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Image and video hosting by TinyPic" align=left hspace=10> hey my name is karen and i live in miami florida... im 17 and go to miami killian senior high.. anything you need help with ask me!! im great at answering questions about friends, cleaning, and relationships.

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I am 14 and i just started going out with this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago.. he lives like 30 mins away and hes a total jock so we don't really get to hang out much... so when I have him over I want him to enjoy it with me do u think 14 is to young to be giving head? some of my friend think it is but I don't..

i think it is. you guys hav ben onlii going out for 2 1/2 weeks mayb if u wait n u guyz r together for a long tyme n ur a little older then would b a good tyme but asking friends is the best way their almost alwayz riyt. lol. just make sure to ask more than one.

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Do you know of any sites like these...

faceparty.com
face-pic.com
buddypic.com

Any others?

Thanks! :-)

I RATE!

places 2 keep ur pictures? well if so: picturetrail.com & fotki.com n also u can search it in ur homepage seach bar n u miyt find more! hope i helpd.

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how do u change ur password>?

edit settings on the left of the page. make sure to type it in both places to change it. n make sure to press submit! lol.

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OK. So I had a dentist appointment this morning and my mom, dad, and brother were all working. So, my dad called my neighbor 'Don' to ask if he could take me to the dentist. He said it was fine and he was happy to do the favor. I could have rode my brothers bike there if I absolutely HAD to...but I wasn't thrilled when my mom suggested the idea. My mom just called and said she was embaressed when she found out that 'Don' had driven me there and back. I don't like it when people are mad at me and now I feel guilty and my happy mood just went to bad. Am I being selfish or is my mom over reacting?

ur dad called ur neighbor not u so i think that if ur momz gunna tell any1 that she wuz embarassed itz ur dad. u really had nothing to do with it unless u refused to ride ur bike there. but from the information u gave me it doesnt seem like it should affect ur goood mood. hope i helpd.

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okay well my frend was sleepin ova one nite last week and we kinda snuck out at like 1am to go see my frend lets call him adam ok well we walked to adams house nd its like 1 nd he came to his window nd was like go to the back yard so we met him in the back yard and he came out nd i guess we were talkin too loud cuz his bro woke up nd flipped out nd yelled for his parents nd everythin so me nd my frend ran like hell to get away from there wit out them noticing so we ran nd idk wut my frend said but i think wen she was yellin for me tryin to find me in the dark she mita sed my name, but we got home nd now its been a week and i just found out that adam got sent to christian camp because of it nd his bro knos it was me nd told my other frends bro who was askin my other frend y i was over there that late and my other frend thinks he couldve told her parents who will tell my parents sooo idk wut to do.. should i just like wait for my parents to find out or should i tell them myself oh ya nd by the way before we snuck out my mom specifically told us not to leave the house nd go walkin round the neighborhood or to adams house... so yea im kinda screwed help out!!! and soon please im kinda freakin out!!!

i think u should tell her b nice about act like an angel. tell her in a way where u dont think she can get that mad. she sounds like she'll get mad anyway but if she hears it from sum1 else shez prolly gunna b more mad.

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im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him?

i dk i think that if u dont lyk him at all then dump him but in the nicest waii possible. he sounds like hez gunna b sensetive to that. if anything happebz after that like he says hes gunna kill himself then tell sum1 n mayb they can get him sum help if he really thinks hez gunna kill himself.

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I don't really do that well on tests and I try an study an hour the night before tests. What are some things to help me score higher on tests?

um... i think studying a week or 2 b4 the test after school for an hour. or if itz like 3 days b4 when they tell u then do it 3 daiiz b4 the test after school. lol. hope i helpd.

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i cut myself..badly..the underside of my left arm is alomst completley scard and my left upper thigh is wicked bad..my mom knows i did* it but she thinks i stopped i promised my ex-best friend i would stop but shes dumb ne way..my boyfriend hates it but he said he cant stop me..ive already been to therapy..they THOUGHT it helped..yea rite..but i found a new friend..lets call her Babee C..well she cuts..worse then me..she carves like long poems into her..all my friends arent talking to me because of it besides her..and the truth is i miss them all..i used to be wicked happy untill my dad got lung cancer..i loved him..and i was his baby..i really want to stop but everytime i see blood ne where..it makes me want to..i think i should just keep my head up and rmember my dad how he was before..but its gonna be hard..if ne one has any ideas of what else i can do to stop please help me..i cant keep livin this way..thanx xX mandie Xx

ive seen where ppl instead of cutting themself they use rubberbandz on their rist n when ever they feeling like cutting they pull on the rubberbands. i think itz like suppose to be another way of reflecting pain its jus not as bad as cutting. wen u c blood u wunna cut... well instead just pull on the rubberband. i hope i helpd n i hope everything goes well for u. if u need any more help then u can email me just go to my advice column it has my email address there.

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ok..i've just started talking to this guy on the internet and my friends have told me good (: things about him and im really starting to like him..but he has a grl friend and shes younger than me..how do i give him hints that i like him but i still want him to know i respect that he has a grl friend?

tell him exactly that... say that u like him and u still respect the fact that he has a girlfriend. u dont need to give him hints if u want him 2 kno at all then jus tell him thats the fastest waii... that way u wont b worrying about it so much.

