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I am afraid he might use me
Ok well i like this kid, but i dunno hes a year older than me, im 13 hes 14.. i know that doesnt matter cuz ive went out with ppl b4 that were that age n i had no problem with it. But hes goin to the high school.. n im still gunna be in middle school.. n i duno he might find new girls. N i think now he kinda wants to be friends w/benefits for now or maybe he wants to go out with me.. but i dunno?! He seems like a player tho, n hes gotten alot farther than me.. i've only got til like makeing out n hes done like everything but sex. Im afraid he might use me, even tho it doesnt seem like it. Shud i give em a chance? Thanks i rate good! x0x confused babe
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I think you should give him a chance he deserves at least one right now your jumping to conclusions thinking that he'll use you but you don't know that for a fact that..that's what he's planning on doing plus your judging him before getting to know him thinking he's a player when you don't know if he is or not if you give him a chance he'll be able to prove to you that he isn't planning on just using you the age difference doesn't matter seeing as your age is a number nothing more plus he's one year older then you which isn't a big difference at all if you think he doesn't seem like a player then go for it give him a chance it's worth a shot if for some reason things don't work out the way you would of liked you'll still know you tried instead of not doing anything at all plus if you do end up giving him a chance you'll be able to find out what his intentions are(:
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if you think he's just gonna use you you're more than likely right... go with your gut..
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Hey hun!!! We all go go through this crap with guyz. Friends w/benifets.....I wanted to go that route before. Its kinda stupid though. Why would u wanna have sex with a guy and go that far when ur not even with him? Honestly u really need to like the guy and be going out. If he really is a player ((ery skewl as those)) then dont even try it. He honestly would be using u for some @$$ and thats really wrong. It wouldnt even mean nething to him as much has it prolly would to u. Being in middle skewl and liking someone in high skewl can be tough. There are A LOT more people in high skewl. Atleast talk to him and tell him how u feel if u havent done so. Maybe somethin good will happen. If not it wasnt meant to be. All I gotta say is friends with benifets is messed up in my opinion.xOxO* Shannon
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Umm.. i wouldnt risk giving him a chance. See he may appear all sweet and stuf but if hes done a lot more than you you guys really arent on the same level. If theres something telling you he might go and cheat on him stay friends with benefits. Because really... you'll get hurt in the end and start remenicsing on how you knew this all was going to happen. Best wishes XoXo
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friends with benifits is never that good. Give the fellow a chance.
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Well... I wouldn't go for it. Any guy that wants to be friends-with-benifets is BAD LUCK. If you go with him, you'll just be setting yourself up for a huge downfall. And you can see that. So you're gunna dedicate your time and emotion to him so he can kiss you and his high school girls at the same time? I wouldn't go for it. Friends with benifets is bad news. Hope I didn't offend you. If ya need me, drop one in my inbox... :)
-Britty-
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if you really like him..give him a chance!!...and if you know for sure that he'd cheat and just use you, then move on! you can do much better!!..but try it out..see if you guys still get a hold of each other and hang out..i hope it goes good!...RATE PLEASE!
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well its not like hess gonna use u for sex hes experienced n u can learn alot from him but if hes goin to hs there gonna be moer girls there n if u like him try to show him that u r better but dont let ur self go i mean kicks is cool n maybe u can use him i mean i dont use girls but its like i would say i practice wit them n like im 14 n im ever experiecnd ive dont everything but i would use no body just for kicks yeah but he cant do anything to U U dont want to be done wit u so i guess thats all i can say IM a guy diffrent for a gurl
hope this helps
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