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I race BMX and this weekend I fell and hurt my wrist pretty badly. It looked like a broke my arm so I went to the hospital and they x-rayed my forearm and said everything was fine. The next day my wrist started swelling up and it hurts to even touch it the lighest bit but I can move it. Does anyone know what I could have done to my wrist?

Its probly a minor sprain. ice it up alot.

Sprains usually last about a week or two. So if its not feeling better after a week call your family doctor. You wont need to go back to the hospital emergency room.


hope i helped
kim:)

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I was wondering if someone could tab out the first 20 seconds of Monophobia by Moi Dix Mois?

I can't figure out how to do it myself.

And is there any good websites that can help me learn more on notes? So I can try to play better of the songs I already have tabs for.

Honestly i looked for an hour and couldnt find anything on the internet & im sorry.

I found other tabs by Moi Dix Mois.

www.ultimate-guitar.com/tabs/moi_dix_mois_tabs.htm


http://www.ultimate-guitar.com/lessons/the_basics/learning_to_play_songs.html

http://www.tabheaven.com/chordgenerator.php


sorry if this isnt what you were looking for but honestly i dont hink you are going to find those tabs for that song. you might have to find someone that knows something about guitar. Like a friend or someone that teaches lessons.

kim:)

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Who sings the song "Material girl" Thanks!

Madonna

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(13, Female)
My crush asked me out recently. I'm totally outgoing and flirty, but once we start going out I get shy. How do I break out of that. Like on the phone, I don't know what to say. Sometime's I'll try excuses not to talk to him, or hang out with him cause I hate ackward silences. How can I be a more outgoing, romantic type when I'm going out with someone?

honestly you have to remember that when someone ask you out. They do it because they like YOU. The like the way you act. Like if your outtgoing that might be a reason they really like you. If you guys starting dating && you totally change then he may not want to be with you anymore because your not actting yourself around him.

When your with him act the same way you would if you were with your friends. Hes one of your friends && your boyfriend at the same time.

hope i helped
kim:)

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IS this site really for free because I think people that gives their advice here must be paid somehow? who created this site and did it cost money?

yes this site is free. && no one on here gets paid as far as i am concerned. We are just people that are willing to give advice & no is making us stay on this site.

Hope i helped.
kim:)

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hi, Does anyone know where I can get a plain, small comment box to put on my myspace? I searched xanga, under blogrings - Myspace codes.. but I couldnt find any. So if you know where I can get the code, THANK YOU! :] Because right now my friends cant comment me. [ I have hidden comments. ]

here you go!

http://www.myspacescripts.com/

click on comment boxes. then itll be self explanatory.

hope i helped
kim:)

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on eyelash curlers, you know that little white thing they have at the top? how often do you need to replace that? thanks.

You replace them Every two months.

http://beauty.about.com/od/makeuptrickstips/ht/curllashes.htm

hope i helped
kim:)

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What exactly is a tease ? Like if someone calls you a tease. What does it exactly mean ? (I know kind of stupid question). But thanks for people who answer this nicely

When a girl/guy flirts with the oppsite sex && gets them excited like they really like them Or going to give them something. Then pretty much tells them no way.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=tease


Hope i helped.
kim;)

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Okay, I just want to know one time what it feels like to make yourself throw up. I would never go into bulimia, but can anyone tell me how to make myself throw up? I know it sounds stupid, but my friend said that I should try it just to see how bad it really is. Can anyone help me??

Its very disgusting & you shouldnt do it. Why does your friend want you to try this? If you try this what happens if you want to continue making yourself throw up? Youll become bulimic. Is your bulimic & does she make herself throw up? there wouldnt be any other reason she would want you to do this to yourself.

Talk to your friend && ask her why she wants you to make yourself throw up? Making yourself is worse then throwing up because your sick. Just imagine it.

hope i helped
kim;)

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I have some pictures taken with 2 or 3 different digital cameras uploaded and saved onto my computer that I would like to have "developed" or whatever. What kind of disk should I burn them onto to take them to Walgreens to develop them or what are some other ways to get them printed? Thanks.

