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There is a man that I am not fully acquainted with, but attends the same church as I do. I have noticed that he would begin the "deer in headlight" look in the beginning (last year) and now, he appears to "pretend" he is not looking, but I can discern he is looking (I just can never catch him). While in service, if a male usher is near me (sitting by me or around me) he will give a gaze of seemingly confusion or disapproval. For example, one sunday, this guy that I have no clue who he is, moved to sit next to me. It was then that "the guy of interest" completely maneuvered his body away from us, as though he was angry. Now, I hate asking what would appear obvious/oblivious questions, but is the man crazy?
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I don't believe he is crazy (though you never know), but it seems more of though that he is attracted to you, but seemingly too shy to admit so. Though, if you are not attracted to him, it may be best to let things go as they have. Should he finally get the nerve to pursue you, and he lets you know, do let him know how you feel. Whether you are or are not interested in him. Many males require blunt and straight forward replies to ensure they don't continue or attempt to do anything drastic. Or if his staring makes you uncomfortable, you can just straight up let him know that it does. The feeling that someone is invading your personal space, even without ill will, is still disturbing. Though, if you are too nervous or afraid to let him know your discomforts, perhaps ask a friend to confront this person, on your behalf, and have him/her let this man know that he makes you uncomfortable with his actions.
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