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i need advice
um...im 18 years old n i have a boyfriend and he is 18 about to be 19 this year next week and we always have sex everyday but i think when we having sex and i give him head i feel like im doing it wrong one nite he told me i need to stop tring to deep troat and i knw i cant but i want to try new things n our sex life how do i try to get him to do new things with me without him thinking i cant cause we never did it befo he always tell me he is playing when he say things like that but i dnt think he do i feel like im doin it wrong and it hurts my feelings wen he say things like that how do i fix it
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When you are in an adult relationship and choose to be sexually involved with a person you need to be able to talk about these things.
The essential element in any relationship is communication. You'll never get better or cater to your spouse's preferences if you dont talk to eachother about it.
Experiment with different positions, games or situations to discover what you both like and dislike. Make time for you both to talk about your sex life.
Dont be afraid to tell your partner what you think and feel. It may also be worth mentioning that his criticism is unnecessary. Instead of putting you down, he could be making suggestions as to what would make oral stimulation more pleasurable for him.
If he cares and respects you as he should then he should respect how you feel and recognise your effort to improve things between both of you. Remind him that this is a two way street and that you both need to make more of an effort to e open minded and patient with eachother as you learn. Theres nothing like experience!
If you dismisses you and how you're feeling then maybe you need to re-evaluate your relationship as well as the decision to become sexually active with him.
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Best policy in a relationship, talk to him about it. Tell him that you want to experiment in the bedroom to liven things up a bit, discuss things that you two want to do to each other.
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