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questions about sex
Please help me.
1. Does a guy actually like to finger girls or do they just do it to make them happy? Same with eating a girl out?
2. How come i can never get my guy off when im giving him a hand job?
3. When you give a blow job, do you have to make an up and down motion with your mouth or can you just suck on it and massage it?
4. How do you give head?
5. How long do i have to give head in order for him to be happy?
Thank you so much!
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A lot of the questions you asked depend entirely on the person.
1. Depends on the person. Just like some girls love giving head/hand jobs and some only do it to keep their partner happy (or some do it because they want something in return), there are guys who like doing it and guys who don't.
2. Maybe you're not doing it right. Maybe he just can't. If he can orgasm when he masturbates, you should ask his help, because he SHOULD be able to orgasm when it's your hand instead of his.
God knows that when I started with hand jobs, I was TERRIBLE. My boyfriend and I sat in his room, my hand going up and down, a BLANK expression on his face. It was horrible. He had to finish what I started in the end. -_- But you know what, he helped me through it. Later on, when we were at it again, he'd softly guide me. Whether it was "move your hand up a little" or "tighter" or "keep going", those random little things helped me figure out what it was that he liked. So you should ask your guy to do the same for you.
3. It depends on the person. Generally, the up and down gets you to the finish line faster and the rest of the stuff you do with your mouth just make the ride more enjoyable. If you JUST suck and massage it, it'll take forever, but he'll cum eventually. Just remember, a blow job isn't just about the mouth and the penis. You can use your hands, too, and you can touch any other part of his body that'll make him feel good (testicles or any other erogenous zones) while you're working your mouth.
4. Experiment with that ^ and cater it to your guy's preferences.
5. You have to do it until he cums. Trust me, if you stop anytime before that, he will be very UNhappy. I can't give you an actual time because it all depends on him.
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1) Most boys like to finger a girl, just to say they did. Most men like to eat a girl and the older the guy, the better at it he will be. Unless you tell a boy exactly what to do or what you like, he won't be any good. Getting fingered or eaten can be great with a patient boy who doesn't rush into it.
2) You need to go slow and if you're turned on, it will help turn him on. Don't grab his penis to hard and jerk it to fast (until the end). You may want to use a lubricant or a small amount of baby oil to make things smoother. Also if you use both hands on him (one on his penis and the other on his testicles), he may get more enjoyment out of it.
3-4-5) You don't want to use your mouth to much or your mouth will get tired before you finish. Use the hand job method along with your mouth. Put one of your hands at his base and your mouth above it. When you go up and down with your mouth, do the same with your hand. Take a little break once in a while and run your tongue along his shaft. If you don't like the idea of swallowing his semen, you can let it shoot in your mouth and let it run down the length of his penis.
If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope you let me know how things turn out and good luck.
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1. Part A: Do you like to give guys handjobs? It's different for different people. Some do, some don't. Part B: Do you like to give blowjobs? Again, some do, and some don't. It's just dependent. However, there is scientific evidence now-a-days that guys that more frequently perform oral on women have a higher risk of mouth and throat cancer thanks to the HPV virus being more prevalent. If you're a woman, the same link has not been noted with giving oral to men (if he obviously has genital warts, that's different...in more ways than one.)
2. Depends on the guy, simply ask him if it's doing it for him and if not ask him to guide/show you how he'd like it. That'd help.
3. It's going to be more or less a mix of the two. Also, again, it's going to be dependent on the guy. Some guys will have an orgasm simply from the act and thought of the girl giving him oral. However, others will require effort. This may not be the best image for you, but since it's more or less like sex, pretend your mouth is like your vagina, then go ahead and guess at how exactly the two function together to accomplish the task at hand.
4. Head = Blowjob. See above question.
5. If you quit before he's not done, he won't be happy. If you don't like to have semen in your mouth, you're going to have to decide between his happiness and yours. Or, come to some sort of decision about a signal or plan to be made so that you can avoid such "inconveniences."
If I said anything that offended you over the bounds of this question, I'm sorry. Only trying to explain it in as simple a way possible per the parameters of the questions.
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