about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

do you know any cute places to find homecomming dresses? i dont want a boring one thats like black, i want to find an origional pretty one that nobody else will have

Ahh, well I don't have any websites but if you search it on google you will get lots! I did it before. I know desiger websites but I don't think you would want to order them. Just try going to all the stores you like first.

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ok i wanna know how come girls that have boyfriends call me buddy
and girls that are single call me hanni or bejbi

When girls have boyfriends they are'nt just going to call you baby and honey. 1, they have a boyfriend that they like very much & 2, they don't want to make him mad or jelous. Girls that are single and call you that is just a saying. Sometimes it doesn't mean much. It can also be their way of flirting.

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pulled means give hand job ;) ur welcome

Lol, thanks!

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What is pulled mean?

I honestly don't know. Sorry.

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ok im 14 about to be 15 and all i have done is pulled is that bad?what is a good age to have sex?

There is no "good" age to have sex. You have sex whenever you are ready and with the person you really really care about. You have to be 100% sure that you want to do it and that you won't have any regrets later. Good luck!

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ok soo theres this boy that i really like n like all last year he really liked me 2 n thought ii was soo hott n stuff n then he stopped goin 2 our school n now this year hes back n its like i dont even matter n e more! like he's called me ugly n stuff n ii dont get it? i dont htink i got uglier? =/ but he told me he liked me but i no hes lieing bc he ignores me @ school n hes asked out 3 of mi friends n hes always like 2 me "who should i go out with now?" n i dn wat 2 say 2 that! y would he say that to me wen he knows i like him a lot! i just wanna b done with him i guess? plez hElp!! =(

I think that he is saying all that stuff is to get you jelous. He knows you like him a lot and he wants to show off stuff. Some guys are just jerks like that. When he says who should I go out with next, just eather ignore him or tell him to stop being like a fag and acting like evertyhing revolves around him. If you show that you care that he is hurting you then he will keep doing it. I'm sure that you are not ugly and who cares if he says that. He thinks he can't have you and he wants to show off like I said. Good luck.

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ok well most people say that boys prefer it shaved so does that mean like all shaved off or can u just leave like a little bit of pubic hair but then it goes all prickely so................?

Do whatever you like. Some girls shave completly and some just trim it. Do which ever you want and most guys like it shaved.

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Is there something you need to put on your hair before you straighten it or curl it?

If you want to you can. I usually do. I use a heat protection spray. It's called Ion and it just protects my hair from damaging from the heat and stuff. I also use Zero Frizz by John Freeda. It works really good. You can also get Garnier products because they are also very good. I tried the new curling thing from Pantine and it makes your hair really smooth and skiny. You could try that too.

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If my guy isnt making the first move, do I do it??

Ahh, yes. If he doesn't start to you should. I remember how it was for me lol! Just go for it. Most guys expect you to make the first move and they like it.

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Ok you see my best friend in the whole world has really REALLY bad breath! Wich I really don't care but when sge smells it (her breath) She always says OMG Brittany you breath smells so so bad! I mean I always brush my teeth and always chew gum and eat ice brackers (I have 0 cavities) So what should I say to her? Uesally I just say "Oh I do?" So what should I start saying?

If she is your best friend you should be able to tell her anything. I mean if my best friend told me that I wouldn't be offended or mad so just tell her. You won't be hurting her feelings. You can also offer her gum, mints things like that.

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Hey I just bought a pair of Pants from Hollister and they dont fit. When i told my mom hse like im not driving all tht wya to return so is there any way i cna return them online?

No, I'm sorry. Just keep the reciet and whenever you go back to that mall just return it. You have 30 days though.

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Okay, i have a biggg problem...


I was friends with this girl and everything was going well but during the summer i was like ignoring everyone..and i ignored her.. and when we were friends she was talking on the phone with this kid ive been going out with on and off for 3 years. ( we werent going out then though )She didnt know about him , and she started talking to him acting like she knew him when she had only been talking to him for 3 days..and he called her and said listen i dont think we should talk i have a girlfriend...he really didnt.. he just liked me...and thats when i started ignoring her ( not because of the whole eddie thing but for other reasons ) and then we started going out again..and i love him soo much and im going to stay with him..but i dont know how to tell her that were going out...cause she`ll probably get mad and think HE was the reason i was ignoring her...i dont want her to feel like i took him from her which i didnt cuz ive been with him alot for 3 years .. but still i dont want to hurt her feelings.. and i cant hide it from her..how should i tell her that me and him are going out without hurting her feelings?

