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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania

>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

>> Taken since 11.25.07

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advice

are there any songs that talk about a girl that can't live without a guy, like she loves him, but when she thinks about everything he's done, she hates him, but even though she hates him so much, she still can't stand being without him, and he has no idea &he thinks its just friends w/ benefits? like that kinda thing or something along the lines of that? if you could leave me the song name&artist, that'd be great! thanks in advance!

theres one song that describes this situation word for word.. but it's in spanish lol i dont know if you know spanish. ill give it to you anyway :) its called "Labios Compartidos" by Mana.. in this case the guy thinks this way lol.. hope i helped..

flirty :)

heres the youtube link to the vid http://youtube.com/watch?v=P6wlqqU2_Ms

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Oh kay.. lol.
well, im 14/female.

sooo, i lost my virginity to this guy back in march, he was 17 at the time. well, me and him before we had sex had hooked up numerous times, but after we had sex, he like just stoped talking to me.... ! it hurt ause i did give him my virginity and he was a freaking dick about it, but w.e i got over it.

then not so long ago i found out by my friend that he has done that to alot of virgins, hit it and quit it :/

anywaysss. i dont hold grudges, so when he said sorry about a month after we had sex i accepted it.

we talked from time to time very briefly. and then after i while we never talked! and just yesterday he wrote me a message out of no where.

what do you think he wants from me? (:
thanks for tha help.

ohhh, and we only had sex once but he is exstreamlyyy sexy, ahah. if he wants to do it again should i?

in my opinion.. he MAYBE feels bad.. i couldnt say though.. i think you should make him respect you.. dont give it up again because he's sexy... otherwise he'll keep getting what he wants at your emotions' cost. if you dont respect yourself others wont respect you.. and males especially. he might even think of you as a booty call.. good luck and hope i helped! (you're worth more than what he' making you seem as)

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is it true that a male can be 10.5 in????

it's possible.. but most likely not. average is 4.5 to about 6 or 7 so dont be surprised lol.

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my boyfriend has alot of girls that are friends and its makes me realllly jealous
and i know i shouldnt be jealous becuase hes my boyfriend and not theres.
but he calls this one girl baby and he said shes cute and he says he loves her
i told him how i felt about it
and we got into fight and he got mad because i was making a big deal about it and stuff
but he told me that he calls all his friends baby
and like i understand if you tell your bestfriend you love them. but like you dont call her baby.
and he said that he tells her she is cute to make her feel good about herself
so im like ok whatever.
they also both have stickam. and it makes me mad when i log onto mine and see them on webcam together. they dont do anything but talk. but its makes me soooo jealous.
i need help.

ps. i know he loves me because were amazing together and he always spills his heart out to me and stuff. but i just hate the fact about the other girls.

hey!
well... you've talked to him about it.. now it's time to give him a choice.. tell him to put himself in your shoes. how would he like it if you called your male friends baby? told them you love them? things you would tell him.. he needs to understand his friends are causing a conflict in the relationship. mind you, that you're not making a big deal about this, he shouldn't be callin them baby or anything he would be telling you.. if he doesnt change its time to say you know what youre not respecting my feelings.. it's either them or me.. good luck
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well see there is this guy that is like madley in love with me and then there is my boyfriend..... and i really love my boyfriend but how do i getrid or this other guy?????? can you help me????? thank you





AGE-14
GENDER-FEMALE

have you tried talking to this other guy? telling him how happy you are with your boyfriend? and that you don't want anything or anyone in the way? theres no way of STOPPING this other guy from loving you, but you CAN cut contact with him. ignore him... COMPLETELY if he doesn't get the message when you talk to him calmly and civil. good luck, and remember, you can always talk to your boyfriend if anything

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i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22 and he wants to have sex but i dont and he sead ''if we dont then we have to stop going out'' but truely love him and we have been going out for 2 years but if we did have sex he it would be rape right cuz i'ma minnor and thats why i dont want to and i told him that but he still wants to i would have sex but it's illegal so i dont know what to do should i have sex or not (keeping in mind we love each other)????
-Bryona

NOOOO. from experiance mama, DO NOT let it happen. for one, although age is JUST a number, it can be a problem. the older they guy, the more 'mature' you may think he is but all he might be doing is manipulating you. if he 'loves' you and plans to spend the rest of his life with you why can't he wait instead of threatning a 2 year relationship.. that's why theres something called masterbation.. sorry if i seem mean but don't do it. you may regret it. and yes it is considered statuatory rape. he's more than 4 years older than you PLUS you're under 18. good luck!!!