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I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend..everytime he wants to i back away. I knows it getting on his nerves..HELP

u might wunna tell him ur not ready for that witch iz gunna b hard... so... i dk if u really care about him n u wunna do it try hard to go through with it.

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i think that im kind of annoying to my friends. i always want to do something different, and sometimes i bug them too much about something. its the way i am, and sometimes its hard 4 me to be different. i have alot of friends, because my nature is 2 be nice, but if i know some1 for a long time i tend to get like this. what should i do?

i think that if ur friendz r ur friendz that i kno itz gunna b hard for u to do this but try not to bug them 2 much about sumthing keep thinking in ur head that u dont wunna bug em. n mayb spending tyme apart from ur friendz uve known for a long tyme would do good too. jus make sure to have a good last conversation with them b4 u spend the like week n a half apart. i kno u didnt say that u hung out with them that much... but im trying to get u ideaz that MIYT help. sumtymez thingz like that help alot.

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ok so i liked this guy but i never really met him but i heard through some people that he liked me back...that was last year and now i dont want to like him n e more and i dont but i cant stop thinking about him...what is causing this? and how can i make it stop?

i think wutz causing u thinking about him all the tyme iz u like him. u might not want to but u do. the way to get ride of it is trying to do stuff unrelated to that guy n get really into it.

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my bestest friend iz like OBSESSED wid my step-bro n she talks about him ALL the time wat should i do???????


~ AnNoYeD ~

u should tell her that shez annoying u. if shez really ur best friend she'll understand. just ask her to tone it down a little.

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Ok my bestest friend iz havin boy trouble n i try n talk to her n tell her i kno how it feels cuz i have been through the same things but she iz alwayz like u dont kno how i feel!!! Dont u think if i've been through worse crap then she has then i do kno how she feels?????


confuzed

i think u probally do kno wut shez been through n i think that shez gunna have to go through this herself... although it might seem dumb 2 u that she doesnt want any help, she probally doesnt.

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last summer(july) i met this kid,Jason that lived in maine(i liv in massachusetts).He said if i took the time to know him i would really like him so i took the time (we only were together for like 2 days cuz it was a festival in NH)he asked for my and i gave it to him as soon as i got home in mass the next day he called me but my frend was over n i payed more attention to her then i did jason so he said hes let me go so the next week he called agian but once agian i didnt pay attention to him so he said hed let me go agian...September N October he didnt call then he called agian in November December n January but i was always like not listening to him cuz i wasnt really interested so then he stopped callin wen he did call everytime i mentioned a guys name he would be like whos that?hed always ask me if i would be at that festival this yr that we met at last year but i never gave him an answer.also wen i first met him he was rally nice but wen i wasnt really talin to him on the fone he would brag bout al the money he had n the cars n stuff stupid ?s but do you think he jus bragged cuz he wanted me to talk to him?n ya think he actaully liked me?o and im goin to that festival next week n if i run into him wtf do i say?

i think u should ask him likes wutz been going on n if he says nothing say jokingly that u brag to much. thats probally hes nervous n thats all he could say. lol. hope i helpd. sry no1z reallii helping u yet but they will itz a long n hard question.

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Well Friday is my boyfriends birthday. We have the house to ourselves for the day...any suggestions on anything romantic we could do ?

jus hang around the house n watch a dvd one that has a couple in it that u think can relate to u guyz. lol. hope u guyz have fun.

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I need to get rid of a few pimples over night. Do u know something fast that I can use that wont cost much? HELP YA'LL!!

itz not acne if its jus a few pimples... i don think there is a fast waii except u shouldnt touch em n let em b for as long as it takes for them to go away.

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I know it was wrong but i had sex wit my bf...the problem is i did it wit out a condom...he did not cum inside me but im really scared that im preg...its only been like 2-3 weeks since i did that..im so scared and idk what to do..i cant tell ne one well i can just not my family..im waiting for my period to start..it will start the end of this month..someone please help or tell me about preg like the signs and symtoms i really need help on it cuz its scaring me..

http://www.thebabycorner.com/pregnancy/signs.html itll probally help itz a website listing the signs of pregnancy.

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I MAJORLY NEED HELP! Ok heres the story: Some of my friends (4) are going to Crazy Donkey (a dance club) 2nite and they invited me to go!! The one problem is I don't know how to ask my mom if i could go b/c it would be my first time going to a club. When I asked her previous times she was unsure and said she would think about it but those times I never made a plan to go but now I did. So what should I say to her? I never did anything to make my parents not trust me or anything like that i mean jeez im a high honor student lol I just don't know how to approach her with this info... She gets home from work later 2nite but I also wanna know is it okay to call her at work?

u shouldnt call her @ work thats whenz shes busy n has other stuff to do she might say no right away at work. jus wen she comes home tell her that ur a high honor student n that uve never done anything for them not to trust u n u wont @ the dance club n i guess c wut happenz 4rm there. hope i helpd!

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Ok well in the past year things have gotten really really bad for me! Me and my parents are constantly fighting ans when ever were suppose to have "quality" time we ALWAYS get into an argument!So ive been starting to cut myself! everytime i start to cry i bring myself to cut my arms up! how can i stop doing this to my self?

ive seen it on tv instead of cutting urself u get rubberbands on ur rist n anytyme u feel u have to hurt ur self u jus pull on the rubberbands it hurts u, but not like cutting does. im pretty sure after that it ends ^ where u dont even need the rubberbands.

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