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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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hey i was reading your column and you seem really nice so i decided to ask a question...

ok so i have liked this guy for awhile and im not sure if he likes me and im not really sure how to tell either. someone asked him is he liked me and hes like "im not gonna tell you" and he will not tell anyone. but he has nickanmes for me and everytime i am laughing and hanging out with my friends he comes up and joins the conversation. he also like moved his seat in class and now he sits behind me and the teacher was fine with it so thats where he sits now. also sometimes out of the corner of my eye i can see him looking at me...lol i know im a loser...but its true...and i really like him i just dont know what to do since he wont tell anyone if he likes me or not and i for sure dont have the guts to ask him out.

flirt openly with him. he should get the point! and slip an anonymous v-day card into his locker or something. in class. when you catch him looking at you give him a really big smile! and when he comes and joins the conversation talk to him! get one of your friends to tel him you like him... hope i helped!

~ANGE

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im 13f n ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost three weeks now and we still havent kissed. he kisses me on the cheek all the time but thats it. is this going too slow?

no. dont worry about what other people say, as long as you both are comfortable with the pace you are going then there is nothing to worry about.

~ANGE

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I hate my life and I have a lot of problems. My dad left me when I was 3 years old and he lives in Tenneessee with his girlfriend and my half brother. I only get to see them once a year on Christmas. My half sister lives about 45 mins away from me and I only get to see her about every other weekend and on some holidays. My mom lives about 30 mins away from where I live with her boyfriend. They are getting on my nerves because she wants me to move in with them and I don't want to be away from my friends or switch schools again. I live with my grandparents. I have gone through a lot these past 2 or 3 years. I moved away from all my friends in the 3rd grade (Im in 7th grade now), but my best friend changed to the same school as me. Then She moved About 2 and 1/2 hours away in the 4th grade and I didn't even know untill about 2 or 3 days after she left and I hardly ever get to see her. Also school is really stressing me out. A few days ago I cut myself and im thinking about doing it angain. I snap rubberbands on my rist and I get bruses and scars from it. I am thinking about going goth but im probably not. I just have a really bad life. I was wondering if anyone could give my any advice on how I can try to make it better. It's ok if you can't i know it's probably hard to give advice like this. Please and thanks.

~*~Britt~*~

look. dont hurt yourself. what does that do? does it make your life better? NO! so stop. you may have some bad things in your life but whenever you get depressed think of your grandparents! they obviously love you, to have taken you in. and if your mum keeps pushing you to move in with her just tell her straight that you are happy where you are. and about your best friend... 3 years ago my best friend left... really far away as in a 6 hour flight... and i didn't know. a week later she still hadn't come to school and i was worried (her mum had just died) i tried calling her but no luck. she called me and told me her dad was an ass and she is living with her godparents. 2 weeks ago she moved back, she lives with me now and we are the bestest of friends. so dont worry. if you are really that close then you will keep in contact and be together one day. if not then there ARE plenty of people out there. you will always have people in your life you just need to try to be their friends. good luck. keep me updated and if you need to talk e-mail me at angiemills88@hotmail.com

~ANGE

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ok so i`m a freshman and the guy i like is a sophmore. he knows i like him and a little while ago i thought he liked me back. about a week ago i found out that he has a date to the --girls ask guys-- dance, and the other night on the phone, i was like so who are you going to the dance with? and he said, this girl from piner and he kind of likes her and he asked her out but she said she needs to get to know him better. he told me all of this and he NEW that i like him... i dont get it. and theres someone right infront of his face [me] that will like him more than any1 else ever will... i dont see y he doesnt just take it when he has the chance. should i give up on liking him? i`ve liked him for a while, but he hasn`t liked me. i dont know what to do. xOx

he was obviously saying that he likes someone else because he isn't into you. just be friends with him... you may be infront of his face and you may like him more than any1 else ever will but if he hasn't got feelings for you then it wouldn't work anyway.

~ANGE

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Well I am 14 years old and in 9th grade of high school. I have this really cool girlfriend who goes to a different school and we have been going out for 4 months. I also have this girl who's my best friend who I've started to like too. I can also hint that she likes me and I've been thinking about possibly asking her out. I mean, I love my girlfriend but i don't know what i should do. I know it isn't fair to like someone else while you're going out with someone so I wanted to know what you guys thought.

Thanks,

Confused

you cant keep secrets from your girl. tell her that you are sorry but you've been having feelings for another girl. if you really like her as much as you say then you wouldn't be thinking of getting with your friend. the best thing is to tell your g/f because there is nothing worse than a cheater.

