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should i wait for him more or just let go and move on?
hello:) i saw your page and i like your responses to other people so i hope you can help me make a decision. I am 17 female.i had a bf for almost 3 years my first bf i might say.We are not together we broke up 5 months. he found a gf not even after a month we broke up.iv try everything to let go and move on but my heart still calls him. we talk and hag out we know each other like no other,i let him know i still love him.he told me he misses me and still loves me but hes still has a gf!..he says he wants to stay away cuz hes afraid he might hurt me he rather keep me as his best friend..he is just to scare and coward to do anything about it should i give him more time or just leave things how it is?
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It is often very difficult to let go of someone, especially since you know them and are so use to them. I know, I've been there. But sometimes it can always be for the best. It takes time to feel better, for some people it may take a day for others, it will take longer. He does have a girlfriend, and honestly, I would say let go, and try to move on. It will be difficult, but given some time, you can do it. You also do not want him cheating on her with you, because that could later on cause trust issues, should you two get back together. There is nothing wrong with still loving him, even if you end up with someone else. It's normal. Try to see him as a friend, I understand it can be hard and hurtful, but at least you are still friends, and in my opinion, that is good. Also, telling him you love him often, it can be very difficult, but try to stop, so he doesn't end up thinking it best that you two no longer can be friends. Value the relationship you have now, instead of trying to push it further while he is with another. Besides, you may find someone you enjoy being with more than you did with him. I hope I was of some assistance.
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