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i lied to my BOYFRIEND about my age... yikess
Okay so i have been seeing this guy since New Years. today is the 24th and he asked me to be his girlfriend today. I like him so much. I have never been so connected with someone in my entire life but there is one problem. I have always lied about my age everyone except for my closest friends think im a year older then my real age. i am 19 and i told him i was 20... he is 23 so we dont have a very large age difference. I know i need to tell him the truth but i don't know how. this lie has been eating me alive and i want to confess to him and my roommates. how should i go about it ???
thanks so much for taking time to read and thank you even more if you decide you give me advice.
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Well now that you are dating you really need to tell him ASAP. If you just keep it eventually he is going to find out and gonna wonder why you've been lying this whole time. You should still be safe since its early in the relationship but definitely tell him ASAP or things just aren't going to work out. Honesty is important.
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Honesty is ALWAYS important, especially in relationships. I would suggest telling him straight up, and as soon as possible, because regardless of whether you tell him or not, he will more than likely find out. Especially when you hit "21" and cannot drink at a bar or other night club. Prolonging a lie will only cause complications later on. I would suggest telling everyone that you lied and are very sorry for doing so. If they really did care, they will forgive you and get over it quickly. Though it will still come as a shock to them.
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