I think that you should tell her. She should of known about you 2 before. If you tell her and if she gets her feelings hurt then there is nothing you can really do about that. She should understand that you guys really like each other and that you didn't mean to hurt her at all. It's better if you tell her now because she might find out from someone else and she might be upset about that. Just talk to her and explain to her the situation. You didn't take him away from her and that you don't want to hurt her at all. I think everything will be okay, so dont worry about it babe.

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I have a crush on a boy. My friends tell me I should leave a rose in his locker. Do boys like stuff like that?

Uhm well that all depends on the guy. Some guys like it, some think its cheesy. I think you should talk to him and let him know you have a crush on him and just leave him cute little hints. Maybe for valentines day you could leave him a rose in his locker. That would be really sweet! Good luck babe!

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Omg, this guy I really like just IMed me! What should I say?

Just start a conversation with him. Be like heyy, how's your weekend so far? Be nice and stuff & just relax! =D

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Ok well I am a small fit tall girl. But my boobs are like small! Well I have bigger than most 7th graders but I want them to be bigger! Got anything that migh just do the trick? Oh and I have tried to gain wight I can't! I have a super high matabalisum! I weigh 105lbs. but yeah plz help I rate high! Thanks a bunch!

There is nothing you can do to make your breasts grow bigger besides surgery, which I don't think you want. You are still growing and when you are about 15 or so they will be big. Don't worry. Some girls mature very slow but you seem to be maturing faster. Don't be in a rush to grow up because your breasts will stop growing once you are 18-20. You can wear padded bras to make them look bigger.

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hey uh i asked a girl out like 3 months ago an she jus sined off an wanted 2 stay friends well fo a while ive been actin hella sweet 2 her and i got her a really expencive b-day present an i shown her how much i really love her should i try askin her out agin? thx

If you think that she might have some feelings towards you then ask her out. If she doesn't like you anymore, then maybe you shouldn't. But, if you are'nt sure ask her out anyways. Good luck.

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Hi..Before I put my poem in I have to say, it's disappointing that there isnt an Arts & Literature section.

Secondly, heres my poem.(It's about loseing friends..like not deathwise but friendships ending.)

Memories

I remember how we used to laugh together
We barely ever fought, we got along just fine
We always said we'd be friends forever..
But now you say the fault of our friendships ending is mine

I dont understand what I ever did to you to make you hate me
You wont even hear me out
I was always there as a shoulder to cry on
To help you when you were in doubt

Sure, I had problems with my other friends
I worked things out with them
That's when you decided our friendship had to end.

So what it seems to me is that you cant accept who else I'm friends with
Do you really think its fair?
I accepted everyone else you hung out with
If I didnt like your friends, I shrugged it off and didnt care

But now I've learned that I dont need you
I have other great friends whom I know are true.
So what I'm trying to say is sorry for your loss.

I figured out that friendships dont always last.
I see you have moved on and so have I.
I need to stop living in the past,
And continue living my life..





Please let me know what you think! All answers are appriciated!

I LOVE that poem. It reminds me of someone I knew. You are really good at it, and I hope you continute to write more!!!

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Ok so im 13/F 8th grade! So last year i really liked this guy...we saw eachother a little bit of the summer and then i didnt like him any more well i had this dream with him in it and i remembered how much i like him...well we dont have any classes together and like idk we say hay in the hallways n stuff he always says it really loud to which makes me smilee! Well we dont really talk cause we dont have any time exceot like when we go outside after lunch but hes with all his buddies and plus i dont know what i would say to him...i have his number but i when i used to call him i would do all the talking and hed give like one word answers so idk what to do...i really like him and i want him to like me tooo....please helpp im desperate! Thanks

Aw, well since you really like him you have to find a way to talk to him. In the hall when you see him just say hey!! No matter where or when you see him just wave or say something. Find time to be around him. If he has a screen name talk to him online and ask him to go to the movies or somewhere and just hang out. Good luck! But member, if you want his attention you have to talk to him.

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when there are sales from hollister and american eagle.. how much are the sweaters/sweatshirts and shirts for?

They are half the price. At Hollister when they have sales, like lets say a hoodie or something. They are usually $40 but it would be on sale for $20 or 30. American Eagle, the same. They have more sales then Hollister though. Just go to the website and it will tell you.

www.ae.com

www.hollisterco.com

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can the gyno tell if u broke ur hymen ?

Yeah, I think so.

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