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I know you can't get your teeth professionally whitened, and I was wondering if it's the same technology thats in the at home led whitening kits. I dont have a full artificial tooth, i just chipped one of my teeth and got it filled and the dentist told me the filled part has a different porosity than natural teeth so it would be a different color than my real teeth. Thanks! (link)
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As it will not harm your artificial tooth/teeth, it will NOT whiten them either. So depending on the location of your artificial tooth, I would suggest taking caution when using the whitener on your teeth as your natural teeth will whiten, while your artificial tooth/teeth will stay the same color, causing them to stand out more.
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While I was having intercouse a cottage cheese discharge came out on the guys penis, I dont have any itchy or buring sensation and it didnt have a smelll. What do you think it could be? (link)
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First of all, were you using protection? If not, and he were to climax inside of you, chances are this may have been his ejaculation. As for no itching and or burning, symptoms can take years to show. So you never truly know if you have any VD/STD's unless you were to go to a OBGYN and have a thorough examination. Also, for some women, their bodily fluids can take on different consistencies, especially during ovulation. During ovulation, a womans bodily fluids become thicker as well as more visible, than it would be pre-ovulation.
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I masturbathed last night around 11 ,had a bath in the morning and even washed my hands at 4 in the evening after that i went to my girlfrnds house,we were home alone we started kiss each other i put my hands in her pants not sure if i put them in the vagina,but was definitely around it for around 10 min,it did happen the next day too,can this in any way make her pregnant? (link)
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She will not be pregnant. In order for a female to get pregnant, the penis must enter the vagina, as well as ejaculate inside her vagina. Any other means such as artificial insemination is possible. But having semen on your hand(s), and later pleasuring her with said hand(s) will not cause her to get pregnant, as sperm does not live longer than 5 minutes outside of a human body.
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why does mt mom yell at me so much she cant go one day with out blaming me for something that i didnt even do. she calls me retarded and a bitch. i need help if i ask or tell a family member she always finds out and them yells at me some more i cant live like this i need to do something. (link)
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It is always best to get help, especially if it's deteriorating your personality/mood. Emotional abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. Even if there are no visible scars, there are ones internally that may cause you problems later on in life, such as if you have your own children, you may end up doing the same thing. If you speak with a counselor, they are required to keep it private. If the abuse gets too much that you can't handle it anymore, perhaps get a recorder, and record several of the instances that she yells and calls you these names. Then you'll be able to get any of the help you need. If you should go about recording these, do not let her know, and immediately give it to your school counselor, or teacher for safe keeping, and of course, teachers and other school staff will no doubt help you. IE; by contacting local social services, which is not always bad, you shouldn't be put into a home, and if you are, it won't be for long, so long as your mother complies with the orders she was given, such as taking anger management and so forth. Also, you can try talking with her, letting her know how her yelling and name calling is effecting you. No abuse, regardless of whether it is physical or emotional, should be accepted. If someone is hurting you either way, you get help. Otherwise you may end up with severe depression and may end up hurting yourself. And your life is already so short, you don't want to shorten it anymore that it already is. Be strong, get help.
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There is a man that I am not fully acquainted with, but attends the same church as I do. I have noticed that he would begin the "deer in headlight" look in the beginning (last year) and now, he appears to "pretend" he is not looking, but I can discern he is looking (I just can never catch him). While in service, if a male usher is near me (sitting by me or around me) he will give a gaze of seemingly confusion or disapproval. For example, one sunday, this guy that I have no clue who he is, moved to sit next to me. It was then that "the guy of interest" completely maneuvered his body away from us, as though he was angry. Now, I hate asking what would appear obvious/oblivious questions, but is the man crazy? (link)
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I don't believe he is crazy (though you never know), but it seems more of though that he is attracted to you, but seemingly too shy to admit so. Though, if you are not attracted to him, it may be best to let things go as they have. Should he finally get the nerve to pursue you, and he lets you know, do let him know how you feel. Whether you are or are not interested in him. Many males require blunt and straight forward replies to ensure they don't continue or attempt to do anything drastic. Or if his staring makes you uncomfortable, you can just straight up let him know that it does. The feeling that someone is invading your personal space, even without ill will, is still disturbing. Though, if you are too nervous or afraid to let him know your discomforts, perhaps ask a friend to confront this person, on your behalf, and have him/her let this man know that he makes you uncomfortable with his actions.
