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my boyfriend is in a mental hospital
my b/f jordan was put in a mental hospital Thursday morning. he told his guidence counselor that he thought the best way to keep him mom and dad from fighting is to kill himself. his mom and dad are dicorced going on 6 yrs now. he has been in that place for 5 days now. everyone knows not to trust the governmeant. he knows that so he wont take the pills and medication that they are giving him. they think he is paranoid because of that. he says that he thinks someone is out to get him. when he looks at people he can see a glowing light around there heads. they have labled him as schitzoefrinik. sorry i don't know how to spell it. they say he thinks he hears voices.
i don't know what to do. if he does kill himslef im gona kill myself because i don't want to be alone. i love him to death and i dont want to lose him! i am not family so i can talk to him on the phone or go see him. i think about him all the time. what do i do with my life while he is in there? i only 14 and we have been dating since i was 11. he is now 16 and i don't have a clue as what to do right now. i miss him so much. please help me
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It sounds to me from your entry that maybe your boyfriend does need help. At the least needs to talk with professionals that can help him sort thru what he is going through. You have to be there for him! do not encourage his suicidal thoughts by letting him know you are thinking of it as well. He is going thru a very hard time right now and he needs to feel that someone understands him. Sounds like you 2 have a wonderful relationship- so if you love him then be positive for him. Noone can control your destiny but YOU! Be smart! Talk to your family and/or friends about this- do not feel that you are alone because i assure you - you are not. Remember you always have GOD! He loves you and he will be there for you no matter what! Prayer changes lives!!
Best wishes and please you are way too young to be so sad! Believe me it will get a lot better sometimes you have to go to the deepest depths of sorrows to see the light! But trust me!! The light is ALWAYS there!!! ALWAYS! Take it from someone who has seen A LOT of sorrow! :)
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He is in a place where he will get help, no matter how scary it seems right now. It is paranoid to think that someone is out to get him, and the doctors have his best interest in mind. They want to get him healthy, so that he can get out and have a good life, and he will then be able to return to you a stronger man. You need to be strong for him right now, and not give up on either one of you. While he is away getting the help he desperately needs, you should talk to your friends, family, a school counselor or any other person who is safe to talk to about your feelings and get some support while you wait for him. Your boyfriend cares about you, so he would never want you to harm yourself, just like you would never want him to do anything like that either. Feeling lonely is normal at times, and the thing you need to do is talk to people and get involved in your own life. Your life is not going to stop, just because he is at a hospital. If he had a broken bone or needed surgery to save his life, then he would be in a different kind of hospital, but the help he needs is just as important. Say a prayer for him at night, and write him a few letters and send them to his parents to give him from you. Be positive and encouraging in your letters, and let him know you think he is worth the wait and you want him to know that you think of him often and send your love. You are young, but you can be a big influence on him. Stay strong and be brave my dear!
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Is there anyway you can talk to his doctors/caretakers at the hospital? I really don't think this kid is insane at all, just traumatized and upset by his parent's divorce & other things. He needs a counselor, not a straitjacket. If you wanna be taken seriously, have an adult who agrees with you come along; they aren't as likely to listen to a 14 year old kid.
As for what else you can do? Make sure he knows you're there for him (when you get the opportunity to see him, go!) and make yourself busy. Pick up a new hobby- beadwork, painting, whatever. Anything to keep your mind off things.
hope everything turns out okay for you ♥
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just chill out! as long as hes in the care of the hospital or watever im almost positive he cant kill himself! and if youre lonely get a pet! im serious having to hav that responsibility will not make you think of him as much and pets are great companions wen your sad!
hope it alll wrks out! :)
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