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how do i get a bf ?
well im 15 i turn 16 in nov. i relly want a bf not just to make out and stuff with (even tho i will proply) but i want someone that will love me for how i am and thinks at im beautful and will tell me i am. but ive never had a bf and i dont know how to get one and when i see a boy and a girl and there all cute and cuddle i want to be that girl and i love being plus size but most guys think big is not beautful and i want a guy that will be like i love this girl no matter what!!
how do i get a bf????
im i asking for to much?
im i ment to be alone forever?
thanks
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loney
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okay there's two things i'm gonna tell you real quick
1. it's hard to find a guy that will really love you unconditionally and it takes time
2. BIG is BEAUTIFUL BABY GIRL!!!
I'm a plus size woman myself and there is nothing wrong with being Thick (we dont say fat)
actually alot of guys i know say they like a girl with meat on her. so dont let being Thick get in the way of you finding someone.
and another thing. it takes time to find the right guy. shit i'm still searching myself. and guys believe it or not have a hard time telling girls they're beautiful. big girls are a bit more intimidating than these little skinnies but we command attention jus make sure you keep your head high and be fabulous and you will find someone right for you
good luck ma!
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Life just continues to prove to me how not alone I really am. We are even the same age, by B-day's in december though. But this is beside the point. What I want to tell you is that I have the same feelings at times. It's hard to see other people coupled off and it sometimes makes us feel lonely. But let me just say that you have a wonderful idea of what it means to have a good relationship. You don't just want someone there to get sexual with, so thumbs up for you buddy. You understand the importance of people connecting on a deeper level. It's a great feeling when someone tells you they love you and holds your hand, and shares a lot of happy memories with you. But the feeling is even better when the two people really know each other and are completely comfortable around each other. What I think I am really trying to say here is that you are not meant to be alone! [I am though, I already have 20 cats and no husband ;] I am glad that there do exist confident plus sized girls in this world. Seriously though, you are already amazing. Your attitude and confidence alone will lead you to meet a guy who will love you for you, exactly the way that you already love yourself. Many girls will go years and years without ever loving themselves, but you are very wise. Just know that patience is not fun but in the end makes having a boyfriend all the more better. And you aren't alone either. There are many girls who are also single. Give it time. And enjoy your summer!
I wish you the best of luck in life.
-Sam
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well i know you really want a boyfriend and everything, but don't jump into things too quickly and don't expect love at first sight or to fall in love with the first guy you date. your still a kid. love makes things complex and hard to deal with. anyway be confident. that is important most guys are scared to talk to girls. so you might have to make the first move. :) <3 sayruh
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First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because one of my ex-girlfriends was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded.
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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not at all! no one is meant to be lonely =]. theres not much to get a bf. in my opinion you shouldn't have to dress sexier or anything to impress. its more about the way you portray yourself... is there a particular guy you're interested in? make him laugh, joke around, show him you are 'wifey' material ^_^.. you show him your true colors, respect yourself and others should respect you and im sure looks wouldnt even matter. good luck! and i hope i helped mama.
flirty :)
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