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I got my nails done yesterday, I've never gotten them done before. I got a french manicure. When I came home I put an extra coat of clear nail polish over them. I want them to last until I go on vacation this friday. Do you think they will?

Yeh I get mine don all the time. They last a long time. Don't worry about your nails, your going on vacation! lol Have fun on your trip :]

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Okay hey im a 13/f and i have a problem , i ave this friend and he is black but i love him to death like he's my best guy friend and he is always there i just like him as a friend because i have a boyfriend but this guy likes me more then just a friend from what i have heard so can you help me ??
Love,
Bubble gum

Talk to him about it. Just explain to him that you heard he likes you more than just a friend and if it's true then you need to explain to him that you don't feel the same way and he needs to move on. If he's your best guy friend, then you shouldn't have any trouble talking to him about it. :]

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my ex boyfriend is telling
people that im a bad kisser,
and that i dont know "how" to make out .

i've made out with more then one person already,
and no one has ever said anything about the way i make out.

is it just him, or do i really suck at life ?!

Being a bad kisser doesn't mean you suck at life. I know how your feel though. Be called a bad kisser can make you self-conscience when you are kissing. Chances are though he's only telling people that because he's a jerk. Kissing is something that comes natural to people. Just ignore it. He's immature.

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im thirteen, and im a good babysitter, i want a babysitting job. but my parents dont let me little sister stay home with me or anyone else becuase she throws temper tantrums the second they leave and such, so no luck there, and all my parents friends that have little kids have older children, most my fam. lives on the other side of the country.. so where could i get a job?

Put ads, such as flyers around your town. Like in a grocery store, ext.

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What is the best kind for white strips you can find in a grocery or drug store.

i need whiter teeth. :]

I don't know from experience, but I hear Crest White Strips are the best. When I do my teeth, that's what I'm going to use. Hope this helped :]

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I cyber guys alot... but never had sex irl...
am I a slut? or is there a special word, like cyberslut?

haha cyber slut? Never heard of that, but I suppose that would be it. As far as slut goes, no, your defiantly NOT a slut. A slut is someone who sleeps around. considering your a virgin, then your not a slut.

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could you get aids or hiv from them, considering they suck blood from a lot of different people?

They say no, but I honestly think you can.

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nipples is bigger than the other.
is that normal or should i like, get it looked at?
i`m kinda scared;
my left one is bigger.

Defiantly normal.

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Hi i'm 16/f about 125 lbs. I'm in alright shape. I'm not super super skinny but i'm not fat... lets say average. But my legs are kinda chunky and i've just been noticing it over the last couple months and with summer comimg i dont want ot be showing off chunky legs.. I live like in the middle of no where basically so i cant really get to a fitness center. I have celluluse on my legs.. not sure how to spell it and its sick.. advice please!

Exercise and healthy eating habits!

Foods to stay away from: pasta, pizza, breads (whole weat is okay though), sugary foods/sweets, and of course fast food places, Starbucks. Subway is okay though.

Don't skip ANY meals, especially breakfast!

A yogurt, banana, and a cup a milk is really good for a breakfast.

Try to cut back on snacking. If you are going to snack though, grapes are the best thing to snack on. Stay away from the chips and cookies!


As far as exercising goes, Try to exercise 4 times a week for an hour straight. It can be anything. Walking around the block for an hour, riding your bike with a friend for an hour, or half and half. Jump roping is really good. No breaks either! Not even for 2 minutes! You have you keep your heart rate up. So an hour, non-stop.

You should see results in 2 1/2 weeks or sooner if you stick to this healthy eating plan and exercising. And no cheating! lol

Good luck :]

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well, i've been having my period since i was 11 (i'm now 14) and i've skipped a month or two every now and then. But i haven't had a period in 4 or 5 months now. Any idea why that might be? I'm not sexually active at all, so that can't have anything to do with it.

suggestions??

The first two years after having your first period are kind of rocky. I'm sure everything is alright. Wait untill your next doctor appt. then tell your doctor whats up. Untill then I really wouldn't worry about it.

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what song is this? its on 88.1 .. but not everyone has the same station. its poprock-ish and has some piano in it. it's something like...


when the storm starts shaking the ground, i hope that your ready now, i hope your ready for the..

it says, "i hope your ready now" alot.

It's by October Fall

And it's called Caught in the Rain

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I dont want to do it but can you have sex when you havent even started your period or will it hurt more or what.?


thanx :]

Yes you can. And the pain is the same your first time if you have/havn't had your period yet.

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Im 13/f and i weigh 75.6 kilos (165.5 pounds)
i feel sooo fat. Im huge. i need advice on how to loose some weight! BIG time. pleaseeeeee help anything helps.

Good eating habits and exercise. It's hard work and takes a lot of will power. But I think you can do it :]

Foods to stay away from: all pastas, pizza, all breads unless whole weat, pop, sugary food/sweets.

DON'T skip any meals, especially breakfast. Try to keep down on the snacking as much as possible. And if your going to snack, grapes would be the best choice. Not chips or cookies.

As far as exercising goes, atleast an hour a day, 4 days a week. And yes, an hour. You and your friend would ride your bike around for an hour, or go walking around the block for an a few times. Anything.

