helpfulcat answered Wednesday January 19 2011, 8:47 pm: I'm 21 and i have been investigating this question for quite a long time. Like you i wanted to know what it was, what it feels like and how to do it. This is what i've found.
There are two ways a woman can 'cum'
1. Externally (On the outside)
When a womans clitoris is stroked, rubbed or touched in the right way blood rushes to it, filling it up and then very quickly releases back into the body. This is what technically happens.
It can be a difficult thing to describe. For me it feels like a tingly feeling building up to a point where the tingling becomes a warm explosion but on the inside.
It sounds strange but the best way for me to describe it is like a sneeze but pleasurable. When you are about to sneeze you can feel it building to a point where you have to sneeze and the sneeze itself is the release.
2. Internally (from the inside)
This is normally where the g-spot (a spot inside you on the front wall of your vagina) is stroked and rubbed just like the clitoris and the orgasm builds in a similar way but the orgasm itself feels different because it's all on the inside, sometimes more intense than the clitoral orgasm.
Lots of women react diferently when they orgasm, some make lots of noise moaning with pleasure, some make very little noise but still feel the same amount of pleasure. Some twitch a bit and some even find themselves lifting their hips or chest off the bed in pleasure.
Some women (not all) are able to ejaculate. This is where a liquid is released when the women orgasms ('cums'). The liquid is from a small 'pouch' just above your bladder and the liquid is similar to sugary water because it contains some of the body's extra glucose. Most women who ejaculate have been said to describe it to feel like you are about to wee yourself just before the orgasm and ejaculation. But like i said not all woman are able to do this.
The best way to find out what it is like is to try it yourself. You are still very young so i wouldn't recommend finding a boy to do sexual things with. I waited until i was older to have sex but i started exploring my own body around your age maybe slightly younger. It is a very natural thing to masturbate.
julie75 answered Wednesday January 19 2011, 5:12 pm: Typically only men "cum", which is ejaculation and women have orgasms with no ejaculation. Hopefully you wait quite a while before you have sex and experience an orgasm with a boy. But when I was your age, I masturbated quite a bit and I knew when I had my first orgasm, I was in heaven. If you get turned on and can get some privacy, you can try rubbing your clit really fast and when your body shakes and you let out a little moan; you probably had an orgasm. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
soadorable__x3 answered Wednesday January 19 2011, 4:17 pm: Cumming is something that is a fluid that is released during sex. When you're cumming, you'll know, it usually happens when you're having sex and am extremely sexually aroused. I also think that cumming is different for everyone, for me it's warm and tingly but for someone else it could feel completely different. [ soadorable__x3's advice column | Ask soadorable__x3 A Question ]
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