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hello:) i saw your page and i like your responses to other people so i hope you can help me make a decision. I am 17 female.i had a bf for almost 3 years my first bf i might say.We are not together we broke up 5 months. he found a gf not even after a month we broke up.iv try everything to let go and move on but my heart still calls him. we talk and hag out we know each other like no other,i let him know i still love him.he told me he misses me and still loves me but hes still has a gf!..he says he wants to stay away cuz hes afraid he might hurt me he rather keep me as his best friend..he is just to scare and coward to do anything about it should i give him more time or just leave things how it is? (link)
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It is often very difficult to let go of someone, especially since you know them and are so use to them. I know, I've been there. But sometimes it can always be for the best. It takes time to feel better, for some people it may take a day for others, it will take longer. He does have a girlfriend, and honestly, I would say let go, and try to move on. It will be difficult, but given some time, you can do it. You also do not want him cheating on her with you, because that could later on cause trust issues, should you two get back together. There is nothing wrong with still loving him, even if you end up with someone else. It's normal. Try to see him as a friend, I understand it can be hard and hurtful, but at least you are still friends, and in my opinion, that is good. Also, telling him you love him often, it can be very difficult, but try to stop, so he doesn't end up thinking it best that you two no longer can be friends. Value the relationship you have now, instead of trying to push it further while he is with another. Besides, you may find someone you enjoy being with more than you did with him. I hope I was of some assistance.
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what do i have to do to file taxes? do i HAVE to file taxes? if i do then how do i do it? (link)
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Yes, you HAVE to file your taxes, not doing so can get you into a lot of trouble. There are sites you can do it yourself, or you can go to tax preparation agencies such as H&R Block, or other local agencies. If you don't have the funds to pay for those, there is also online tax preparation sites where you do it yourself, such as
www.TurboTax.com The site does it for you, is very easy, and goes lets you know if you have forgotten anything. It costs only 30 dollars, and you have the choice of direct deposit (into one or multiple banking accounts) or having your check(s) mailed to you.
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I'm trying to grow out my hair, so I've tried to reduce the amount of heat I use on my hair. Some nights before bed, I braid my hair (while it's still wet so it will be wavy the next morning). In the mornings, I used my wet to dry hair straightener to dry the braids before I take them out. Could this be damaging my hair? Thanks in advance for all answers! :) (link)
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Too much as well as prolonged moisture does damage your hair, as well as heat. Not getting your hair trimmed at least once every 3 months is also damaging. Growing your hair is a very long and difficult process. (Trust me, I know) The best thing to do is try to reduce how much heating you do to it, such as hair straighteners, hair dryers, hair curlers, etc. Also braiding your hair while it is still wet, and not fully dried can damage your hair as well. It is safest to wait until your hair is dry before braiding or any other hair styles that require it to not fully dry. Also, be sure to get it regularly trimmed to ensure any damaged ends are removed to ensure healthy hair growth. As these can easily worsen as time goes on if left unmanaged.
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so im 18 years old and within my 18 years i've dealt with a lot of death in my close fam and my extended fam. and just recently i had a extremely close and young cousin pass away in a car accident (he was 22) it has been extremely hard to accept, but vie always been fascinated by death and idk why i like to look up death and people in caskets and faces of death and things such as that but im not goth or emo or suicidal i am typical girl but there is just something about death that is very fascinating but then after i see the dead people i get scared and very sad for them and then when i seen my cousin in his casket i almost passed out and was zoo scared to event near him so i just wanna know am i the only one who is like this am i werid for thinking like this because my boyfriend thinks i am extremely weird and i wanna know if i am or if this is normal (link)
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You are not weird for being fascinated by death. To be honest, I know many people (both men and women) who are fascinated by this daily occurrence. It is a mysterious thing, and I find it natural to wish to know more about it. I believe the reason people are so fascinated by it is because of all the mysteries hidden in and beyond it. We all wish to know where it comes from, where we go, and many other questions beyond that. I find it completely natural to be curious as well as interested in it, as well as fear it. Life is so short, and seems to go by in a blink. I think it is more of a thirst for knowledge. Everyone I know who watch as well as get into it is very intelligent. It is truly understandable, at least I feel it is. People who think it is weird to be fascinated by death, are just ones who do not want to understand, or have any desire to. You are not weird for being fascinated, it's just with today's society, everyone who try to expand are considered weird. Hell, I'm considered weird because of my interests as well as hobbies, but that's because a majority of people I know find the "normal" to be in partying and other things that I just can't seem to really get into or enjoy. If you really think about it, there is no real normal, as well as there is no real weird. Just everyone has different ideals. Even if others find it weird, there are just as many who find it normal.
