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Not much to say today. I only know I should be getting to bed because it's late. Oh snap. Here comes another calender day.
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Ever since I was little I couldn't talk to people I didn't know. When I became older, I started having the same problem with girls. I had a few girlfriends early in high school, but they asked me. They weren't really my type either. They always wanted to party and do drugs. I didn't. I guess that I am the last of a dying breed. My freshman dance was 2 years ago and I didn't even think about going because I was to shy to ask anyone. I always use the excuse that I have a rejection phobia. I am the person that you see at a party that is hanging out with with his friends because no one likes talks either. I can't just go up to a girl and say, hey do you want to go and see a movie this weekend or something. I used to be fat through elementary school and 7 and 8 grade. Then I went to the gym and I went from 250lbs to 180lbs. I am 6'1 so this weight is better. Even though I look better I still don't have the courage to talk to girls. I always think that if I ask them, after they turn me down that they will go off and blab to their friends and make fun of me. I have asked a couple of girls out and they say that they like me as a friend or that they don't have time for a boyfriend and then a couple days later someone else asks them out and they say yes. This year the prom is fast approaching and I didn't ask anyone. Someone tell me how to get over this. I am 17. I don't play sports, maybe thats why. Girls want sports guys. And I don't hang out with the popular crowd because they are too fake. Help.
I'm just...weird. I can be shy, and then i'm really out when i'm in class groups or friends :-/. then when a male teacher looks and talks to me, i can't look at them in he eye. except for my art teachers.
but why did you need to know that?
i don't care about sporty guys, maybe it's just your school.
it doesn't matter if they are girls or not, talk to them as a person. really, you can find good looking girls, talk to them, and they end up being really...not..smart. i hate it. looks decive i tell you!
butyeah...i usually "over hear" a conversation, and babble on from there if i can.
Every time my husband and I go anywhere with our 4-year old daughter, she wines and cries in the car, or babbles and sings constantly. Although I prefer the latter, sometimes I just want QUIET!There is no escape in a car, and sound echoes. I don't want to be forced to play kiddie music for her constantly either. How can I get her to behave?
hehehe....
heh. just give her a toy to amuse her. or an apple. sorry, best i can think of.
all my pets have died and my mom says i cant get anymore because she thinks i am not responsible. what do i do?
lay off the pet thing for a while. then, when your a bit older, and want a pet, save your own money and somehow show your mom that you have some responsibility...of...taking care of a friend's dog for the afternoon?
hi my name is angel and i want to know if this person really likes me in another way then friends because were good friends and i'm confused i mean we talked to each other all the time but he says things that sounds like you look really nice in that and your'e such a sex symbol and you are really atractive person thts why guys like you and lovely and caring mature person.
And he always touches me and say's we have good sociable time and can imagine to see each other bumping in 10 yrs time etc...
And he looks at me deep down my eyes and he says sometimes say i look smart when i'm always tend to any way.
and he teases me alot and jokes with me why? i mean we only know each other for couple of months just as friends and don't really do any thing like outings etc...
so please help me out because i'm confused wat his feeling about me, even though we don't chat to each other about this because it's not easy as he is quite older then me.
I think he just wants to get into your pants...:-o!
do what you want from there. if you think you know him as more than a friend (and i think you don't) then go out with him FIRST.
but really, i wouldn' do anything. just have a "friendship" while it lasts.
is there a web-site where i can do some kind of test to get to know what I`m good for? Or for what kind of work I could be good for?
I have an idea of what i would like to study, Is there a site where i can search diferents carriers and get to know what are the trade of the job?
go to goole(.com) or www.ask.com/.
to look for a job, go to monster.com
well, when you find the job you want, you can then go to monster.
Has anyone seen (or written) a tutorial about making these? I'd really like to do them but I don't understand how they work. What makes them so detailed while being so tiny? Do they just make a regular graphic and then zoom in? I don't think that would work.
