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"A couple weeks ago I was in target and used the restroom. They had no toilet
paper and I happen to look in the thing that you put tampons and pads in and
there was some toilet paper left in there. It was dry had nothing on it and
looked clean and smelt like toilet paper. I used it and wasn't really thinking
about that I could catch something from using it. Now I am very scared. I feel
completely fine and nothing is different about me. I looked all over on the
internet and everyone has said that if there was any kind of std including hiv
that the virus would have died because of the air plus drying out. Is this true? I know this was stupid but I was in a hurry and wan't thinking.
Please I would love some help on this. Thank you for your time (link)
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Just for clarification purposes, HIV would not cause you to feel anything in the first few weeks, months, possibly even years of infection, the same with some other STDs. That being said, I think you'll be fine.
Viruses, thanks to their only having, at most, a single protein coating, do not survive well in the open environment. Bacteria, however, can survive for lengthy periods of time outside of the body and on surfaces such as toilet paper. However, bacterial infections generally manifest themselves quickly (within a week or two of contamination). Also, the odds of someone having any kind of viral STD and leaving such contamination in the trash can are very low. The odds of someone with a bacterial infection doing the same are very low. The odds of catching an infection from what you've done are even lower. If anything, you could possibly experience a bacterial infection. I think you would not, but I can't be certain. The good news is that if it WERE to happen (again, I think not), then it would be treatable and most likely not affect you very much more than a trip to the doctor and a small prescription antibiotic treatment. Just to make sure you're not still worried, it's extremely unlikely.
However, here's hoping that you washed your hands because that's just unhealthy if you didn't. Also, do never use toilet paper out of a trashcan. It's just not a good idea because, though those possibilities are VERY low, they aren't 0%.
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Please help me.
1. Does a guy actually like to finger girls or do they just do it to make them happy? Same with eating a girl out?
2. How come i can never get my guy off when im giving him a hand job?
3. When you give a blow job, do you have to make an up and down motion with your mouth or can you just suck on it and massage it?
4. How do you give head?
5. How long do i have to give head in order for him to be happy?
Thank you so much! (link)
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1. Part A: Do you like to give guys handjobs? It's different for different people. Some do, some don't. Part B: Do you like to give blowjobs? Again, some do, and some don't. It's just dependent. However, there is scientific evidence now-a-days that guys that more frequently perform oral on women have a higher risk of mouth and throat cancer thanks to the HPV virus being more prevalent. If you're a woman, the same link has not been noted with giving oral to men (if he obviously has genital warts, that's different...in more ways than one.)
2. Depends on the guy, simply ask him if it's doing it for him and if not ask him to guide/show you how he'd like it. That'd help.
3. It's going to be more or less a mix of the two. Also, again, it's going to be dependent on the guy. Some guys will have an orgasm simply from the act and thought of the girl giving him oral. However, others will require effort. This may not be the best image for you, but since it's more or less like sex, pretend your mouth is like your vagina, then go ahead and guess at how exactly the two function together to accomplish the task at hand.
4. Head = Blowjob. See above question.
5. If you quit before he's not done, he won't be happy. If you don't like to have semen in your mouth, you're going to have to decide between his happiness and yours. Or, come to some sort of decision about a signal or plan to be made so that you can avoid such "inconveniences."
If I said anything that offended you over the bounds of this question, I'm sorry. Only trying to explain it in as simple a way possible per the parameters of the questions.
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I want My Hair to grow Longer more quickly! Any Suggestions? (link)
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You'll hear that cutting hair often causes it to grow quicker. (And for any pubescent young men out there hoping to grow facial hair better, no, shaving more frequently does not cause your hair to grow quicker) However, this is not the case. Hair grows because your cells divide and push keratin out of your follicles. This happens at varying rates for different people but is more or less the same. Ever wonder why people who go through chemo or radiation therapy lose their hair? The treatments used to stop certain cancers are treatments that kill cells that divide quickly (like cancerous cells), however, it kills all cells that divide quickly. Including, the ones that cause your hair to grow.