Walmart & cvs & walgreens seel picture cd's that you can buy & then put your pictures on them. Or i know walmart & cvs have online prints. You can go to their website & load them on the site & then go to the store and pick them up in a certain amount of time depending on where you get them done.

heres cvs:

http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/digitalprints

heres walmart:

http://www.walmart.com/photo-center

heres walgreens:

http://photo.walgreens.com/


If you need any help i can help you just leave on in my inbox.

Kim;)

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My parents have been smoking since they were teenagers. I'm just curious if everyone who smokes has a really high risk of getting lung cancer? It's not common in my family and I'm worried that my parents will get it.

theres a good chance that your parents may get lung cancer. But since your parents have been smoking since they were teenagers it would probly be really hard for them to quit.

I got this from the website that im going to give you.

---One other risk factor that researchers are looking at is a genetic predisposition to lung cancer. While we know that a family history of lung cancer is a factor in who gets lung cancer and who does not, “We have not identified the gene yet,” Dr. Martins says. “But obviously, some people smoke all their lives and don’t get lung cancer.”---


http://www.seattlecca.org/patientsandfamilies/adultCare/clinicalProgs/lung/Prevention.htm

hope i helped
kim:)

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hey! 16/f
so my good friend joe and i were hangin out tonight with his little brother and my cousin. well my cousins parents were gone so we were being all crazy and joe always takes my stuff like my keys and my cell phone so i have to go chase him and like flirt with him in order to get it. joe has a GIRLFRIEND and he claims to really love her but i dont know. joes like a really good friend but I wish we could be something more and im not sure if he gets the hint because one time it was me and his little brother in the same room and hes like OooOh you like joe i know you do and im like uhh no we are just best friends as we call each other and so i dont know if he was just saying that or he could tell that i did. the problem is im a HUGE flirt too. i cant tell him i have feelings for him..im just not that way and it will be awkward and it would ruin our strong friendship but i have REALLY strong feelings for him. he always like talks to me about his girlfriend and like gets advice from me. like tonight hes like allright we have to have a talk so we went in the parents bedroom and he locked the door and it was just me and him talking =) and like when i was standing in front of him turned away i know he was staring at my ass and he like always looks at me! i know he sees me as a friend but then he was like always touching me and flirting and laying right next to me and hes always "punching my stomach lightly" and we did a handshake and we kinda held hands. well like i was trying to get my keys back they were in his pocket and i went to grab them and he like grabbed my hand and we linked hands together like him trying to hold me back it was the cutest thing ever and it felt like we were boyfriend/girlfriend. stuff like that always happens he always grabs me and holds me when i try to get my stuff back from him! i just dont know. please dont tell me to talk to him about it im not going to. but is there anything else i can do? and please dont suggest to wait it out and if they breakup he will go to YOU! the problem is i have a feeling they will be going out for a loong time. i dont want to get over him i like being around him but its hard for me at the same time..

This is really cute && i wish i had a guy friend like that.lol.

Sounds to me that joe reallly likes you& more then a friend. The stuff joe does with you is the same things i have done with my boyfriends. You didnt really leave us any options of what you can do. If you dont want to tell him Or wait till him & his girlfriend break up then theres nothing you can do besides keep everything to yourself. I know he has a girlfriend but what if he is waiting for you to say something to him? what if he has the same feelings for you? What if you never tell him & he never tells you how he really feels? I know you said you will not open up to him but he is your bestfriend && i doubbt you telling him that you have strong feelings for him will ruin your friendship.



You can leave on in my inbox or IM me if you have any questions. aim- doesntmatterx8

kim:)

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Does anybody know any cute quotes about best friends or life or where I could find some?

-A friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself.

-Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart

-If you should die before me, ask if you can bring a friend

-If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them, I would be at the bottom to catch them

-Together forever, never apart. Maybe in distance, but never in heart

-A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out

- If I had one gift that I could give you, my friend, it would be the ability to see yourself as others see you, because only then would you know how extremely special you are

-A circle is round it has no end, that's how long I want to be your friend!

-We will be friends until forever, just you wait see

-A friend is one who knows all about you and likes you anyway



kim:)

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WHY is it ok for black guys to date caucasian chicks but it's not ok for black ladies to date caucasian guys.

no one said that it was not ohk. I know tons of black ladies dating caucasian guys. Whoever told you that its ot ohk is wrong.

Date whoever you want.

kim:)

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So I'm kind of .. "in love," i guess, with this boy, but he's ALOT older than I am.. well, not alot, but he's in his 20's and i'm in my middle teens, so. yea. But he seems so perfect, he's so sweet, we both love eachothers company & i am fully comfortable with him. We've gone all the way & he still wants me around as much as possible. But I don't know if his motives are what I've come to believe seeing as he's older. my parents don't want me seeing him, because of the age difference, but I always want to be with him & he seems to love my company even when we're just lying next to one another. Is this right, or is he bad news?

im not going to say its completely wrong becausei am 17 && i like this 26 year old. the differnece is that i havent done anything with him.

he might be the greastest guy you have ever met in your life but he is in his twenties. Usually when a older guy is involved with a teenager hes doing it for the wrong reasons. But i might be wrong. Also considering your parents do not want you with him because of the age gap it would probly be best to end the relationship with this guy && just be friends.

If you stay with this guy after your parents say end it && your parents can get him put on the pedhophile list because he has had sex with someone under the age of 18. And even after you turn 18 he will still be on that list. So if you dont want him on that list because of your parents i suggest you end this relationship.

Maybe i havent said what you wanted to here but you are still kind of young see whats out there && if when you turn 18 && this guy is still in your life & he is still everything you want then start over.

And that will give you plenty of time to find out if he is the guy that is in the relationship for the right reasons or just bad news.

i hope i helped
kimm:)

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I'm a 15 year old guy. I am starting to grow some hair on my stomach and chest, not thick and disgusting. But the hair on my head is black, and so my chest hair is dark as well. I'm pretty sure that girls don't find that attractive. I was wondering if there is any way to remove it besides shaving and laser hair removal. Thanks!

only other options are either.

waxing- with with probly be really painful.

http://www.permanenthairremovaltips.com/waxing-hair-removal.html


Or trimming

http://ezinearticles.com/?Chest-Hair-Reduction:-Chest-Hair-Trimming-For-Men&id=177030



hope i helped
kim:)

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what is straightedge? like if i person saya im straightedge.

You stay away from the bad scene.
drugs & sex 7 etc...



http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=straightedge


hope i helped
kim:)

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I am bulimic. Does God hate me for it?
It's a sin.

God does not hate Anyone. But he doesnt want you harming yourself && you are.

If being bulimic was considered a sin would you stop doing this to your body?

theres treatments for bulimia.

http://www.bulimia-treatment.net/get-help-now.htm


hope i helped
kim:)

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My boyfriend left my friend a picture comment on myspace that said "your so sexy shortii." I'm really jealous. Should I be jealous? I don't want to seem so clingy but I'm kinda jealous.

Yea you have a good reason to be jealous && trust me i would be too. But him thinking someone is sexy doesnt mean that anything is going on between your boyfriend && your friend. Just remember he is your boyfriend. But if it continues to bother you just talk to him about it.

im sure that there are guys that you think are sexy && if your boyfriend saw you telling these guys he would be jealous too.

hope i helped
kim:)

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HELL0. What are some good baby names? Boy, or Girl. First, and Middle would be appreciated! Thanks! =]

BOYS
matthew
jeffrey
jordan
christopher
scott
ryan
branden
evan
josh
Christian
jacob
anthony
nicholas
cameron


GIRLS
hannah
abigail
ashley
Hope
Savannah (rose - middle name)
makala
arlee
emma
heidi

Thats all i can think of.

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