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Well, you see I'm posting this question for my best friend. Just so you know, she's 12 and is going to be 13 in another week or so. I wanna help her out, being best friends and all. So yeah, I'll just get to the point. Today she told me on myspace about how her boyfriend N told her to stop talking to one of her guy friends O. She asked him why and he was like 'cuz i'm your boyfriend, thats why.' i mean, that is being way too overprotective. she told me she was so happy when he left and about how he was being too clingy and calling her every minute of the day. ShesI just really want to help her out...wat should she do abt this? and please dont tell me about how she should deal with this by herself. i kmow!!! I just wanna help!!!

his answer is something to worry bout. idk the age of her bf.. but for him to say 'because im your boyfriend, thats why' is like a parent talking to their child. he has NO right whatsoever to talk to her like that. the least he couldve done is talked to her about how he feels uncomfortable about her guy friend O. does sound a bit controlling. she needs to make her own decisions. secrifices are part of relationship but not only if one person is doing them. good luck. and if it doesnt work out between them she needs to realize her friend O will probably still be there for her, so she shouldnt cut him off completely.. might lose a good friend..

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What is the average penis size? Because im afraid that I might have a small one.

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/average_penis.htm

helpful site..

p.s- size doesnt matter. you may be concerned.. but if youre worried about what your gf may think, it shouldnt matter

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Alright so ive been dating this girl for about 5 months now and ever so slowly ive started to wonder when to have sex. I dont have much expierence in the dating world and i wanted to know if its too early "to do it" or not. Please help me as i am very confused.

try talking to your partner... it has to be mutual.. communication really is the key.. ask her what she thinks about sex.. good luck =]

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I want to know what I Can do about crust build-up inside the crack of my rear. I shower and bathe daily, I still notice crust and scaling when I change underwear. Please give me advise on what to do to eliminate my problem.


hmm... perhaps use lotion? do you moisturize? sometimes, not to make things akward, but this can happen due to dirt+dryness.. so before going in the shower, moisturize alot and wiipe with paper towels.. good luck

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i dont have my eye on a surten guy but i want a guy to want me and ask me!!! plus im not a good firt!!!

what should i do??

hmm.. well i think the best way is in school.. definately becoming friends with guys.. or have your friends introduce you to gentlemen... flirting isnt much.. most people think its rubbing up on him and whatnot.. not really the case.. if you make a guy feel relaxed around you, that he can talk to you about anything.. and sees that you're different from every other average girl looking for a fling or money, they can really take into consideration being with you.. if you see they become real close to you.. to the point you guys talk all day all night or hang out alot.. consider making the first move.. mmost guys love girls who are determined.. strong.. intelligent.. and straightfoward as well! so once its to the stage that you have asked him what he looks for in a girl and vice versa, maybe tell him how you feel.. how you can see him as more than a friend :)

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its not relly adivce but i was just wondering about some of our advice columists and if they can answer me on this.

what do you like to do for fun? other then hanging out hehe.

what are you interest?

who would you like to meet?

describe yourself in a paragraph.

I know its dumb but i was just curious and its a really easy question that id love to just get input on.

lol interesting :)

well on my spare time i love writing poetry... giving advice lol.. definately making people laugh and smile.. hanging out with my boyfriend :D... musicccccc.. and i love playing rockband =].. who i'd like to meet? everyone lol i love diversity.. i'd like to meet people as they come along into the world you know? and to describe myself im just basically laid back.. wierd... hmm... cool =]

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im scared about starting high school, what should i do?

dont be scared! its okay to be nervous ^_^.. i am a senior in high school now in NY and when i started it wasnt so bad. yeah, i got pushed around because i am short, and my shyness made it obvious i was new to the school, but i doubt anyone would pick on you. just hold your head up high, dont let anyone bring you down, avoid conflicts, and show your friendliness =] good luck!

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well im 15 i turn 16 in nov. i relly want a bf not just to make out and stuff with (even tho i will proply) but i want someone that will love me for how i am and thinks at im beautful and will tell me i am. but ive never had a bf and i dont know how to get one and when i see a boy and a girl and there all cute and cuddle i want to be that girl and i love being plus size but most guys think big is not beautful and i want a guy that will be like i love this girl no matter what!!

how do i get a bf????

im i asking for to much?

im i ment to be alone forever?


thanks

not at all! no one is meant to be lonely =]. theres not much to get a bf. in my opinion you shouldn't have to dress sexier or anything to impress. its more about the way you portray yourself... is there a particular guy you're interested in? make him laugh, joke around, show him you are 'wifey' material ^_^.. you show him your true colors, respect yourself and others should respect you and im sure looks wouldnt even matter. good luck! and i hope i helped mama.