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Hi, my bf jz gave me fingering yesterday night and he scratched on my virgina accidentally. So it bleed, I thought it will stop but still the blood continue to bleed until today. It looks like period but the blood is kinda fresh (or maybe it is just my imagination). So I thought I am pregnant because of my previous period is a bit unusual, coz my period usually is heavy flow but it was a bit blood only everyday. So i tested, and the result is negative. Today is my 19th day of menstrual cycle and I get heavy bleeding. I was wondering if it's injured caused by fingering or it is just another period that comes early. Please help... I am so worried that I couldn't stop thinking about it. (link)
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If you were scratched after being fingered, the bleeding wouldn't have lasted so long. Chances are, that due to the stimulation you may have just started your period. A woman's cycle is typically a 28-32 day occurrence. Count from the last day of your last period, and see how many days it has been. Also, period blood (as I have noticed) is always red, as it is just flowing to remove the lining of the uterine wall where the egg had once sat, until nearing the end of it, then it becomes a darker color. Though, you should also know that pregnancy doesn't always show right away. It can take up to 2-4 weeks for any symptoms, as well as the HGC hormone to show up in your urine. So it never hurts to have extra pregnancy tests around for precautions. Blood tests are always a more accurate way to find out if you are pregnant or not though. Depending on how long you have had your current period, also consider some side effects of any birth control you may be taking. (Not sure if you are on any or not) such as the depo shot. When the time comes for your next injection, your body typically bleeds for much longer than usual. But I digress, it never hurts to also go to your doctor, or local planned parenthood for proper diagnosis. If you are not on any birth control, and this bleeding is as it is, it may mean something more serious. I always say, better safe than sorry.
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It is too expensive but I am a mess without it. Emotionally, I have been a wreck for the last month... which is the longest I have been off of it in 11 years. I have no health insurance & no way of getting any for a long time from now. I enrolled in a program that takes so long to get approved for a decent price we can afford. Should I stick it out & make sure my regular shipments to my doctor arrive so I can stay on them consistently or you think it is best to take any samples my Doctor has , even if I run out again before my regular supply is shipped to him?
Thanks :)
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If you need your medication to continue being stable, I would suggest taking even the samples. Your doctor will have no problem in helping you with it, especially if it has helped you improve. Also, try asking if their is a generic form of this medication, as generics are much cheaper, and at many wal-marts only charge 4 dollars for generic medications. Though sometimes they charge a little extra for the generics, but this rarely ever costs too much more. But take in the samples, and continue with your dosage. But I do know what you are going through, as I too have gone through it. Also, if their are no generics for that specific medication, try to find one that's just like it, I use to be on serequel, but due to it's price, I was unable to afford it and there were no generics. I spoke with my doctor, and was put on a different medication that works better than my previous medication, and it also has a generic that I am completely capable of affording. So speak with your doctor and seek out other medication options. With today's economy, it's much more difficult for those who truly need help to fully get it.
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Okay well there is this guy in one of my classes. and there is this other really weird creepy dude that follows me wherever i sit at lunch and its really creepy but onoe of my teacher today pukked the creepy kid and me out of class so she couold tell him to stop and the other guy comes out of the room and was like " Dude you need to stop following her, I mean i know she is really pretty but still" Soo i just want to know... Was that his way of flirting with me? Oh and btw he has always been nice to me since he got back from alternative school. (link)
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It could be he was being polite and standing up for you, and possibly hinting that he may have a fancy for you. The only way to really know if he likes you is to ask him. Or if you're really shy, have one of your friends ask him for you, though sometimes that could turn out bad depending on what type of friends you have. If anything if I were in your shoes, and if you are interested in him, I would just ask this guy straight up. You don't get to live the same life twice, and it's also very short, you don't want to live your life hiding and avoiding. Learn to jump in head first. Or you could do what a lot of girls do in school now a days, leave a note WITH your name on it (assuming he knows your name) in his locker if you are really to nervous to ask him face to face. But in my opinion, face to face works much better than elsewhere. Many guys prefer a straight forward girl.
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what if you do not cum during sex?
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It would have helped more if you also specified whether you were male for female. But since you did not, I will give you information for both sexes.
For Male -
This is a problem with guys who masturbate a lot and their body becomes used to certain types of stimulation and only reacts to this type of stimulation.
The cure? Easy - quit masturbating period. It will do two things - first you will be re-training your body to react to different stimulation, and second since you won't be releasing semen from masturbation it will build up to a point where you will be begging to ejaculate once you do have sex. But the only way you are going to have success here is if you want to fix the problem - i.e. give up masturbation.
It may also be a mental problem. Sometimes stress as well as other factors may make it difficult to reach climax. For men, mental and physical must work together to reach an orgasm. I would suggest thinking about what may be bothering you and take care of it.