Where did this rumor come from? Mothers don't want to take their spotchy hair faced teen out to dinner looking so rag-tag. Tell your child their facial hair will grow in better the more they shave, and they'll shave until it doesn't look bad. The facial hair DOES seem to grow quicker over time and DOES seem to grow in better, but then again, puberty DOES seem to cause those same effects.
So, to recap briefly, I suggest you either discover the miracle grow which causes your cells pushing hair out of your head to grow quicker without being cancerous. Or grow patience. Sorry.
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In a few months, I will be leaving school to go to college. On our last day, we have this thing called MUCK-UP DAY where we muck up the school- its all about having a laugh for its our last day of school, anything from pranks would do.
I would like to have some ideas from other people--
last year people brought in stink bombs and taking down door knobs. I'd like it to be fun, but not too far-- like damaging school properties.
Cheers
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Bring in 4 different animals and label them with surgical tape or with some other method in this way: 1, 2, 3, and 5. The faculty will spend the day looking for the fourth one.
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To begin with, I love my boyfriend...we always have a great time together and he is my best friend. He's the only guy I've ever done stuff more then kissing with and I've lost my virginity to him (and he lost his to me). This morning I woke up really happy because we had a date last night and it was really fun. But then I checked my facebook, and everyone else updated their status about them hanging out with friends and my best friend sent me a text and said she missed hanging out with me...I'm so confused, because I LOVE hanging out with my boyfriend, I'd rather hang out with him then anyone else, but at the same time I miss hanging out with my friends. I feel like my friends are just like "oh, she's always with her boyfriend now, she probably won't want to hang out with us anyway" and they never invite me to stuff like they used to :( I guess I have been more distant since I've been with this guy, and I miss my friends but I'd still choose to hang out with my boyfriend over hanging out with them...I don't know why but I've been craving the 'single life' lately, even though I'd never break up with my boyfriend, at least not right now. And I don't believe in 'taking a break'...if I ever broke up with him (or him with me), I couldn't ever allow us to get back together because if we can't work out the first time, then we probably can't work out the second time. So what do I do? I feel like I'm torn between my friends and my boyfriend, but I'm not...I'd rather hang out with my boyfriend. Maybe I just like the idea of being more social rather then actually doing it? A lot of times when I used to hang out with a friend, I'd get really bored and just want them to leave so I could be alone...I just don't know what's up with me! I'm so confused :( please help, any advice is appreciated!
Also, if it helps, I'm 17 and he's 18...we've been together for a little bit over a year. (link)
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Well, don't get to hung up over whether or not it's a choice between your friends and your boyfriend. They don't have to be mutually exclusive. Try to find activities that you can include your friends and your boyfriend in. If not, find another way to hang out with your friends. You probably don't hang out with your boyfriend everyday, and if you do, you don't have to to show that you love him. If he trusts you, and it seems like he does, then just say you want to reconnect a bit with your friends and he's welcome to join you if he wants or if your friends want to hang out with just you just tell him girls night out or whichever you like. If you feel your friends aren't inviting you to whatever they're doing, take the initiative and come up with a plan and invite them to it. Whichever you choose to do, though, take it lightly, there's no need to choose one over the other right now.
Also, if it's a case of your friends not supporting you, wrong friends. There are surely friends of yours who have boyfriends or such that you could double date with or other single friends who are willing to be flexible with you in order to hang out with you. Whichever, just take the whole process with ease, don't worry yourself too much.
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My skin used to be beautiful, it was flawless and I had a nice glowing olive skin. I was also really skinny, my nanny used to call me a stick because of it. After my 12th birthday I started my period and therefore had breakouts. I wasn't bothered at first because they weren't really bad and mum said it was normal. Then, for about a year, I noticed scars and marks from the spots I had. I dont pick on them but still they scar, so now I have scars on my face, back and chest. I also gained weight, thought it was normal, until I noticed that my bum and thighs are getting bigger, and not only that, I had stretchmarks! It's not that im really fat or anything, Im 5"1 and 8stone and i have stretchmarks. And then, last year i had chickenpox and every single blister turned to scars, now i have scars all over my body! Im really self conscious now and dont wear shorts and skirts without tights, I dont wear bikinis anymore too, and were goin on a summer holiday in asia, its stupid wearing jeans on the beach where its really hot. I think I may have really bad skin collagen structure or something that makes my skin scar more easily. Im so worried its gonna stay forever. Its affecting my self confidence. (link)
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First of all, try not to let it hurt your confidence too much. I had acne problems as a teenager, too, and I let it affect me too much when it really wasn't as big a deal as I was making it. And, also, 8 stone is nothing so don't worry about that. However, if you are extremely self-conscious to the point that it's hurting your everyday function and self-esteem, bring it up to your parents and ask if there are any over-the-counter tropical treatments for scars and/or stretch marks. That's a specific questions because I know and have seen the medications that exist specifically for these things. However, you're only a teenager, and as I'm sure you may have found out or are learning. Puberty is not the most fun time of life to be in a changing body, but don't fret. Self-confidence is most important. Everyone's going to be self-conscious about something or other. Being confident in your body despite it all will be what shows the most.