I promise, you'll see results in 2 1/2 weeks, probably even sooner if you stick to good eating habits and good exercising habits. :] And no cheating either! lol

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Can someone please find me the lyrics for Faith Hill's new song "lost" it goes like if being lost means never knowing life without you .. i wanna be lost forever. thanks so much

http://www.completealbumlyrics.com/lyric/131388/Faith+Hill+-+Lost.html



go to that site for the lyrics :]

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I am having a problem with a friend of 1 1/2 years that lives down the street from me. I am a man, 42 and he is 30. We are both married. We both like cars and mechanical stuff, so we have lots in common. He has all the qualities that I want in a friendship, like honesty, integrity, non-smoker, light drinker, no drugs, etc. I really enjoyed talking to him, but I was always the one to initiate contact. I used to go down to his house and talk to him when I saw his garage door up and he was working on his car, but it's been three months since I've talked to him and he hasn't made any effort to contact me. Whenever we would see each other, he acted as if he liked me, he was in a good mood and talkative. He obviously knows where I live and he has my phone numbers, but he never calls or comes by. He knows that I race a dirt track car every Saturday night, and I've told him that he is welcome to go with me any time, but he never does. He never asks me to do anything with him, either. I feel that I am the only one that wants to be friends, so I am not planning on contacting him any more because I don't want to be a pest or be in a one-sided friendship, which is not a true friendship im my book. I figure that if he really likes me and wants to be friends with me, then he will make an effort. It's really disappointing to have found a guy that I really would like for a friend and be rejected. This is really bothering me, because I have no close friends and I was hoping to develope a close friendship. :( What do you think?

Sounds to me like you answered your own question :] Don't try keeping a relationship with someone who has no intentions on keeping up with it. That's defiantly not someone you would want to keep as a friend. If you want close friends try checking on websites. I'm sure there other people out there in your situation who are dying for a friend like you :]

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Okay, so whenever a couple or a few of my friends get together and do anything, I always get VERY jelous. Like just now three of my friends all had "out for ice cream at kimballs" on their away messages. But it just makes me sooo jelous. What can I do?

Don't get jelous, try to join in the fun :] Of course I'm not saying invite your self in their plans, but maybe YOU should start the plans and invite everyone else :]

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I appologize for the length in advance. I have a friend "dave" who wants to move into our apartment with me and my other friend "mike." Me and dave are constantly getting in fights, and he's pretty much an alcoholic.Dave was gonna move in until he decided not to move out of the dorms. But he's living with Mike this summer and he loves the new apartments. Now he's begging me and Mike to send letters to the campus housing people to request him to come next year (it's his only ticket out of the dorms). I told him I would send them a request, but now I'm seriously having second thoughts. I dont want to have him drinking all the time in our apartment (where it is prohibited) and be bugging us all the time. BTW, mike and dave somewhat get along but dave always says stupid stuff to mike, so its kinda rocky between them too. Anyway, should I call the campus and request that Dave not move in? Should I try to confront Dave about it and just say that we'd be screwed the first time we have a fight? Also if I do nothing, I'm pretty sure Dave would get into our apartment, and then it'd be a year of hell for us. I dont want to hurt his feelings, but it seems like anything I do or say would do just that. Thanks

If Mike doesn't want Dave moving in either, then I think you and Mike should comfront Dave an explain to him exactly what you feel about the whole situation. You won't seem rude or like a bad friend. He should understand that it's only for the best. I defiantly wouldn't want to live a year of my life in "hell" as you like to call it lol.

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13/f
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months. He has been asking me if i could go places with him over the weekends. But the big thing is i CANT! i am not allowed to go anywhere with any guy until im 16! Its a religous standard. But i dont know how to break to him. I am afraid he might break up with me. I dont know what to do! He keeps suggesting going to the movies, hanging at his house, watching a movie at his house, or going to a relay for life walk. i feel like crap for canceling. Also i dont even want to go, im to scared it would be completly akward and stupid. But also im not aloud to. Im scared and lost. haha

thank you for all the advice.
it really helps thank you :D

You have to tell him you can't ahng out with him untill your 16 and that's it's a religioud thing. After all, what good is a relationship if you can't communicate about things? If he doesn't like it and wants to break up, forget about him. He's not worth your time anyway.

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so im getting my braces off either this week or in a few weeks..can someone please tell me some kind of teeth whitener or toothpaste that can make my teeth like EXTREMELY bright? lol i knoww its weird but i want my teeth to be so white! thanks! =]

No it's not weird lol. That's my plan too :]

I heard Crest White Strips work really good. That's what I'm going to try. The most they cost is $40 bucks, which isn't bad at all :]

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my mother told me that i should ask my friend to help me study the DMV writen test. she pass her driving test and i need help to pass my writen. i always have trouble studing beause i dont know how. i failed the test twice and i need to do it again. so how do you study with a partner or with a group? my friend doesnt know how either and all i can think of is reading the book and letting her correct my work. i am clueless????

ahh I know exactly how you feel! I failed ALL my biology test. I'm a straight A student, I just choke on test UNTILL two of my friends taught me a way to remember the material. I just related all of it to somthing I know. Infact, we made up a little song and dance to the stuff and I got the highest score in the class. So you and your friend should try and think of ways to relate driving things to...shopping for example! or anything your interested in :] hope this helps!

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