For Female -
If you are female, and are having difficulty in reaching climax, it could be the same as with the male one. If you masturbate too often, it does make it more difficult to reach climax during intercourse. You could stop masturbating and that would of course retrain your body for new form of stimulation. Also, on average it takes a woman 12 minutes to reach climax. If your male partner doesn't last this long, I would suggest letting him know that you would also like to get off. Foreplay is also a great way as well for a woman to reach climax during. Also, there is clitoral stimulation during intercourse. If you are uncomfortable doing it to yourself, ask your partner. This can also speed up the female climax process. Experiment with different positions, and techniques with your partner.
For both male and female -
There are other factors for the inability to reach climax, such as medications. If you have started a new medication, I would look into it, as this can also cause sex drive / climax changes.
Hope this information was of some help.
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ok so i want to get in shape i want my abbs back i use to be very fit and i just cant get motivated enough to get back in shape does any one have any advice for me. (link)
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I'm afraid there is no advice anyone can give you to give you the motivation you need other than, Do it. Forget how you feel, if you really want your previous body back, you just have to do it. No one can give you true motivation except yourself. You have to really want it. Do you really want it? Then do it. Whatever made you lose your shape, drop it and get back to your old routine. It's hard at first, but with enough perseverance and a strong will, you can do anything you truly want to and set your mind to.
But if you feel you HAVE to have advice, then here's my advice,
DO IT. Get off your butt, and do it, or become fat and lazy.
I know it sounds mean, but I doubt being nice will help give people the push they need. Get off your butt, and get working out. If you don't, you'll only hate yourself later on. DO IT! Believe you can!
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I'm 19 f; I'm 5 foot and I weigh 220 pounds.
This is the biggest I've ever been. I've always been chubby, but my stomach isn't that bad. It's mostly my face, and my thighs. I'd like to make my stomach more firm so it isn't flabby but anyways.
I'm joining a gym and I'd like to know what excerises are the best? They have a pool and yoga and stuff; so any tips?
Also, anyone know of any successful diets that actually show results? And have a list of foods that I can eat, and times that I should eat?
I'm also taking a pill called Phentomine; my doctor prescribed it to me; when I was last one it, it curved my appietite and helped me lose 40 lbs; once I stopped, I gained it back plus 20 more lbs.
So..?
Any tips, or stories? (link)
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I'm 5'4" and I use to weigh 320 pounds. I'm now a comfortable 150. I wasn't happy with myself. Granted most people aren't. The way I lost the weight was I REALLY cut back on fatty foods (fast food, junk foods) and really started to eat healthy, as well as doing cardiovascular workouts. Cardio helps by quickly burning your body fat. But you also HAVE to eat healthy as well as enough to ensure that you always have the energy you will need. In ways of firming my belly, I found that laying flat on your back, arms at your sides, palms on the floor, lift your legs to a 90 degree angle, spread them as wide as you are capable, close your legs, lower them to about 6 inches from the floor, and hold for 3-5 seconds, and repeat. Doing this helps to firm your belly as well as the leg spreading helps thin your legs. As for cardio, go for long fast paced walks, or jogging. This, as I have stated previously, burns body fat. The leg lifts/spreads help with toning your tummy as well as your inner thighs. (I had a problem with my inner thighs due to my being over-weight. This helped thin them out. As for a list of foods, I do not have a list of foods, but do remember, to eat healthy, if you feel the need for something sweet, replace your junky snacks with a fruit of your choice. For meals, eat regularly. Breakfast, Lunch, AND Dinner. Eating properly will help ensure that you lose the weight you wish to lose, as well as giving you the proper nutrients you need. Exercising without eating properly can cause major weight gain problems in your future. In order to maintain the weight you wish to achieve, you HAVE to keep exercising, you can't just exercise, get to the weight you want to be at, and stop exercising, because it'll happen all over again. (The weight gain). I know my description/advice isn't very clean, and kind of jumping back and forth, but as a previous over weight female, I do know what I'm talking about. I would suggest, doing Cardio, those leg lifts, and since you'll be joining a gym, you'll have more access to equipment to help firm/tone other parts of your body. Just remember, DO NOT STOP once you've reached your ideal weight, you HAVE TO KEEP GOING, even after reaching your ideal weight, or you'll end up gaining it back. Hope my everywhere advice helps ya. Good luck and keep at it!
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What Singes Tells Me I Am Going To Get My Period Soon? (link)
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Menstruation (a period) is a major stage of puberty in girls; it's one of the many physical signs that a girl is turning into a woman.