Thanks. :)
I think this is what you mean?:
http://fallenlights.net/portfolio/tutorial/tree/
Go there...laura is cool and so is Beth (from her fourm):
http://div.dyndns.org/EK/tutorial/
or nyko's:
http://equinox.admemento.com/viewforum.php?f=3&sid=42beb41b99873c0ecad5960de8565cf4
i hope it helps...maybe just a little.
it's 1:28Am...why can't i sleep? -wonders off-
oh, you mean how they show you the pictures? if so, they zoom in and take a screen shot.
HELLO! MY QUESTION IS I'AM STRUGGLING WITH MY WEIGHT.I WEIGHT IN AT 222POUNDS.DO YOU HAVE ANY INFORMATION YOU CAN GIVE ME ON THIS MATTER.
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you need someone to encourage you. a good buddy always helps! and drink tea....mmmm...tea.
gonna make this as brief as possible i have a step daughter she is nothing like my two kids she is bossy demanding and tries to run the whole household and gets away with way too much her dad does nothing she gets out her window at nite when we sleep she is very wild she grew up without a mother most of her life i have only been on the scene about 2 yrs she basically hates me so i have to go thru her father with anything i have to say about her and he says i am always being negative towards her but im not she is just unbearable at times all he does is play on his computer all day all nite ignores me and her what should i do .....desperate sorry about the punctuation and the grammer i am terrible at that
Your husband isn't a great parent. it's like your a single mother.
you step daughter won't think its fair, etc, etc that you will punnish her for do those things, but something must be done to control her. she doesn't sould like the kind of kid i would hang out with. but you can also just try to talk to her, help her without making an image as the ebil step mom. she is now your kid as well, treat her like you treat yours.
Perhaps my sister is the "favorite" or there is something about me that cause them to treat me different. I think that I get defensive like someone else suggested, but I'm tired of their rudeness. I just want to be treated as an equal. My mother constantly tells me that I can't force people to listen to me, and to agree with me. I think that if a person cares, they should listen to what I have to say, but they don't have to agree with me, just realize that my point of view is just as valid as theirs. I'm constantly misunderstood. How can I get my point across, without seeming demanding, and that I always want to be right? Even my husband thinks that sometimes, when I just want him to listen to me. My mother-in-law says I like to argue. But I really don't. I feel forced to argue because people don't "get" what I'm saying. It's so frustrating!
If that person cared, they -would- listen. or maybe want to...even if they (know they will) agree or don't agree.
it could be impossible or them, now, to take notice what they are doing wrong, for you let them for many years. and now that you are standing up for yourself, it's "rude" even if what you really want is the same respect.
i have to put up with that when i visit my grandmother, for i am not the daughter of her favorite daughter, *mary. even if mary's daughter is like me in many ways, she loves her more. mary treat's her mother like if she were worth nothing, but it's MARY! if it were my mom, she would be pissed at not only her, but my father and i as well.
behind my smile, i cry. you have to accept the way they are, even if it hurts. let them think the way they do...it's not the truth anyway. when you argue with them, they just dislike/hate you more. or maybe it makes them happy you suffer. they -want- you to argue, but you mustn't. calmly, politely, tell them your side without saying "you." but you don't have to talk back at all, YOU HAVE THE POWER! ignore what you don't have to hear. it's a rerun. it's all a rerun.
I'm one of the few white people there. But I'm not racist. I can't stand biggots. I just work with a lot of people that talk about their sex lives in detail, and have loose morals, if you must know. And they are all different races. It's not a race issue. One of my best friends at work was black, and she was a Christian, and very sweet. She got fed up and moved on. I may try to get a job where she works now. It's a warehouse store down the street. Wish me luck!
I didn't meant that they or you are racist (even if it may have sounded that way). When I see more white people working at the same place, i think "that job must pay really good." i was taught that way...and for reasons as well, but won't go there.
sorry for the misunderstanding?
if people like that were around me...i would have looked for another place to work. but anyway...
i wish you luck on looking for a/working on a new job!
