How can i tell when i am going to have my period?
I read somewhere that scientists have discovered that age isn't so much a factor as weight is. That's why some girls get it at 12 and others at 15. You'll know the week before it happens because you'll be extra moody, have strange cravings, become bloated and have cramps. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Real sorry if this is in the wrong category or whatnot.
14/F/Bi
Ok here goes sorry if its too long.
I was on a website and I got talking to this girl she can be friend A. We got chatting about things we where interested in and she asked me if she could add me on msn/ facebook, I agreed (i know seems a bit shady) I went on webcam to her and she was legit (or whatever) Anyway to the point, she introduced me to a few of her friends over facebook and one of them stuck out, lets call her friend B, after the first two messages on the chat she wanted to add me so a agreed, everything was going smoothly and I was actually making friends. I told them I would come over to where they lived next year (this was last year this part) and friend B said she hopes I get to come soon. Anyway friend B started a private chat and off the bat asked for my mobile number, I was a little freaked out so I lied and said my phone was broken and when It was fixed she could have it. It all ran smoothly again for a couple of weeks nothing out of the ordinary (around late november now) I got roleplaying with her with our made up characters who ended up getting together, by this time I'd said id found my number. (early december now) I've spoken to her over the phone (friend B still) and whenever I spoke to her or saw a picture of her i'd get really tingly and loads of butterflys would decide to attack my stomach, id go red aswell. By then I was getting nervous because I new I had a crush on her. We still talked, I probably talked more to her than to friend A. We wanted to play a game when I came over that involves biscuits and eating into the middle, first to pull away loses. I was fine with it and so was she, then I asked "but wont it be weird to play that cos you'd be y'know kissing?" She said "hmm your right but im sure we can play it" Me being me asked what she ment and long story short (I mean long story) we ended up admitting to each other we where both Bi, ok so now im a little more nervous, I ended up coming clean and telling her that I liked her, she said she liked me too and that she doesnt care for outer beauty its whats inside... Ok fastforward to today, we've been on webcams, had roleplays that werent with our characters and we've told each other over the phone/ webcam/ whatever that we loved each other she's spoken to me when ive had trouble believing her and I feel really bad, I mean really, really bad that I cant trust her, we havnt met face to face and im really nervous that she's just going to change her mind. Both of us havnt told anyone about us or being bi so I dont think she'd just lie, but i cant trust people (bad childhood whatever you wanna call it) So what should I do, how can I trust her? What should I do when I go over?
Sorry that was so long, thankyou for any help!
I'm guessing that no one in your school or family knows that you're attracted to girls. I think that you may be afraid this girl may get with you and then turn around and hurt you. That is probably the case with any relationship, boy or girl. I think you need to slow things down just a little bit until you can start hanging out with this new friend, face to face. I'm not sure how far away she lives but going on a few friend dates first will let you know what kind of person she is. People are always different on the phone or the computer but you can get a sense of their real personality when you're with them. After you've spent some quality time with her, you may be able to gain some trust with her. I know you're at that curious age and want to experiment with sex but I would recommend waiting until you're at least 16. I had plenty of opportunity before I turned 16 but I'm so glad I waited because I would have made a lot of dumb mistakes before then. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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will boys like me if i have big breast
More than likely they will give you all the wrong attention. Anything they do that's nice to you, will probably be because they want the chance to see your breasts. So it will always be harder to separate who's genuinely being nice to you and who's trying to cop a feel. If you want all the wrong attention and attract the jerks, then show off your breasts all you want but if you want the boys who treat you right and respect you, keep them hidden in public. I hope this helps and good luck.
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i dont get it my cat loco has been pooping outside the box for a little while now but will pee in the box an i am fed up. we have had her sence she was a baby. an she is no spring chicken but in the same token she is not old by no means. we have three cats she is the middle. we have had all nof them for years so this makes no sence. i just got new boxes an we never realy keept to one type of litter except mulity cat stuff. nothing has changed that i can think of. we have three boxes one that cleans its self. she dose this in a six foot x three foot space in all sorts of spots. i thought i would get smart an move two of the boxes close to one another in the middle of where she is going. i got her i thought. nope she went where the boxes were in the first place. i dont want to get rid of her she is one of my kids an i dont think anything is wrong with her but this is getting out of hand.