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ok i dont know what sex, blow jobs, vagina, and cum and sperm is but i do know what a pnis is ... so tell me what it is please and also what is a dildo? what is a condom? what is a vibrater? what is a breast? and last but not least... i know what hormones r and all but i am sorta confused... i know i am ready for sex so don't tell me i am not or i will hate you i am horny and my friend says i need sex

assuming.. you seem young if you dont know what these words mean.. letting other people tell you you NEED sex and believing them.. let alone, you're asking "what is a breast". you will hate me? seems a bit immature to say those words, good luck in your future, because if you're going to give it up to a random guy.. chances are your emotional state will completely turn around.. you will probably end up regretting it like most people do.. best advice is educate yourself before even trying anything. use google... search std's, pregnancy, consequences of sex.. and good luck

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I like breasts a lot and well im supposed to being a guy well my girlfriend lets me suck hers. Were both 16 and shes like a D cup i was wondering if her breasts are supposed to have holes in them or do they form when you are preganant and if she does have holes will liquid come out in my mouth? if so what is it? and if not is it just air im sucking and is it pleasureable?

i dont know what you mean by holes.. if you mean right in the middle of the nipple yes, theyre supposed to be there.. errr some ladies get pimples around the areola.. no harm.

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so my bestfriend is Bi, i don't know how to act around her anymore.. write back

hm.. if she's your best friend.. she's trusting you enough to tell you and trusting you guys' friendship in your hands. obviously seeking support.. dont act weird.. theres no reason to unless you have a problem with her being bi.. good luck.. friendship means more than society =]

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Why are people so shallow? some people in this world like a person more they can ever imagine. But when they find out its like they nevr want to talk to you again. no1 likes each other for who they are. they only like them cuz they are attracting. why cant people except others and try getting into a relationship?

everyone has a different perspective on this. my opinion, people just are too hung up on society... whats 'in' and whats not.. etc etc. some people dont know what its like to be with someone who will accept you for who you are, who will love you unconditionally.. because theyre too busy on looks and not personality. some have looks and personality.. some only have looks.. others have just personality... just human nature unfortunately.. its up to ones self to realize...

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me and my boyfriend live in different states
im still young and i know everyone is probably like youre an idiot and its not worth it
but if you really love someone, everything is worth it.
but idk lately. the past couple of days he does realllly seem like he cares cause i got sad and he started crying on the phone and i felt bad and stuff and like he always spills his heart out for me
but then today i got online and he earesed his heroes part (it was a cute paragraph about me) and in his intersesnt he put my baby (me) and then some other girls name an im like okk.. and then the girl was infront of me on his top and i like questioned him about it and he said dont worry were just really good friends i promise.
and he has this blog that like you answer questions and she did it and it said she has a crush on him.. and another blog where you put your name and he will tell you honest thing about you and he said all i can say is your perfect. and he commented most of her pictures and kept saying shes cute
i really dont know what to do becuase he tells me he loves me and we talking on the phone from like 12 at night to 5 in the morning every day and like hes perfect when it comes to us
but i odnt know what to think about that girl and everything..
i need help!

hey there!
well, i'd say be careful. i know he might be PERFECT.. but no relationship is perfect. guys can say they love you, anyone can female or male but they can have other intentions. im quite young.. but i ended up learning the hard way. so please, keep your guard up, and i wouldnt be too happy about that girl...why is it all of a sudden that she's next to you on his tops and he suddenly gives her shout outs etc etc.. how would he feel? good luck! keep an eye open and remember, you're young so if this one doesnt work it wasnt meant to be.. dont kill yourself over it!

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I uninstalled internet explorer on my computer and deleted any folder that is named internet explorer. so what i did specifically was uninstalled every details that it could still have left. i tried to install it again because i had the ie installer downloaded and when i did it it says cannot install because it has detected a newer version already installed. but it cant be because i already uninstalled it. so i want to know if there is something i could do to install it back or is there some kind of error in my computer.

i agree IE isnt the best.. your best bet is firefox. i use it and never regretted it

http://www.mozilla.com/en-US/firefox/

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