I need some cheap/creative ideas for presents but I have no idea what anything is and I'm so stressed out the whole process is just giving me a headache! So could anyone please help with some cheap and/or creative ideas (that dont make it LOOK like I'm cheaping out, I mean they're gonna understand that I cant afford much but I still dont want to seem lame)? (link)
you can make fudge and put it in little x mas tins or brownies or cookies. if you want some ideas go to your local gas station or grocery store or news satnd and get this monthe issur of GL or girls life magazine it has lots of low budget ideas and (you'll love the magazine 2!) got to:girlslife.com if you want to learn more stuff about it.

hope i helped! :)

ps sry i didnt type ALL of em out but there r lik 10 so it wuld take FOREVER! im really sry tho! :)


I AM;

-5'2
-petite body
-i have olvie toned skin [italian]
-brown and blonde hair [medium length]
-huge bright brown eyes
-i can will dress my makeup and what not around the dress but keep in mind i have 2 peircings. which i wouldnt mind incorrperating.
-i want to look elgant and pretty with a bit of edgyness.
any ideas?
at least maybe color ideas?
or length?

THANKYOU! (link)
polka dotsare very in and there a little edgy yet sophisticated. i think red looks good on olive skin but light colors will make your skin pop. and make the dress short!

hope i helped :)


My parents are divorced and i am 13. they both remarried. My step mom is really nice and all, i've had he since i was 6. We always go places together and all that. Recently i have joined a church youth group, and we always go to those things now. Ever since we started going, she always picks out my clothes and does my hair. She tells me to wear these certain things and sometimes i HATE the outfits she puts on me. Nobody wears them and she always does my hair the way i dont want it. I know she just wants to help out but i dont know what to do because i have no self confidence in me anymore when i wear those things. I dont want to tell her i dont like it or i dont want to wear it because i know it will hurt her feelings, she loves picking out clothes for me. She buys them when i'm not there and then she makes me where them. Any idea what to do besides tell her?

thanks (link)
does your stepmom have kids? she prob doesnt and thats why shes doing this. she wants to be the best "mom" she can be. just tell her can i pick out my outfit this time? and i saw this hair style i really want to try out and see if it looks good. im sure shell understand and will probably once she sees how you like to do your hair and your clothes she might start doing it that way :)

hope i helped! :):)


Lately i have noticed that my underarms smell really bad. I use deodarent and LOT of it. I started using more and that only made me smell worse. I recently noticed that i dont smell bad when I use less deoderant. Would anyone know why this is happening? (link)
ok i'll be honest im not quite sure why its happening but... when you shave your under arms in the shower make sure you shave up and down, side to side. it sounds weird but when you do that it helps get rid of the "odor causing bacteria" under there. try using un scented deodrant like the girl below me said dont use good smells so ya.

hope i helped :)


Ok, about my dad coming for thanksgiving, i left this part out on my other advice thing. My cousins are coming and i want to play with them but if my dad is here and i know he will feel awkward, then i have to talk to him and i cant just go off and leave him and my step mom because the only reason they are coming is because me and my brother so i cant just leave them. What if i want to go play with my cousins and then my dad feels awkward? please help. (link)
just tell your dad you want to go play with your cousins and you'll be back soon. im sure he'll understand and adults sense when somones feeling awkward so most of the other adults will probably try to strike up a conversation with him.

have a happy thanksgiving! :) (i wuld draw a turkey face but i dont know how to on the keyboard lol)


Ok, I have REALLY thick hair and there's soooo much of it! It's course and really wavy. It also gets frizzy easily. It is currently long and when straightened it goes about halfway down my back. Does anyone have any advice on what kind of hair cut I should get? I don't want it too short. I was thinking bangs but I'm not sure...some pictures or websites would be a HUGE help!!
Thanks (link)
you shuld get your hair layered! it takes out SO much weight from your hair. and after its layered since you said your hair is wavy all the weight off of it will make your hair beautifully curly!! (i had the same problem) my hair looks way better now!


hope i helped :)


Ok so i use to be plus size and i have lost weight over the years and now i have slimed down a lot over the years. When i was plus size i did eat a lot but i stayed full for a mad long time. Now since ever i lost weight i eat all the time im like full for a little bit and hunry like 10 15 min later.. i dont think thats really normal and the thing is that im not gaining weight, and people even say i eat a lot for my size but i cant help it im just always hungry.. i am and active person and my mom was saying how i have ADHD so do i just burn off all of the food and it doesnt stay with me so im hungry again?? or does it have something to do with my Motabolism, its just weird because it started ever since i got thin

so can you all please give me ideas on why im like that (link)
it might be your medication for your ADHD if you take medication for it. and it probably has something to do with your ginormous weight loss and metabolism im pretty sure thats normal.

i hope i helped you:):):)


I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help. (link)
oooh that is so sweet of "matt"!!! you shuld totally break up with your boyfriend! if ur afraid 2 do it with a bunch of people arund and when "matt's" around. you shuld tell "matt" u lik him back and you guys will totally be an item!

i hope it all works out with you! :)


I just created a myspace group and I do not know how to put a layout on there. So if you guys could tell me that, that would be great. And If you guys know anything else that could be helpful, i would really appreciate it.