It could be that your cat is mad at you or the other cats. When a cat is mad, they take it out in different ways. This one seems to poop outside the box because she probably knows she's not supposed to. One way you can test this theory is to have someone watch the other 2 cats for a week, leave one litter box and only one feeding station. If she starts going in the box, then you know why she's upset. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm trying to settle an argument with a friend.
He claimed a friend of his got a boob job in junior high. I called him an idiot for believing that.
Anyway, who's right? What plastic surgeon would agree to perform a boob job on a 13-year-old, even if she had parental consent, knowing that her body is still growing?
Morally speaking it's totally wrong but I imagine if you have enough money, you can get anything done.
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ok im new to this all.
15/f
i was wondering what is meant by a female cumming.
like do u feel it or even know that its happened?
Typically only men "cum", which is ejaculation and women have orgasms with no ejaculation. Hopefully you wait quite a while before you have sex and experience an orgasm with a boy. But when I was your age, I masturbated quite a bit and I knew when I had my first orgasm, I was in heaven. If you get turned on and can get some privacy, you can try rubbing your clit really fast and when your body shakes and you let out a little moan; you probably had an orgasm. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Please help me.
1. Does a guy actually like to finger girls or do they just do it to make them happy? Same with eating a girl out?
2. How come i can never get my guy off when im giving him a hand job?
3. When you give a blow job, do you have to make an up and down motion with your mouth or can you just suck on it and massage it?
4. How do you give head?
5. How long do i have to give head in order for him to be happy?
Thank you so much!
1) Most boys like to finger a girl, just to say they did. Most men like to eat a girl and the older the guy, the better at it he will be. Unless you tell a boy exactly what to do or what you like, he won't be any good. Getting fingered or eaten can be great with a patient boy who doesn't rush into it.
2) You need to go slow and if you're turned on, it will help turn him on. Don't grab his penis to hard and jerk it to fast (until the end). You may want to use a lubricant or a small amount of baby oil to make things smoother. Also if you use both hands on him (one on his penis and the other on his testicles), he may get more enjoyment out of it.
3-4-5) You don't want to use your mouth to much or your mouth will get tired before you finish. Use the hand job method along with your mouth. Put one of your hands at his base and your mouth above it. When you go up and down with your mouth, do the same with your hand. Take a little break once in a while and run your tongue along his shaft. If you don't like the idea of swallowing his semen, you can let it shoot in your mouth and let it run down the length of his penis.
If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope you let me know how things turn out and good luck.
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18/f
my mother and father fight a lot. This doesn't really bother me. It's the fact that she always takes her anger out on me. If idobt agree with her, I basically am discommunicated from the family for a few days, till I apologize. It's not fair. My brother will get in trouble for something, but then I end up getting grounded. My brothers are afraid of her, so yet always agree but I don't anymre, because she is usually wrong. She overreacts and always will start crying and will sy mean things to me. Like how I'm stupid or she hates me. I don't know what to do, or what to say anymore.
I really need some advice..
I would have to say that not saying or doing anything is the best thing to do. Use any excuse possible to walk away from those situations when things get heated. There is a possibility that your mom is bi-polar and needs medical help. But typically people with those problems don't like to admit they have a problem and will deny needing help. If you can, you may want to talk to an adult outside of the family (school or church) and have them speak to your mom with your concerns. I hope things get better for you and I hope this helps.
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everytime i try to shave "down there" i can never get a clean look without bleeding or a lot of ingrown hairs! what are the EXACT steps/products i should use to shave. please be very specific!!!!
Try using Schick Intuition razor and check out my advice given to another woman. Hope this helps and good luck.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=589700
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Should I get in I fight over a girl (love) cause I really like her she likes me and him she will date who ever wins the fight but I dont know how 2 fight I know the blocks how 2 punch etc I just can't hit hard enough
So should i fight?
And how 2 increase punching power I know how to block this fight may be tomorrow so????
