Am a bit of a wrinkly now (i was 24 on 4/9/05, but I had the best birthday I've ever had in my whole entire life!!!) but I know an awful of stuff about an awful lot of stuff!
I am COMPLETELY NON-JUDGEMENTAL and you can always inbox me with stuff you wouldn't ask anyone else @ MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Mel xxx
"Dance like no one is watching and love like you've never been hurt"
E-mail: MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Gender: Female
Location: Long story, born in Germany, Parents are Spanish but grew up in the UK!!!
Occupation: General Superstar and all around heroine!
Age: 24
Member Since: December 24, 2004
Answers: 356
Last Update: July 20, 2007
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Does anyone know how I can get custom shoes? Like I can make them with whatever colors I want. Thanks. (link)
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Nike let you do it! Can be pretty expensive but well worth the money!
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i am thinking about gettting my hair done its about where my belly button is any hairstyles that are cute i could do? (link)
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My hair is so long that I can sit on it!
My hair is naturally curly so i don't get much of a say in what it does (it has a mind of its own!)
Long hair does look nice curly but 1 thing I would say is start of by having 2 inches cut off at a time til you get to a comfortable length cos if you have a whole lot chopped off in one go you have to wait for it to grow again!!!
Let me know what you end up doing!!
Mel
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theres this kid and he told me he wants to have sex with me. this is so gross to me! i cant stop thinking about it. i heard over and over in my head"i wanna have sex with you" its so gross i dont even like his the least bit! theres no way i can get this outta my head! please help! (link)
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Best thing you can do is just ignore him.
Silly little boys say that to me all the time and I'm 23!!!!
They just never grow up!!
Seriously though if he is really bugging you over it then speak to your school counsellor/teacher ar even your parents and they will be able to do things to make it stop.
Take care!
Mel
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Hey I have dark brown hair and I was wondering if I should put blonde highlights in them? I have done it before for like 2 years and then I stopped for some reason. I was wondering if blonde highlights are still in or should I leave my hair dark brown. Oh and I'm kinda sick of blonde so what other colors can I put in my hair. I have a pic on my column its xo_sherry_ox :) (link)
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I have really long, dark brown curly hair and I have 3 different colour lowlights through mine (Burgundy, mahogany and rust) and it looks really good!! (even if I do say so myself!!)
Mel!
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my boyfriend asked me to makeout with him and i dont want to but i dont know the right way to tell him and he keeps asking me what should i say that woudlnt hurt him??? (link)
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Just tell him that you aren't ready to take things further.
If he accepts this hold onto him cos you got a real sweetie.
If he doesn't like it or tries to push you into anythin you aren't comfortable doing then get rid of him.
Whatever you do be careful and have fun!
Mel
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I'm going to dye my hair a brownish color, I was wondering if anyone could tell me any cheap but really good brands of dyeing stuff. Thanks (link)
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L'oreal is most definitely the best! Just make sure you do a strand test first cos then if you don't like the colour it's going to come out you don't have to have your whole head that colour til you can get back to the chemist for more dye!!!
:o)
Mel
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me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ? (link)
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I would talk to him ask him why he is doing it? If he is only messing around then tell him to stop it! If he says it's bevause he enjoys hurting you then tell him to hit the road and don't come back.
Never let anyone hurt you! No matter how much you love them it just isn't worth it.
You can find someone much better who will respect you and your body!
Take care!
Mel
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At first I didn't really understand what ADD was. When I read one of Mary-Kate's quotes in a magazine saying "They give me extra time taking tests because of my ADD". I thought to myself "it does take me a long time to take tests also..." So I researched it and I realized what ADD was. I do have a lot of the symptoms, such as not concentrating on the simplest things, it takes a long time for easy things to register (things that used to be easy to register, is now not so easy), I often lose interest in things I once did, and become inconsistent, but I also have difficulty adapting to change. I sometimes don't finish homework assignments because I don't feel like taking the challenge, and lastly, I'll start doing things without looking at directions and I think I know how to do it, when I really don't.... do I have ADD?
Also, I told some of my friends, and just because "they get bored in class and don't feel like listening to the teacher", they think they have ADD. I TRY to listen to my teacher, or follow along with stories in class, but 5 minutes later, I'm thinking about something TOTALLY different, and lately, that "something totally different" is ADD and whether I have it or not. I feel like I have no one else to tell. I've told all my friends and they say "oh yea, I have it too!!" And they'll start laughing (not at me, just with me...only I'm not laughing...). I feel like no one is taking it seriously because many people joke around about ADD, but what should I do now if I really think I have it? I've told my mom, but I don't think she believes me either... (link)
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The best thing you can do it talk to your parents and go and see a qualified doctor.
He will be able to diagnose whether or not there is a problem and offer you support and help if you do have ADD.
As to what will happen school wise I don't think you should stress yourself out worrying about it til you find out whether there is something wrong or not!
If there is then there will be loads of adults able to help you.
Take care and let me know how it goes!
Mel
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how do you delete a xanga can someone send me the link (link)
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http://www.xanga.com/private/sitestatus.aspx just make sure that you log in!
Mel
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I have more of a comment then a question right now...I look at this site as a great way to make new friends and to get helpful advice so i can see what im doing wrong in my life and how i can improve it....I love asking questions and getting feedback but what i dont like is opening up answers and seeing rude remarks and dumb comments....Thats really not helpful and in some cases it makes me feel lower then i was before i asked the question...Im sure im not the only one who feels this way but i think this needs to stop...If you think its funny to make fun of peoples personal problems then go make fun of your own because you obviously have them if you feel you can say some of the things that i have seen said to people....Im open for any feedback but please i ask that this comment not be deleted because im trying to get a message out about how i feel and if you delete this then you are just as bad as those who leave rude remarks...Thanks alot...Xo~CaReBeAr~oX (link)
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I know it's hard but just rise about it!
