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ok well about a week ago ii got braces and on my bottom lip inside i have like this sore from them and the dentist sed i would for a few days but it hurts REALLY bad wen my braces hit it or i smile and i dont know what to do help!!!!

Ask your dentist for some wax, then put it over the part that's irritating your lip.

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I am always biting my nails all the time. I have tried fake nails. But I cant have them on because I play so many sports. Is there a way I can stop? I do it even when I dont realize I am doing it. I also know its not healthy at all. Any tips will be helpful... thank you!

Get that nail polish that tastes really bad. Or you could just put nail polish remover on them in the morning, but I doubt that's too great for your nails. Orrr go + get a cute manicure so you won't want to bite them because you'll ruin it.

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This is gross. I had a baby in January, and I haven't nursed her since March or April, but I'm still lactating. Is there anything to do to make it stop, or at least slow down?

I don't think there's anything you can do. Call your doctor + see if there's any way to make it stop.

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okay ive had discharge for a while now and i styll havin gotn mah period where the hell is it? ... im turn 14 in april! what the fuckin hell! help me out people
thanx bye
-wtf-

It could be a while longer. Don't be too anxious for it to come, it's not the funnest thing ever =)

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I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help!

It's probably just not in right. Look at the directions on the package, + keep trying until you can get it in the right place.

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what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?

Don't do it, and tell the person that you're not ready yet, and you don't appreciate them trying to get you to do something you're not ready for.

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okay im not fator anything..im only 105 BUT like my stomach is so weird looking like its thin and tight then like rigt under my belly button theres this huge buldge..i hate it..how do i get rid of this? cuz like it looks so nasty its like all skinny then BAM this buldge/roll thing under my belly button..HELP!

Just try doing more crunches // ab workouts.

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i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating.

See a doctor, none of us can diagnose you, and it sounds like it could be serious, so just to be safe, make an appointment with your doc asap.

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Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!

Stick to your morals, and remind him that you're NOT going to have sex until you're married. If he can't respect that, dump his ass.

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How much will I bleed the first time I have sex.. when my cherry gets popped?

Some girls bleed a lot, some just a bit, and some don't bleed at all. It just depends, I guess.

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ok i already asked this qquestion once but im going to do it again and give more information.. i have a small bump on the inside of my pubic area & its itchy & sometimes irritated & sore.. ive never had with my boyfriend & he has no signs of STD's ..i have shaved down there but its been a while and sometimes i don't wear underware so there is a good chance it may be just an irritated sweat bump or something.. still i am scared, im going to the doctor next week just to make sure, does anyone have any suggestions to what might be causing this?

It's probably just an ingrown hair that got even MORE irritated from not wearing underwear.

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if someone asked u if u evr had an orgasm , and u hav . wuld it b weird to say yes? wuld they like make fun of u or sumthing.

Nah, just be honest =) I doubt anyone'd make fun of you.

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When me and my boyfriend first got together he asked me how long i wanted to be a virgin and i said until i was atleast 16.. well we have been together so long and i am ready to go that far with him but we made a promise to wait until i was 16.. long story.. I confronted him and he said i wanna see if we can keep our promise.. i really want to loose my virginity to him.. what should I do?

Just wait until you're 16. It'll be worth the wait, and then you'll be sure you're ready AND have kept your promise.

You're lucky to have a guy like that =)

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I have been in a relationship for a long time. I recently discovered that my girlfriend wants to bring another woman into our sex life...what should i do??? I realy care about my girlfriend i wonder if it would ruin what we have???

Hmm .. do what you want to do, I guess. You can talk to her about your concerns, + maybe she'll be able to reassure you that things'll stay the same between the two of you. I guess just do what *YOU* want.

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Hey, i hope someone can help me out. I'm gonna try and make this as short as i can. I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend just recently became sexually active the 17th of July. We had sex about 3 times and used protection all 3 times. The condom did not break and i'm pretty sure about that because we checked. My last period was on the 6th for like 3 days and i normally have a full 7 day period. It was a little weird. I had sex "after" my period and it was my first time. Anyway, today is the 15th and i still haven't started my period. I have had irregular periods before but i'm just really worried. I have taken two pregnancy test in the past two weeks and they both have came out negative. They weren't cheap tests either.. (E.P.T Certaincy) I've been really.. stressed out about this situation. I've lost sleep and i think about it day in and day out. The only time i never really think about it is at work when i'm busy. Could i be just stressin my self out and causing my period to be late? I'm really confused.. some people say that when you first have sex it can cause your period to be 2 or 3 weeks late. Is that true? I would like to hear from someone about this please. Thank you.

You're probably just stressed out. Stress can screw with your period. You're probably fine!

If you're still stressing about it, you can talk to a doctor, and they'll be able to reassure you, but I'm pretty positive you're not pregnant =)

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what are usually the first signs of pregnancy??

* missed period
* tender breasts
* nausea
* fatigue
* headaches
* frequent urniation
* spotting
* lightheadedness
* heartburn
* constipation

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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(

Please don't. He just wants a piece of ass. Sorry, but it's the truth. All he wants is sex, and he'll be over you as soon as he gets what he wants.

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when a girl orgasms....does that mean she cums also?

Yeeeah, it's different than when a guy cums, though.

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ok i like this older guy. he is a senior and im a freshman lol. but anyway, he flirts w/ me like all the time and always talks to me like at school and whenever we see each other. but it just seems like he doesnt like me....i dont know its weird, can yoo help meh

Well, if you haven't already, start flirting back ;o). Randomly drop hints that you like him, but don't be obvious.

Why do you think he doesn't like you? Is there a specific reason, or is it just a feeling you have?

Talk to him some more, have your friends do some research, etc.

If all else fails, you can do the [[ sometimes tough, i know, but usually the best ]] thing and just tell him how you feel. Even if he doesn't feel the same way [[ hopefully he will! ]] it'll get things cleared up.



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OK! I need your help like REALLY BAD! I have 2 problems! Ok there this guy lets call him, Andy, Well you see one day I was in a really sucky mood and I like told him all my problems over the internetbut i dont really know him. and today i seen him for the first time and when he finally found out who i was he just kept staring at me! What do you think this means?? BUT ANDY HAS a G/F!
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Ok now theres this guy{JOE}i like, i've liked him since beginning of my 8th grade year, now its beginning of 9th grade year, we're going to the same skewl and everything! Ok Andy knows I like Joe, so i got andy to tell joe that i liked him but of course joe doesnt know me! but i really like him alot and he's hottttt! but anyways, anytime we see each other we stare at one another. and today i almost fell cuz i wasnt paying attention where i was going cuz i was looking at him! plz tell me what should i do about joe!

**Desperate**

O1 *//* I think it means one of three things:
1: He likes you
2: He thinks you're hot.
3: He's trying to figure you out [[ but um, well, yeah, guys don't do that so much ]]
Or, well, maybe he just likes to look at you // has a staring problem.


O2 *//* Well, start talking to him when you see him. Even if it's just a quick "Hey, how's it going?" Or something like that, at least you'll have broken the ice. If you have his IM s/n, you can start talking to him on there, because it'll get you acquainted without the possibility of it being really ackward or anything. Just try to get to know him // get closer to him, and then when you think it'll be alright to say something, just tell him how you feel + hopefully things will work out in your favor =).

* GOOD LUCK! =) *

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