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Im 16 f and im 5 feet tall . Does any one kno any good stores to buy pants from that sell them in short sizes?

Hi. hmm well you can get short pants...like what they sell in Express you can pick from regular, short long or i think slim. like that. most stores should have them so just pay close attention to the paper tag thats on top of the pants. i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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how can i get more babysitting jobs so were i can get some money

Hey. you can post flyers around the neighborhood and see how it goes in the first week or so...or you can put notices or wutever into your neighbors mailbox or even up to a few streets away that you kno they have kids. thats all i kno! i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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my friend is here and she had a fever a couple of hours ago and there is a movie in the park that i really want to go to and I'm not sure if she wants to go but I REALLY want to go and I think that she s well enough (she had a fever a long while ago and she was well enough to come over to my house what should I say/do?

Hey. ditch the movies...nothing is more important then your friends health. tell your mom too so maybe she will give her some fever medicine and make sure it's not too high either...stay home with her and watch tv or have mom or someone stop at blockbuster and get some movies that you havent seen that came out already. just make sure she's alright because it's easier having your mom there too or whoever then being alone in a movie theather if you need any help if she all the sudden puke or shake really bad yah kno...i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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im a 14 year old male teen soi use tthe comp alot.my mom and dad r always tryin 2 c wat i do on the comp. they almost neva give me ne privacy on it. in fact rite now im on a crumy laptop in my bed and every1s alseep. 2day they say me talkin 2 som1 on AIM that they didnt no. they kept bitchen bout how i broke their trust or somethin and now my dad is gonna take aim away 4ever off all our comps!!! som1 plz help me and tell me wat i shud do!!!

Hey. tell them who it is...i mean my parents kinda do the same only not as much and then again they are trying to protect you too so dont get that mad. tell them who you are talkin too and if you dont know them be like this person IMed me first and so i'm trying to see if i kno this person iightt? or i guess just make up a new friend that you arint too close to and they should buy it. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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okay my friend is like my bffffeaeaeaeaeea but like she is kinda slutty like she has soo many peircings and like she flirts with all my x bf! and im scared that the next boy i care about she will try to make a move on him. wut should i do? i mean she is my best friend for ever and i love her to death! but she tells me that she would never hook up with one of my xes or wit someone i like alot so please help me out her asap

Hi. nothing else i would talk to her...be like ehh remember when you said you should do this and do that...well i think you are slightly and we need to talk about it. and i'm sure she will understand! i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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Well their is this guy that I have know since I was like 6 or older. we have always seen each other and I have always had a crush on him. he is like 20 turning 21 in feburary. I am only like 15 turning 16 in october. Is it bad for having a crush or like maybe a thing wit him even if he is a lil older then me? I like him so much but I don't know if my parents would like that he is older and I am so young for him. When we see each other too. we have so much stuff to talk about together and we are happy when we see each other and It hurts me when other girls hurt him. I don't want to do. well thank you Jenny,16,female

Hi. wow this is gonna make me cry...lol anyways i would talk to my parents first about dating him. since you said that you have been friends with him since forever then i'm sure your parents know almost everything about him...and if you are really in love age doesnt matter and as long as you two feel comforable about it them nothing should matter. good luck! i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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ok in this highschool im goin to its a REALLY bad school lol its ghetto..and yea anyways im not pretty or anything im over weight and yea u get the point but my question is how do i get more boys as friends? thanks! ( im really shy by the way )

Hey. i would say loose the shyness and just talk to them. you want to be friends with them so you dont have to worry about being wierd around them cuz you like them...so just with some girlfriends if they are friends with them and just be cool and talk to them...join in on what they are talkin about and see what happens. or if you are sitting next to someone at school you wanna be friends with thats a guy then help him with homework or school work during class and be nice...lol i'm sure it's not that hard once you loose your shyness. i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever. i want to have a BIG 16th birthday ( im 15 ) my birthdays in july. What should i do? I dont want to have a pool party or anything. But can you give me some ideas..like where to go..if i should stay at home and invite people over or where to have it. ( if youve already had ur 16th birthday reply! ) but if you havent thats alright lol. thanks

Hey. i say that if you live near a theme park...go there with a couple of friends if you dont wanna go broke..lol anyways yes if you live near a theme park why not try there...ot celebrate it in a near hotel so your parents dont have to do anything cleaning if you end up trashing the place. or maybe spending a day at the beach and it also depends on what kind og weather you have where you live too. if you want it to be not that special maybe the roller rink? and if you would like to invite ppl over and just chill it works too...just as long as you are having fun for your 16th birthday. I hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go?