By the way, the website is http://groups.myspace.com/againstconformities
if you want to join! (link)
ok where you have all the info about the group im pretty sure you paste the HTML code there.

hope i helped:)

ps dont kill me if im wrong!


my b/f jordan was put in a mental hospital Thursday morning. he told his guidence counselor that he thought the best way to keep him mom and dad from fighting is to kill himself. his mom and dad are dicorced going on 6 yrs now. he has been in that place for 5 days now. everyone knows not to trust the governmeant. he knows that so he wont take the pills and medication that they are giving him. they think he is paranoid because of that. he says that he thinks someone is out to get him. when he looks at people he can see a glowing light around there heads. they have labled him as schitzoefrinik. sorry i don't know how to spell it. they say he thinks he hears voices.

i don't know what to do. if he does kill himslef im gona kill myself because i don't want to be alone. i love him to death and i dont want to lose him! i am not family so i can talk to him on the phone or go see him. i think about him all the time. what do i do with my life while he is in there? i only 14 and we have been dating since i was 11. he is now 16 and i don't have a clue as what to do right now. i miss him so much. please help me (link)
just chill out! as long as hes in the care of the hospital or watever im almost positive he cant kill himself! and if youre lonely get a pet! im serious having to hav that responsibility will not make you think of him as much and pets are great companions wen your sad!

hope it alll wrks out! :)


i always want to lose wieght and tell myself to go on a diet and to not eat as much but like a day after i forget about it and continue to pig out... what can i do? (link)
put sticky notes on all your junk food that say "remember-diet..." and stuff like that. when your craving write all the stuff down that you want to eat then read your list over sometimes by doing that you'll see wat your about to put into yourself and reach for somthing healthy!
hope i helped- :)


Lately ive been having large amounts of trouble sleeping im only 15/m andi just cant seem to fall asleep ive lied in my bed for hours on end with my eyes closed and i cant fall asleep even if im tired idk why im having so much trouble. can someon please give me ideas to help me the sooner the better b/c its 1 am not and argh! (link)
it probably has somthing to do with your subconsionce (sp is rong i no) tell your parents aout it and your doctor can provide lunesta etc...


How often should you water cactuses? (link)
once or twice a month is how often i water mine.


Hey, Im a guy, still a virgin and i was wondering how reliable a condom is. Is it a recommended Idea to double up. I know the chances are like 2-3 in 100 but would doubling up make it like.001 percent chance. Thanks answers are appreciated (link)
DO NOT double up! this increases friction which means the condoms r more likely to break just make sure you guys only use water based lubricant otherwise oilbased makes the latex in the condom weaker!

hope i helped! :)


I AM SORRY THAT IT IS SOOOOO LONG!!!

ok....I am a 13/m. I have some really confusing girl issues...Now see I am happy that about 12girls (no joke) like me but now I have known one for quite a while.....She likes me and broke up w/ her boyfriend about 1.5months ago to go out w/ me but neva got the courage to....I also received word from my sister that she liked me...in disquise I like her to....I am a person who lays low.....I don't let out my life..I really like her and she likes me according to my mom and my sister. See everyday that I see her me and her make eye contact and we give each other high fives....I am not sure though what to do...I know she also likes me because one of her best friends keeps telling me that me and her should go out..now yea I would love to try that but I don't know how to tell her that I like her to. See my sister has convinced her that I don't like her but I do.Very Very Much.I am not sure what to do here though..I am in a predictament that I can't help I am to shy to write notes and to scared to go up to her face and tell her.So what to do.Me and her used to sit around on the bus close to each other but since one of my friends got moved to the front of the bus she has been sitting in the back while I am in the front. I have not known that she liked me though bus since about 2weeks ago..I have written her notes to see if she liked me but she ignored me. she has told my sister that she likes me but won't admit it to me. Once last week I was sitting up front and I told her I was bored so she said to move back there.when I did we chatted and laughed till I got off. I know that she likes me now just don't know how to tell her that I like her A LOT!!!! Me and her get along soo well when we are together and also here is the big impact..We both LOVE soccer. I haven't told anyone this but sometimes when she gets hurt I just wanna put my arm around her and give her a hug but I can't because I am way to shy and also she doesn't even know that I like her to. I am soooo confused....Because I have her that I really like and then another girl I just like..but I have a bunch of people that like me and that is a first for me..I am so very confused..Help ME out...I am sorry this is so long. But advicenators.....Could this be good signs that she likes me and that it might work out or what??????ADVICENATORS>>HELP ME!!!!! (link)
well obviously you shuld ask her out!!!!! telll her you like her a lot and you think you have lot in common and will you go out with me!!! if i wa that girl i wuld want you 2.:)


13/m
Hi, i really like this girl but i dont know if she likes me. idk if i shud try to ask her out and maybe get lucky or just wait. but the problem is that i cant wait, i love her to much and i dont think i can keep goin on without her knowing that i like her. So the main part of the question is "how could i tell that she likes me or not, or how shud i ask her out"

Thanx (link)
im 13 f i have the same problem with a guy tho. Just flirt up a storm drop hints that you like her. If she flirts bak yourein then you can ask her out!

i hope it wrks out!:)


Ok I have a few questions that I'm not sure about. Is it ok to wear a chain necklace that consists of one chain from a wallet and one chain thats actually a bracelet? Cause I wanna wear it but I'm not sure if I should wear it to school, I'm like worried what other people would think and it gets a bit harder since I still have no friends yet. Another one is I have a long chain that's made of those soda can tops,the little thing that you pull up when your opening a soda can, is that ok to wear it like hang down on your leg? I'm not sure because it's not real and made of soda can tops or what ever. I just wanna use it to secure my keys since I have a bad memory and I end up losing them all the time. My final question is I like this girl but this one time I saw her myspace and it said her orientation was bisexual. I don't have a problem with that, it's just is it normal to like a girl that's bisexual? I don't think it's weird I mean if she likes guys and girls too, it's a good thing since I have a crush on her, but I'm not sure. I asked my friend but I didn't give any names and he thinks it's not normal and it scares him. I'm confused with these questions... (link)
ok the first 2 questions: thats fine it doesnt atter not many ppl will care and ur final question: its toally normal to lik a bisexual girl! for sme guys it turns them on to just think about it... dont worry about it and dont listen to your friend abot that.

hope i helped:)




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