And like a lot of the other changes associated with puberty, menstruation can be confusing. Some girls can't wait to start their periods, whereas others may feel afraid or anxious. Many girls (and guys!) don't have a complete understanding of a woman's reproductive system or what actually happens during the menstrual cycle, making the process seem even more mysterious. When girls begin to go through puberty (usually starting between the ages of 8 and 13), their bodies and minds change in many ways. The hormones in their bodies stimulate new physical development, such as growth and breast development. About 2 to 2½ years after a girl's breasts begin to develop, she usually gets her first menstrual period.
About 6 months or so before getting her first period, a girl might notice an increased amount of clear vaginal discharge. This discharge is common. There's no need for a girl to worry about discharge unless it has a strong odor or causes itchiness. The start of periods is known as menarche. Menarche doesn't happen until all the parts of a girl's reproductive system have matured and are working together.
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Side effects of propindol tablets
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Side Effects
The most common effect of propranolol is fatigue. Other mild central nervous system effects include headache, dizziness and insomnia. Patients experiencing more serious symptoms such as fever, confusion, vivid dreams, fainting or hallucinations should promptly notify their physician.
Cardiac effects are common and include a lower than desired heart rate, lower than desired blood pressure, heart failure, heart block, abnormal heart beat and chest pain. Patients with these symptoms should also notify their physician.
Shortness of breath may occur, as there are also β-receptors in the lung. Patients with chronic respiratory illness, such as asthma, emphysema or COPD should not use propranolol as it may worsen respiratory function or counteract certain respiratory medications. Any patients experiencing breathing difficulty or sore throat during propranolol use should contact their doctor.
Rare but serious skin effects, such as rash, skin peeling or blistering may occur and require immediate medical attention.
Less serious side effects include sexual dysfunction, nausea, vomiting, constipation and stomach cramps.
As with any medication, allergic response is possible. Difficulty breathing or swallowing, rash, itching or swelling could be signs of allergic reaction and require prompt medical attention.
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so my parents are VERY old school... and won't allow me to be put on birth control at my age.. i'm 16.. and have a boyfriend of 1 year.:)) and i was thinking of going to Planned parenthood and getting BC but.. does it cost to get it.? and what is the procedure? (link)
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In general, parental permission is not needed for prescription methods of birth control like the pill. However, there may be certain locations where, for one reason or another, a health care provider will require parental permission. Check with your provider about her or his policy. Though there is typically NO age requirement, and no need for adult consent at Planned Parenthood. I would still call the local Planned Parenthood nearest you and speak with someone there, addressing your questions and possible concerns.
Birth control pills may be purchased with a prescription at a drugstore or clinic. They cost about $15–$50 a month. If you are low on income, ask if they have generic birth control pills, and have that filled at the Wal-Mart pharmacy, as generics there can range from 4-9 dollars.
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Okay so i have been seeing this guy since New Years. today is the 24th and he asked me to be his girlfriend today. I like him so much. I have never been so connected with someone in my entire life but there is one problem. I have always lied about my age everyone except for my closest friends think im a year older then my real age. i am 19 and i told him i was 20... he is 23 so we dont have a very large age difference. I know i need to tell him the truth but i don't know how. this lie has been eating me alive and i want to confess to him and my roommates. how should i go about it ???
thanks so much for taking time to read and thank you even more if you decide you give me advice. (link)
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Honesty is ALWAYS important, especially in relationships. I would suggest telling him straight up, and as soon as possible, because regardless of whether you tell him or not, he will more than likely find out. Especially when you hit "21" and cannot drink at a bar or other night club. Prolonging a lie will only cause complications later on. I would suggest telling everyone that you lied and are very sorry for doing so. If they really did care, they will forgive you and get over it quickly. Though it will still come as a shock to them.
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I liked your advice on my other question, so... the thing is, when i try to explain something, she either: 1, dosen't listen, 2, freaks out at me, or 3, cutes me off. I mean, I've tried to tell her stuff, but she'll give me the cold shoulder or innore it, or give a sarcastic reply. Also, when she's super bossy, any tips? She'll take the lead with no question and, again, tell you what to do... really, do NOT know what the blazes to do with this girl. thanks! (link)
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I'm sorry to say, but if she refuses to listen to how she makes you feel, she is not a good friend, and in my opinion, not worth keeping, unless she can, with you, reach a compromise/middle ground where the both of you can be happy. But considering she refuses to even listen, or gets belligerent, then I would say it is time to move on. It is always sad and sometimes hard, but you also have to realize that a friend is someone who is caring and understanding and is also capable of being as helpful with you as you are with them.
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