I went to this party and I'm 15 and I drank but I only had one beer and than I woke up the next morning in my bed. After that for the next couple of weeks I got sick daily, I started to get worried and had my friend buy a pregnancy test for me and it turned out that I was pregnant. I don't know how that's possible because I'm a virgin. But I can't remember what happened that night at the party. I don't know what to tell my parents.
~Pregnant?~
I dislike this stories...:(.
Is that all you felt the next morning? was there "anything" else on your bed? At some places, or some people, (they) have things that they can put in a drink that will just make you...forget and just...strange. it migh have been in your drink when you bought it, or when you put it down, someone who was WITH or looking at you from afar put it in your drink. this is why i say "whenever you put a drink down, order another one."
as DX said, work out. Eat healthy food....but make up your mind if you want the baby aborted or not. Th baby inside you will start it's "life" by three months, and that's the amount of time "those" places give you to decide...i perfer two months and a half...
whatever you do, tell your parents, but also say you might have been drugged. if you find the man (bastard) kick his...behind. and report him. don't let him brainwash you. don't let anyone brainwash you.
I'm really confused at the moment. I have this friend. We have been friends for about 8 months. But since January me and him have become really close. I have had loads of friends that are guys but I am his first friend whose a girl. We are always hanging round in college together. People seem to be getting the wrong idea. Anyway a few days ago we were in some real quiet place and he said he was confused to whether he liked me in that way or not. So he tried to kiss me. I didn’t want to because I thought it might change our friendship. I thought it might ruin it. In the end we kissed. It didn’t change anything. I still don't feel for him in that way and he doesn’t feel for me in that way. But then yesterday we kinda kissed again. I don't know what to do. We don’t like eachother in that way so why do we keep doing this. I feel bad afterwards but we aren't hurting anyone. He hasn’t got a girlfriend and I haven’t got a boyfriend. Is this wrong?
Your not hurting eachother, but you don't love/like eachother. If you want to hang out with him, do so with other peers with you two. Remember, this is new for him....so...don't screw around? anyway, i hope you two will still be friends for more time to come!
I have a friend, let's call her *Marie. Well Marie told me today that she got fingered by her cousin, who's sixteen. She said she didn't want to do it but he just kind of laid on top of her and did it. She was going to call for her other cousin who would've stopped it, but she said he wouldn't have come because he thought they were fooling around and didn't want to disturb them.
She just told him to quit and he wouldn't, so I'm guessing it's 'finger rape', if there is such a thing.
Well now she said she had dark stuff in her panties. I think she said black fuzzy stuff. Like discharge. She said she still hurts from the encounter and I don't know how long ago it was. She said she REALLY wants to go see a doctor but she doesn't know how to go about it. Her parents are the strict kind, so if you told them you even kissed somebody they would have a heart attack. I'm asking for her because I am very worried and I have no clue what could be going on with her.
Thanks for helping.
As said...it's rape.
She could have yells for help anyway. She should of...
But what is done is done. If she doesn't want to tell her parents first, she should tell a trusting older person...like, your parents. They should know what to do. Back her up when she tell her parents...and go from there. Or just "call the police."
Most my friends have seemed to not care about me anymore. They all just care about other friends now, and never have time to even just say "hello" to me, but they have time to spend time with other people for hours on end. I feel so betrayed, these people that i called friends just don't seem to care anymore, I hardly ever talk to them anymore, when when i attempt to, i get responses of "uhuh" or any other word related. What can i do to get them to actually notice me? =( please help!
Why would you still want to be their friends when they "don't have time" or ignore you. That happens to me during the middle of school years...but someday, i won't be in a school. learn to make new friends...or, if you still want these "friends" of yours to go back to you, just go up to them, nod, and say few things (to them), be polite. then one day they might say "hey!!!!!!" well, i don't talk to my (ex?) friends at all. only when that have something to say to me. and sometimes, they say "hiya" to me the next day!
it's like...magic.
Hey People it's MiSSc!