For every idiot on this site there are 10 great people, just ignore what the idiots have to say and what ever you do don't correspond with them - you'll only add fuel to their fire!!!
If they have nothing better to do than leave negative replies then just think how crap their lives must be!!
Keep smilin!!
Mel
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My 2 best friends kelsie and allison and i always hang out. And they told me that they think i have a flirting problem...they told me people think i am easy but i have never done anything with a guy past making out...but i do flirt alot but i dont know how that makes me look easy...helP! i rate! (link)
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Sounds to me like they are a bit jealous that you are naturally outgoing and flirty.
Some people would love to be like you and be able to flirt with people and be comfortable with it!
I think you should ignore them - as long as it's going no further than just flirting then it's ok!!
Take care!
Mel
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months,and he wants to kiss me, but I'm not sure if I should. My mom would freak out, but i really like him. What should I do? (link)
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You should go for it!!
It's not going to hurt anyone as long as it stops at a kiss!!
As for your Mom.....what she doesn't know won't hurt her!!!
Have fun!!
Mel
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should i write my own song???
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Depends on whether you are any good at song writing.
Try the song you write out on a few friends and see what they think before you sing it infront of loads of people!
TC
Mel
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does anyone know of any good conjestion reliever? Im all clogged and it doesn't feel confortble. (sp?) lol I also get a headach from it...
Any one know of anything natural that i could use to make it magicly disappear?!?
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I don't know which part of the world you are in but in the Uk we get this fantastic stuff callled Vicks!
It clears your nose really quickly and you can get an inhalor thing that you put up your nose, (sounds gross but really works!) tkae a deep snort and hey presto your head is clear in no time!! I'm pretty sure all it is is eucalyptus and menthol oils which is all natural.
If that fails or you don't have that stuff over there then get some eucalyptus and menthol oil put it in a bowl of hot water cover your head with a towel and inhale the vapours. Please don't use boiling water, or if you do let it cool a while first as you can scald yourself with steam from boiling water!!
Hope this helps and you get rid of the stuffiness.
Mel
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Does any one know of any good sites, that will take away my boredom... I am 14 and i jus need somethin to do while i am on the computer.. please helpp!! ((~*Kaile*~)) (link)
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Try www.sparknotes.com
It has some really good stuff to help you with school work and some really fun tests like "The Love Test" etsc.
Try it out!
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Okay, well I just got mine, tonight...and I am NOT telling my mom. At least, not yet. I just have a few questions about periods....
1. How often should I change them?
2. Should I wear them to bed?
3. How many should I carry with me?
4. Where should I put them? I don't carry a backpack...or a purse.
That's it. Thank you! =D (link)
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1. Once every 4 to six hours - depending on your flow
2. YES - you can get super absorbent ones for night time so you don't leak
3. Purse, gym bag, back pack, pockets - you can get really tiny ones that fit anywhere.
4. Start carrying your things in a bag or a purse? Or stash them in your locker and go back to your locker if you need one.
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what does git-r-done mean?? alot of guys at my school use this term. (link)
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It means Get it Done!!
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my boobs are always dry and itchy and there are black marks on them. why is that? and what should i do?
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Go to the doctors.
The only person that will be able to tell you what is wrong and give you treatment is a Doctor.
You could try a senstive skin lotion for the dry bits, but I would definitely consult a professional over the black marks.
Take Care and let me know how it goes!
Mel xx
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Hey everyone,
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like 2 months now, and I can tell he wants to kiss me, but i dont know if i want to, he asked me before and i said no, but that was like a month ago, what should i do???? (link)
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If you feel ready to and think the time is right then go for it!!
Don't feel pressured into anything - but if you want to then do it!
What's the worst that could happen?!
You will probably enjoy it!
Have fun!
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Hi, Im looking for a good fudge recipe. Does anyone have one? (link)
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This is the best on ever!!
Should carry a health warning though cos you can't stop eating it once you've made it!!!!
Ingredients
2 c Sugar
1 Can (5-oz) evaporated milk
1/3 c Milk
1/8 ts Salt
1/4 c Butter
1 ts Vanilla extract
Line an 8x4x2-inch loaf pan with foil, extending foil over edges of pan. Butter foil; set aside. Butter the sides of a heavy 2-quart saucepan. In saucepan combine sugar, evaporated milk, milk, and salt. Cook and stir over medium-high heat to boiling. Carefully clip a candy thermometer to the side of the saucepan. Cook and stir over medium-low-heat to 238F, soft-ball stage (this should take 25 to 35 minutes). Immediately remove saucepan from heat.
Add butter and vanilla, but do not stir. Cool mixture, without stirring, to 110F, lukewarm (about 55 minutes). Remove candy thermometer from saucepan. Beat vigorously with a wooden spoon till fudge becomes very thick and just starts to lose its gloss (about 10 minutes total). Do not overbeat. Immediately spread fudge into the prepared pan.
Score fudge into 1-inch squares while warm. Top each square with a piece of nut, if desired. When candy is firm, use the foil to lift the fudge out of the pan. Cut into squares. Store, tightly covered, in the refrigerator. Makes about 1 lb (32 servings).
I must say though, this isn't a recipe of my own its from http://www.acplace.com/recipes/fudge.htm
Check out the bailey fudge as well, my Nan is addicted!!!
Enjoy!!!
Melanie!
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