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Scared Girlfriend.
(13, Female)
My crush asked me out recently. I'm totally outgoing and flirty, but once we start going out I get shy. How do I break out of that. Like on the phone, I don't know what to say. Sometime's I'll try excuses not to talk to him, or hang out with him cause I hate ackward silences. How can I be a more outgoing, romantic type when I'm going out with someone?
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Your not use to being with a guy. TO make you more comfortable without being shy, do little things first. Talk on the phone more often and be yourself. Maybe you aren't being your self. Talking on the phone a lot helps the relationship. Talk about your life and his life and more about each other...don't have to go personal yet. Go to a park with a pet if you have one or his. A walk through the park helps. After walks through the park, maybe ask him over and play board games, talk...stuff. Maybe go out for dinner with family members. Also, going to the movies will be fun...hope you have fun and not be a scared girlfriend
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You're probably not going out with a guy you're compatible with. Honestly, before you go out with a guy, get to know him well and see if you guys have things in common. Be friends with him first, because then when you're his girlfriend you already know what it's like to hang out with him and you will be more comfortable talking with him. Good luck.
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just be yourself.. act like you have been before you were going out. he liked you enough to go out with you then so why change. going out with someone is supposed to make you feel good about yourself. not awkward. this person loves your personality. thats why he wants to be your boyfriend
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honestly you have to remember that when someone ask you out. They do it because they like YOU. The like the way you act. Like if your outtgoing that might be a reason they really like you. If you guys starting dating && you totally change then he may not want to be with you anymore because your not actting yourself around him.
When your with him act the same way you would if you were with your friends. Hes one of your friends && your boyfriend at the same time.
hope i helped
kim:)
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