I'm playing the PlayStation2 Game called Kingdom Hearts. Ok, this is for the people who have/are playing(ed) it. OK. Right now I'm in Neverland for the second time...and I'm almost done with the game. So Sora found Tink and was like, "I can't understand her" so peter pan talked to her and she said that somethings at the Clock Tower. So Sora went to the Clock Tower and there was a Headless Shadow (not sure what it's called) and so I had to attack it. And it gave Peter Pan, i think 10 seconds and then he died, and then Goofy had 10 seconds and then I had 10 seconds and died.
Then I noticed there was this ball under him and i tried hitting it and put fire and blizzard and thunder and all these spells on him and it still didn't work and i died. Then the next time i tried i pressed R1 which is the Lock On thing and it locked to the clock. And I tried putting spells on that and hitting it and it didn't work. HOW CAN I BEAT THAT HEADLESS DUDE AND THE CLOCK? IS THERE SOMETHING THAT I'M MISSING? HELP! Also if you have NE other advice about Kingdom Hearts feel free to tell me. But I REALLY want you to help me on that Headless Dude and the Clock!
Sincerely MiSSc
I don't play those games but maybe try to visit there website. If it said something like "talk about the game" "message board" or "fourms" something like that, then go there, make a new topic and write what you just wrote. someone will probably know the answer.
I need help. There is this guy that I have liked for the pass eleven months. We used to be friends and today I talked to him for the first time in a month and he told me to never call him again. he sounded like he was on drugs but one of my friends told me that he is not. If something doesn't happen soon, my best friend will kick his ass. He used to be really nice, but he is being a bitch to me. Ask me a question if you would like
Lizzy
Forget about him. You don't need any person to treat you like shit. You need better. Whatever could be the reason that he acts like that? It could be drugs, or something else. Try to help him, but if he still doesn't let you go near him, then don't talk to him at all.
i have friends but the second i turn my back they talk about me make fun of me and they are so two faced and a backstabber because they always go crawling back to my arch arrival enemy antonia what should i do?
Then they arn't your true friends, are they? lay off...get new friends that will acually care about you.
Why is it that every time I talk to my mother on the phone she somehow steers the question towards the fact that I'm not married? I thought she was all proud of me for being a tough independent woman but that all flies out the window when the subject of love comes up. My boyfriend and I are in no hurry to get married, and this is like a personal insult to her or something. I don't get it.
She want's grandchildren! :-o!!!
It's a thing...just tell her that your not married and that at least you can take care of yourself...look at all you have done...YOUR AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN! woo-hoo!
at least she wants the best for you. that is what counts.
hey any of you people out there know how i can start an affair i am in my mid 30 so i am old enough my boyfriend is 50 we get along ok but no sex i gotta have it im going crazy from not having it dont no one worry i will use protection i dont want no diseases and no im not a slut either so dont no one say i am but if you must know i have an extremely high sex drive is all i just wanna find a willing participant if i can and all i wanna know is how i go about finding one if anyone knows thanks gave a good day
Do you badly need to have sex? If you think you do, leave the old man and get a younger one. But don't go off and hurt this boyfriend of yours. Young or old.
I'm 5'3& 1/2 weigh 165lbs, and would like to be 135 at least. I'm a mother of a 4-year old, live in a small apartment where the only room I can exercise in is the livingroom, and it's carpeted, and hard to do aerobics on. Can anyone recommend a good exersize mat? What's bothering me lately is that on top of all that, my face is getting rounder, and my chin is starting to sag. My mother is overweight and her chin is like that too, so I'm afraid it's hereditary. Is there anything I can do to firm this area up? I think that I'm reasonably attractive but I used to be so skinny in high school and my 20's and sometimes I get so depresssed that I'll never lose this extra weight. Most of it is in my middle, stomach, and thighs. I feel that nothing really looks good on me. I also crave junk food and I would like some advice on a sensible easy diet that doesn't require a lot of expense to get my weight under control, and don't forget about the chin thing. Whew! I need help!
Eat healthier food and exercise. Run around the block once. But you can't leave your baby, so just pretend your running in your apartment. Of course your not going anywhere, but your lifting your legs.
get a yoga mat.