Hey. i say you stay...because how are you gonna survive out by yourself with no money and food?...okay lets say you do but do you have a job? and where are you gonna stay for shelter? and in the end your money will be used up anyways so why not just stay? i mean try to ignore them if they are being unfair and just read a good book or something instead of surfing the net...and in 4 more years you can do whatever and you'll be off to college so why not just put up with it for 4 more years. besides why dont you talk to them too and ask why they are being so unfair sometimes...i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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hello fro, me and this girl were like best friends and spent every weekend at eachothers house for a long time and then she started hanging out with like one or two other girls and would ignore me all the time in class and then it got to the point where she would cancel our plans for theirs and it made me upset but when I'd talk to her at times the other girls were not around she was different. it seems like she thinks that they are better than me or something but she ignores me as well as other people as if they don't like me but they donnot act like they donnot. i just wish we could be like friends again, which she barely acts like we are. IS she another person now? or is it me?

Hi. i would talk to her one in one about why she's being so different when she's around you and her new friends...thats all i can say because matters can get worst where she doesnt want to me your friend no more besides canceling dates and things. just invite her over one day before her new friends get to her and tell her it's very important. i'm sure she will show up and just talk everything out and ask her why. i hope i hepled! x3 SweetStar

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i get so jealous when i see someone that's really pretty- it makes me feel as if i'm ugly...what should i do?

hey! i understand how you feel..i feel the same way sometimes too but then again why dont you think ur pretty? i mean if you really think about it just because that person is pretty doesnt mean she is a good person yah kno? so just because they are pretty doesnt mean they have a nice personality so the next time u think ur ugly think about it again and be like well i have a good personality and i dont look bad so why should i get jealous? i hope i helped!

x3 SweetStar

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this year for clothes i'm really on a budget. where are places i can get cheap, but cute clothes?? not old navy, i'm sick of it. also, where are cheap places to get tight jeans??

Hey. oh my goodness JCPennys has everything!!! most of their clothes are cheap but not cheap looking and since it's back to school things will be on sale like crazy.!!! you can find all kinds of designer jeans there like mudd, l.e.i, bongo wutever you are looking for! you can also try H&M i guess depending where you live cuz i'm not sure if all places have one. they have really nice clothes there for a very good price! and also it depends on what and what you can't wear to school too. i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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ok well here it goes.. i want to be a model so where is the closest modeling place type thing close or in kansas?? and one of my friends is already starting their modeling carreer! and she said that all sum1 had to do was refer her and then she got into modeling..so where is somewhere to do TEEN modeling either on runway or for ads in a magazine or something like that?

hey. i say you go grab a Seventeen Magazine and flip to the ad section where they have tons of modeling ads. i'm sure you have to be looked at before you get the job right...so have your mom or someone call the numbers there or email them and ask them questions before you do it and i guess u can always check out a modeling school and look for modeling oppertunities too. i hope i helped!

x3 SweetStar

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I am inbetween of thickness and thingess of my hair and does anyone know how to(w/o a perm) how to get it like those wavy things like marykate and ashley type things and how do i get my hair straight like a avrial lavigne type w/o having to use a straightner everyday?

*i rate * -HaIr

hey i would say use a curling iron for wavy hair or it depends on how wavy ur hair is already and just like it air dry once ur out of the shower and just apply some special curlying cream to your hair while it still wet. and without using a straightener everyday i say blow dry your hair using a roundish brush and section it out. i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad-

Hi i say you talk to your friends...even if they wont listen invite them over one day and just be like look guys we need to talk about all this. and it sounds like you hang with ur bf more then ur bffs so maybe they are mad about it since you guys have been friends for soo long and all the sudden you dont go to them anymore but to your bf and they feel like they lost you. i would suggest you hang with ur friends a little more and get back ur trust with them and with ur bf just tell me since you can tell him everything. be like look i need to hang out with my friends a tat more and i'm use he will understand. i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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Okay.. I'm 13 and I asked out this guy I really liked. He said he liked me yet he didnt like me yet. I still dont know what that means, but i knew it meant know. I still have really strong feelings for him, and i know he did too, because he liked me before but didnt tell me, and i found out like the other day. I'm really sad still and don't know what to do. Please help.

Hi
i would try to talk to him along somewhere...where you guys can just talk things out and figure out whats really going on if he really likes you or not and if he still likes you. and it's just one of those things guys do so you have to be patients in a way too. so try to talk to him and see what happens and figure out what if really going on. i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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I want to ask this guy to prom for next year!! I know it's ealry but I want him to go and I even i don't go with him i just want to dance with him!! What should I do?? A lot of ppl think that he is gay but i think he's metrosexual like ryan seacrest!! A lot of other girls are gonna ask him if i don't ask in advance!!
HELP ME!!

*4evainLuv

Hi i say you go for it! you have nothing to lose but him saying no so why not...i mean dont matter what ur friends or whoever think about him cuz as long as you like him and want to ask him then thats all you need. so go for it and good luck! i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar

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