~ANGE

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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall!

it's not illegal to date but DONT sleep with him. now THATS illegal. really illegal. he can even go to jail!

~ANGE

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ok i have a girlfriend and i think she's cheating on me with my best friend but she said she has no idea what i'm talking about!!!! and her best friend said she's dumping me on valentines day,and he best friend she is really cute.but i'm dumping my girlfriend.SHould i ask the really cute girl out and should i give her the valentines day present i rate high so help

her friend obviously cares about you if she told you that your g/f is cheating. so yeah, i say you should give the cute one the prezzie!

~ANGE

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okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.

-birthday girl

Oh shit. well you should tell her how selfish suicide is and remind her that she was only 9 when she decided that she would kill herself. let her know that she is loved, if not by anyone else then by you and STAY WITH HER. on her birthday have a slumber party or something. give her something in her life worth living for. good luck.

~ANGE

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Do boys like secret admirers???? my school is doing this this thing where u can give either chocolate or a flower to someone, and i dont know if i should do it.

my brother loves secret admirers. he says its exciting. he had a chick put a rose in his locker and he was estatic! so go for it!

~ANGE

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this is my first time to put a tampon in and i was just wondering if i can pee while having a tampon in. please help!

yeah you can. but make sure you hold the string out of the way... you dont want to get it wet!

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A dark bruise has appeared on my left breast. i didnt hit it or anything, it just appeared. it started off bluish and now the background is yellowish.Im extremely worried and dont know what to do.what could it be?

go see a doctor. you dont know what it could be so just be on the safe side, go to a doctor.

~ANGE

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how can i give up the foods i love like ice cream, dots, and soda. i've tried so hard but i cant, whats an easy way?

i found out that if you eat too much you get sick of it. i used to have chocolate every day. i cant eat it any more. but if you use this method you risk putting on weight. i had a fast metabolism so i didn't get fat - thank god - so yeah. just a suggestion.

~ANGE

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What do you do when you someone tells you the guy you like will never ike you should you give up?

Signed
Should I give up?

ask him out. if he says no then you know for true how he feels and then you can move on. but dont listen to other people because they may be jelous.

~ange

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So my cousin had me meet this guy via phone and we hit it off really well. He's funny and easy to talk to. I started to like him and Im pretty sure it was mutual. We planned to meet up and I was really excited until I learned a little more about him. He's a metal head. lol He's got the long hair and listens to that kind of crazy music. We dont have a lot in common and definately not the same type of friends. He's my complete opposite. So the question.. Which would be worse > To date him and be labeled as "desperate" because he's not exactly my type.. Or not date him and be called shallow because he looks different than what I normally go for?

looks dont matter. if you guys get along dont let some small differences get in your way. my b/f slept around and drank and did drugs and stuff.. i dont do any of those. if you love someone you will be willing to change enough to get along. he doesn't do any of that stuff anymore, but he still listens to crazy music. :) so go for it.

~ANGE

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i like this guy and he likes me but today was weird cause i got something on my shirt and he wanted me to take it off. and then he put his hand almost all the way up my shirt. what does this mean?! he did that so i pulled on his boxes and i think he liked it. this is definitely flirting i know it!

okay. that is totally flirting!!! basically it means he, well, he wants your body. lol. seriously. so yeah. just watch out.

~ANGE

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in the beginning of the movie without a paddle theres a song that goes "i wish that i knew what i know know... when i was younger" what is the name of it and who sings it????

i believe it's called ooh la la... by the either corrs or faces. i think it is the corrs though. hope i helped.

~ANGE

if u wanna ask mor ?s dont hesitate to ask me.

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i'm a runner, but lately i have been lazey and i don't want to come home from school and run... but i love it and i am really good... now that my coach is hurt he won't be running for 3 weeks so i have to find a way to motivate myself since he is like my only running friend that calls practices and stuff. How can i motivate myself more? thanks

prove yourself. if you just aim to prove that you are good you will be fine. imagine your coach coming back and seeing that you havn't practised. your motivation should be to prove yourself to your coach.

~ANGE

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when i go to dances and grind with boys i don't really know what to do. i feel awkward doing it. what is the girl supposed to do while grinding? please help me this is so embarassing! i rate good for anything!

just dance. keep dancing with who ever it is. but if you dont feel comfrtable then dont do it. good luck!

~ANGE

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what do girls look for in guys. It doesnt really help me because im a guy looking for what qulities like only girls answer please

a sense of humour. you gotta be caring and respectful. goodluck!

~ANGE

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I'm trying to find piano sheet music for a song by Straylight Run.

Any ideas? : )

Sorry, if you search on the net you should find it somewhere!

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