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What should I do?
I appologize for the length in advance. I have a friend "dave" who wants to move into our apartment with me and my other friend "mike." Me and dave are constantly getting in fights, and he's pretty much an alcoholic.Dave was gonna move in until he decided not to move out of the dorms. But he's living with Mike this summer and he loves the new apartments. Now he's begging me and Mike to send letters to the campus housing people to request him to come next year (it's his only ticket out of the dorms). I told him I would send them a request, but now I'm seriously having second thoughts. I dont want to have him drinking all the time in our apartment (where it is prohibited) and be bugging us all the time. BTW, mike and dave somewhat get along but dave always says stupid stuff to mike, so its kinda rocky between them too. Anyway, should I call the campus and request that Dave not move in? Should I try to confront Dave about it and just say that we'd be screwed the first time we have a fight? Also if I do nothing, I'm pretty sure Dave would get into our apartment, and then it'd be a year of hell for us. I dont want to hurt his feelings, but it seems like anything I do or say would do just that. Thanks
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well i think you should tell dave that you dont want him to move int. just explain things out to him and have mike there too. if things are rocky between you and dave he probably shouldnt move in. and if things are kinda rocky between mike and dave then that would only cause bigger problems.
you should also just request that dave not move in with you guys.because theres a chance that he'll request to move in with you and mike.
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If Mike doesn't want Dave moving in either, then I think you and Mike should comfront Dave an explain to him exactly what you feel about the whole situation. You won't seem rude or like a bad friend. He should understand that it's only for the best. I defiantly wouldn't want to live a year of my life in "hell" as you like to call it lol.
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