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Okay hey im a 13/f and i have a problem , i ave this friend and he is black but i love him to death like he's my best guy friend and he is always there i just like him as a friend because i have a boyfriend but this guy likes me more then just a friend from what i have heard so can you help me ??
Love,
Bubble gum
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If you only like him as a friend, then you need to let him know. And here's a tip I've been given by several guys: it's almost impossible to be "just close friends" with a guy. Most guys, if they like you enough to be good friends, are gonna eventually want it to go farther than friendship. There are exceptions, but from what guys have told me, it's pretty rare. So keep that in mind and be careful with your guy friends, that you aren't unintentionally leading them on by being too close of friends with them.
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ok well bubble gum i think that you should just tell your freind that you just like him as a friend and if thats not the case then you should try and figure out wich one you like more your freind or your boy friend try and think wich would be better for you
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Talk to him about it. Just explain to him that you heard he likes you more than just a friend and if it's true then you need to explain to him that you don't feel the same way and he needs to move on. If he's your best guy friend, then you shouldn't have any trouble talking to him about it. :]
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If you don't like him as more than a friend, tell him. He should know already that you're off-limits because you have a boyfriend.
And why does it matter that he's black?
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