I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
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Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
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What is soo cool about Internet Dating? I mean, what if you dating like a Lesbo that SAYS their a boy but y'know...and what if you're like 11 and the person you're dating is like 43? o_O; Yeah, I just needed to ask what was soo cool about it. -.-;
What I think: If you online date, you're too ugly to get anything in real life. xD (link)
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YOU ROCK! lol! It's a stupid and dangerous idea for people who have no lives.
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OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!! (link)
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people are going to make fun of you no matter what you do. whether its dating or school or who you hang out with, upperclassmen don't care what the excuse is as long as they get to piss people off.
so screw what they think!
Your rep is never "ruined forever" only for a little while.
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i recently signed up for 7th grade.YEAH! i get to go to a new skool! but i got the shitty pod. and my "friend" got it too. she made me promise not to transfer, but i know i can. should i? i really hate the teachers. i will rate good! (link)
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don't ever jepordize your education over a friend.
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This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks (link)
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ok, guys that girls want to date don't care about looks first off. so yeah you'll probably get a boyfriend, but don't be surprised if he's only dating you for your looks. guyz are stupid anyway. don't get your hopes up, but then again, i'm a 15 year old overwieght never had a bf chic totally jealous of you, so i would just delet this if i were you.
well, hope i kinda helped at all.
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Well I am a 20 year old female and lately I been wanting to have a baby. So when I ask my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years he was like no because he had to babysit his 6 nephews all the time. So what should I do? (link)
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well, get married before you have a baby. its always a good idea. then talk to him more and more seriously about having a baby.
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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!
i rate high! =)
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"Sorry man, i really just don't like you like you like me. There's a lot going on in my life now, and its not you, but right now i just can't really focas on guys right now. Your a nice guy and all, but i don't know if you're my type and all. THere are girls out there perfect for you, and i'm just not her."
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I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$ (link)
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its either him, or his brother.
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Iam 18 years old and just got into a new relationship with an older guy. Hes 22. Im still a virgin and he isnt. He told me when and if Im ready to have sex with him then that will be an issue that we sit down and discuss. Iam very mature and know exactly what I want out of life. Im a great person..so Im told. I really do think that I am emotionally and physically ready to have sex. Its just that Im so self concious and think that I wont be any good. Not just at sex, but kissing and oral sex. I havent kissed a guy in 4 years and Im terrified to mess up. How should I handle this? How can I make myself feel better about this? (link)
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Well, your bf seems like a really great guy, so i think you could easily talk to him about this stuff. tell him how you feel and stuff
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okie well i want to have guys over n i want to go to gusy housess to hang out but im a lil scared to ask my mom if i can hang out cuz me n my mom r rele tight n she might makefun of me bt neways how do i ask her w. out having to b scared
i rate good (link)
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drink a cup of coffee, and ask her in a bubbly sence like if its ok to have a guy friend come over.
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i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female ) (link)
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no your not obsessed.
ask him whats up! like why is he not wanting to be your bf. like if he's going to be all over you like that, he should want to be your bf, and not just a friend with perks.
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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14! (link)
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nope not at all. keep in mind, you might like someone, and just not realize that you have feelings for them, so don't just assume that you totally don't like anyone. Keep in mind all the people who never get married and stuff! And if it was weird, would you make up that you liked someone?
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how do you heal a sprained wrist? (link)
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ICE! and time
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ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot
~*~Emily~*~ (link)
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ask the fellow. he obviously likes you.
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you know how pac-sun has those cute shirts that have stuff about boys and all..and their really cute..do you know any other stores that have them? (link)
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pacsun outlits
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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14? (link)
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congradulations. its great!
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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long (link)
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well you should really wait until your comfortable and never compromise for a boy about sexuallity. it is a little wierd.
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ok heres how it is i like this guy a whole bunch and we hung out and all the begining of this summer ..well i went on vacation the past 3 weeks and came back and school had started for them .. this other girl i know really likes him too but him and her have never met so i dont really have to worry about her, but on the other hand this girl that lookwise is about the same as me has started to like him and is tryin to get him .. well i dont go to school with him but she does and i really thought he liked me but then all of a sudden we just basicly stopped talkin.. i dont know wat happened.. anyways my question is do u think there is a chance he likes me or do u think the other girl basicly already has him since she spends all this time at school with him now? please help me (link)
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sorry, but if your going to think so negitively and not dream, then forget it.
But don't lose hope. keep at him and tell him how you feel
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i am going out with this great guy and i am totally in lvoe with him but i am jelous of my best friend becuase so many guys like her ..... i am totaly in love with my boy friend (so dont say maybe i'm not) and i am "old enough" to be in love ..... but i dunno maybe its just becuase i never realy had a guy love me or treat me right untill him when my best friend can have anyone she wants and they all treat her perfectly .... is it bad that i am jelous of her even tho i am in love? (link)
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not really. you can't control your emotions as much as you would like to. don't tell her first off. don't tell him either. just ignor it. if he treats you right, then lucky you. most girls don't get so lucky. keep that in mind.
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There's this guy I like, He's my best friend but i don't know what to do about it, he also has a girlfriend, he's thinking of breaking up with her though. What should I do? signed hopeless romantic (link)
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Hopless Romantic
don't encourage his breaking up with her because you want to date him. be there for him. if he does break up, wait a while before you ask him out or anything. a week isn't a while either. like at least 3 weeks. Unless he asks you out, then just say yes.
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Ok well i like this kid, but i dunno hes a year older than me, im 13 hes 14.. i know that doesnt matter cuz ive went out with ppl b4 that were that age n i had no problem with it. But hes goin to the high school.. n im still gunna be in middle school.. n i duno he might find new girls. N i think now he kinda wants to be friends w/benefits for now or maybe he wants to go out with me.. but i dunno?! He seems like a player tho, n hes gotten alot farther than me.. i've only got til like makeing out n hes done like everything but sex. Im afraid he might use me, even tho it doesnt seem like it. Shud i give em a chance? Thanks i rate good! x0x confused babe (link)
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friends with benifits is never that good. Give the fellow a chance.
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