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I've never had salmon but I LOVEEEEE sea food. Does it taste like a certain something? I'm just iffy about trying it and I would like to know how others feel about it! (link)
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Try it. Whether anyone thinks it's good or bad should not deter you from finding out for yourself whether you enjoy it.
But if you really just want to know how someone feels about it. I think it's great.
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Before I explain the story, I just want to note: WE DID NOT STEAL A THING.
My friend and I were at Walmart today in the make-up section and I noticed a man who was looking at us in the aisle next to ours. Clearly this was odd because most middle-aged men don't wear makeup... so as my friend and I are walking I notice this guy run and hide behind these two board game boxes and peeking through them to watch us, then he peeked his head out and made eye-contact with me. Then we turned a corner and AGAIN he's looking at us through the fitness section. Clearly he thought we were shoplifting.
I DID NOT have any intention on taking anything, nor did I attempt to. My friend however, put lipstick in her bag. The second I saw this man following us, I informed my friend to remove anything she may have put in her bag, she did, and we continued walking. As we were walking to go pay for my item, I saw him again follow us to the registers. [Nothing was stolen!]
As we were walking out, the man was standing at the exit with a woman, and watched us walk out. He didn't say a word to us or ask to check our bags, as we got in my car and proceeded to back out and drive off, I saw him in my rear-view mirror at the entrance to the store with a walky-talky in his hand.
BASICALLY, I have NO idea if this man took my plate #, I didn't do ANYTHING, and my friend put everything she had planned on taking back. They hadn't asked to search our bags, so I have no idea why he'd have followed us outside and he was clearly looking at my car cause he was at the end of the aisle my car was in.
Any idea what this man was doing? He had no right to take my plate # if that's what he did, I didn't do anything nor did he catch us doing anything or with anything on our person.
I'm pretty positive he was an employee, I've heard employees have to actually see you place items in your bag before they pull you over, so I'm assuming that's why he stalked us. (link)
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If you didn't break any laws, you didn't break any laws. Simple as that. If he thinks you did, but he can't prove it, don't worry yourself at all.
Also, anyone has the right to take your license plate number if they think you're doing something suspicious so don't get worked up over that.
Again, if you didn't break any laws, you didn't break any laws. Don't worry. If your friend DID steal something, but you didn't know it, you're still going to be okay. If your friend DID steal something and you DO know about it. If the police ask you about it, do not lie. Any friend who puts you in a situation like that would not be a friend you'd want to have. Trust me.
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does anyone know some exercises that helps you lose stomach fat and thigh fats? (link)
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It's a common myth that you can do certain exercises to lose fat in certain body places. This is not entirely true. You can do exercises to build muscle in those areas and tone it a bit, but the body distributes body fat in it's own pattern depending on your body fat percentage.
So, the idea of doing certain different exercises to make those areas appear more toned is a decent idea, however, the real key is to change the ratio of muscle-to-fat. A small cardio routine alternated with weight training can make this more effective. Alternate days of doing isometric exercises like lunges and sit-ups with days of walking/running a mile or two. Just build from there. Remember that it's what you put into it that you get out of it. Don't just quit when you begin to sweat or get tired, push yourself a little farther and you'll get good results. Also, good diet. You don't have to change too much, but if you drink regular soda, try switching to diet soda or even better water. Not strictly to lose weight, but because water is so good for you.
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