It seems like she's using both of you for her entertainment. Any girl that demands a fight for affection has got her own emotional problems. I think it's time to find a girl that will love you for who you are and not who you can beat up. Hope this helps and good luck.
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In short, I have a boyfriend but when I masturbate I always think of girls doing stuff to me or each other, or I read lesbian porn stories or watch lesbian porn.
I don't feel myself attracted to girls, but they just turn me on more when it comes to that area.
Does this make me a lesbian because it makes me feel weird.
You may still be to young to realize which side you prefer or if you really prefer both. I'm on the both side. I have a husband but slept with a lot of women in my younger days because I was just plain horny all the time. I still enjoy watching girl on girl porn when I'm alone but love the way my husband feels during sex. If the time is right, don't be afraid to explore your lesbian side because you may enjoy it. You don't have to let your boyfriend know about your feelings because you may fear he may want a threesome and that's something you may not be comfortable with. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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So recently my boyfriend and I have been 'exploring' I guess you could say and like if were lying on a bed or just standing and full on kissing and picking up and I would get ' wet' downstairs and can I stop that? Then we were on the bed and had dry sex ( clothes on) and I would get wet and it gets annoying what can I do?! Thanks f/15
When you're finally ready to have sex in the future, you're boyfriend will love it that he doesn't have to use llubricants. If you're getting excessively wet there, you can try using a slim pad in your underwear to soak up the wetness. I wouldn't worry about anything, it's perfectly normal to get turned on when your fooling around. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months. We haven't done too much together because I'm really scared to. I always hold back whenever I'm with him because sometimes I feel like I'll get too attached to him and we'll never last. My parents feel that having a boyfriend now isn't right for me. I know it's not what they think but I've always had their approval for almost anything and having a boyfriend is pretty serious for me. I wish they knew, but they obviously can't and I feel really bad. Also, my parents are moving four hours away, and eventually, I'll have to as well, just not right now. Also, he's cheated on me before and I seriously can't stand that girl or any other girl around him. I've also caught him telling a few white lies but I don't wanna ask about it because it'll make me seem like a stalker. He has freedom to go where he pleases, whereas I don't because my parents are strict. I get very envious about that and I don't know how to help myself. I trust him, I guess, but I don't trust his friends, especially girls around him. I feel like if we move any further, I'm going to become too attached. He knows I get pissed easily when it comes to him and I'm afraid that one day he'll just say he's done and he's tired of me. I can't help the way I feel because this is me being honest. I don't know what to do!
More than likely he's cheated on you more than just the one time. You only found out about the one time. He knows he's got you where he wants you. You're trapped at your folks and he's free to go and do what he wants. I think you know in your heart that he's not really the right one for you because you wouldn't be on here asking about it and having these trust issues with him. I think if you don't end things soon with him, he'll probably end up hurting you more than you already are. You'll find someone that treats you the way you deserve to be and won't talk to other girls without you knowing about it. I hope this helps and good luck.
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i'm 22f still a virgin (yes i know but only because i live in a small place and i'm either related to the guys here or they don't like me in that way)
Anyways i'm been in an online relationship with this guy for almost 2 years now. We plan on meeting up to whenever both of us have enough money, just to see where things lead.
One of the things we well do is have sex of coruse. I'm not asking for tips or whatever, the thing is he thinks we'll have sex most of the time when we meet up and that's fine, i wouldn't mind that.
He said a few mins ago that couples who first start dating its nothing but sex for a while. I get that i really do. Thing is i rarely get in the mood, and plus when we do meet i don't want to always have sex all the time, maybe that'll change but highly dobtful on that. But he just doesn't understand that i don't to have sex all thetime, how can i tell him this without him thinking i'm being a prude about it?
Maybe i'll change my mind about it but who knows.
It's hard to be in the mood for sex when you're not around that person, let alone when you've never actually had sex. If you do get together, he should take you out on a few dates and hang out for at least a week before you have sex to see if you're actually compatible. He may just be using you to get sex and when he gets what he wants, chances are, he'll leave you. I understand that young boys are horny all the time but he needs to understand what you're going through and give you some time and space to figure out what you want. When he does show up and you decide you want to have sex, make sure he knows you want to go slow. Lots of kissing and foreplay is good to get you in the mood. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My husband has been texting a co-worker of his and admitted to flirting with her. When I confronted him the first time he said he would stop. I found out he deletes all of her messages because I looked at the phone records. He was really upset when I confronted him the second time. This has been going on for over a year. I also just found out he has been receiving and texting porn to his friends. He's suddenly going to the gym and into his appearance. I have major self esteem issues right now and really need his support. I was diagnosed with leukemia and getting ready for a bone marrow transplant. I have lost my hair due to chemo. I realize I can't do much with my appearance right now because of the radiation and chemo. I do try to make my makeup look nice and wear pretty scarves to cover my head.I'm afraid to bring up the texting because each time I did in the past he got really upset because of the lack of trust. I know he won't cheat on me but I do worry about the emotional connection with this co-worker and this sudden interest in porn. He doesn't tell me I'm unattractive, he's only said I look okay and to not worry about it. My question is, should I confront my husband and if so how do I do that without upsetting him with the snooping? Is it okay for him to flirt with other women and send porn to his friends since it's not actually cheating?
Since he's a man, he probably doesn't like to talk about his problems. More than likely he's going through his own emotional issues than he's not letting you know about. So his way of coping with his problems at home is to flirt and check out porn. It helps him forget about his problems and makes him feel in control. Your situation is something he can't fix or control and men do not like being out of control. If he does start to make new friends that you haven't met and going to places out of the ordinary, then you should probably confront him. You can talk to him about your fear of emotional infedelity and let him know that you trust him but you need his body and his heart with you during this troubling time. I hope everything works out for you and that you make a speedy recovery.
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my friend flirts with me and stares at me in class she also says hi in the hallway but she only does it when no ones looking does she like me? im 13 and a girl
She may be testing to see how you respond. If she hasn't had a boyfriend or doesn't talk about boys very much, she may be more attracted to girls. If you don't have any feelings for her, I'm sure she'll be happy if just continue being her friend. If you think you may have feelings for her, just ask me, I may be able to help you out. Hope this helps and good luck.
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keeps me up all night when i have to wake up for work at 4:00 in the moring
The best thing is as soon as you can feel a fight coming on, is to walk away. Tell her we'll talk about it later when we're both calmer and can think rationally. If she keeps following you, just tell her "fine, you win...I need to get some rest" and let it go. Hope this helps and good luck.
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ok so me and my girlfriend broke up over a month ago and we would see eachother almost everyweek atleast ones after that and it was amazing. but she still didnt want to get back with me and 2 weeks ago she started talking to someone else. and it looks like shes really into that person and all her friends love that person and they didnt really like me. and i really want her back cause i love her. what should i do to get her back????? im a girl btw.
Do you really want someone that may only take you just to leave you again? It's very hard to have feelings for someone that doesn't return them. Even if you were to win her back, chances are that she would break up with you again. Her feelings for you have stopped and she has already moved on. Trying to be her friend probably won't help either because you'll always have it in the back of your head that you want to win her back. Try to make more time for your friends or get out and make some new friends. Eventually your feelings will change and hopefully you'll find someone who'll love you the way you deserve. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Hello my wedding ring is 10K white gold and it recently just started irritating my finger. It's all red and really itchy. I work in a kitchen so of course i help with dishes and i recently started doing this about 2 months ago but just developed the irritation about 2 weeks ago. I was wondering if maybe im allergic to the chemical in the dish water/sanitizer? I started wearing my ring around my neck and tried staying away from dishes but my finger doesn't look any better. I've tried putting lots of lotion on it but still no results. Any suggestions? I also tried wearing my ring on another finger and no break outs have started. Thanks for the help everyone!
It may not have anything to do at all with your ring but the fact that you're working with a lot of water lately. You could have the start of eczema and you should see a dermatologist before it gets worse. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Please let me know how you give a hand job and how you give a "great" one. Everytime i give my boyfriend a hand job, he always says all im doing is rubbing it. I want to please him by doing these things so please explain to me how to give a hand job as well as a blow job. Thanks!
Here's a few answers I've given before. I hope it helps and let me know how things turn out.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=588879
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=588806
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